my curiosity leads me in to a big shock
By se7enthbird
@se7enthbird (8307)
Philippines
August 4, 2011 7:02pm CST
i was at my wife's facebook page and was looking around. then suddenly i remembered one of her friends that we did not see for a long time already. the last news we have with her was she was at Korea working as a singer and she was sent home for she is always sick. so i search for her page and then the big shock is right there in front of my face. her friend Ruby who is just 28 year old dead. i called my wife for her to take a look at it and she was shock and she was crying. one of Ruby's friend post on her wall her goodbye's. so to know the truth, she ask a question on Ruby's wall and after a few minutes the sister of Ruby commented that her sister died of Lupus yesterday morning. until now my wife is very sad. we are planning to go there, its a long drive but we will go there.
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7 responses
@lbygyh970855 (236)
• China
5 Aug 11
Life is so fragile. Sometimes I really feel so. But what has gone can never return. Wish you and your wife have a happy life.
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
thank you very much. life is short so we need to move fast. forgive fast and enjoy life. we dont know what will happen tomorrow so might as well live a happy life. me and my wife are okay, though i see her very sad at times and still have teary eyes when talking about her, i pity the husband, his wife left him alone, they dont have any children yet so it will be a very sad year but we are all praying for him too. thanks a lot for the response.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
Oh it's really sad that people leave our lives so unexpectedly. The curiosity is actually a good thing now, else you two wouldn't have known and wouldn't have been able to visit her for the last time.
I think your curiosity actually lead you to something good. To know what has happened, to get in touch and though it's tough, to say farewell to a friend.
Anyhow, what you could do for your wife today is just to comfort her. To assure her that things like this may happen but you'll always be by her side to comfort her. Just be the loving husband that you are and assist her in this great time of loss.
Have a great myLot experience today!
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@nanayangel (7877)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
Hi there se7enthbird!
I'm sorry to hear about your wife's friend. It's really sad to hear about someone dying especially very early in his or her life.
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
20 Aug 11
Oh I am sorry to hear this my friend and must have been a real shocker. To hear of someone we care about and have not seen in a while of their passing is truly very disheartening. I hope your wife is okay and that you all were able to go.
Hope that the drive went okay and you were able to share the sorrow with the family.
@iamsummer (192)
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5 Aug 11
Life is fragile we can't predict what will happen in next second,the only thing we can do is to cherish now.and sorry for you lost.
