i am frustrated of what i am ?me myself i cant deny the fact that im not pretty.
@sarameastrong (826)
Surrey, British Columbia
August 26, 2011 5:07am CST
i want to discuss my love life topic here in this page ,i want to erase my pains and weaknesses wash it away through my words or let me say through this discussions and responses from others,.i was so embarassed,disappoint when my boyfriend did not even say sweet words anymore and not even message me or any cares to me .i expect his text message everyday but no message came.I Text him that thank you ,and hope you will be happy of what you did for not texting me or inviting me anymore.maybe im not pretty as other girls thats why you easily start to reject me ]thats it now i feel so hurts and very painful in my heart.idont know what to do first to forget him ,a week ago no communication with him he s gone like a bubbles.i missed him ,i always message him but no response .
please anyone can advice me so i could correct myself.and relieve my pain.im so lonely everytime i go to work and remember him so painful.
thank you and godbless.
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6 responses
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
23 Mar 13
as long as you will say to yourself and others that you are not pretty, then they will behave like that as your thought make them to feel and believe that you are not pretty even if you are.
so stop that, try to love yourself and then see another also will start loving you.
say to yourself before going to sleep and in the morning when you get up that yes, I am so cute, lovely and pretty, everybody loves me and I am happy on what I am.
feel yourself and concern on beauty and believe that you are pretty.
it will work.
@sarameastrong (826)
• Surrey, British Columbia
23 Mar 13
wow thank you for the brilliant response ,i will do it for myself and not for the others ,have a nice day.
@rsa101 (40976)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
Well one thing is noticeable with your post in here, you lack the confidence for yourself. I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder, if you yourself do not find yourself beautiful yourself nobody will appreciate you.
First thing I would advice you is to love yourself first before you start to share that love to others. I think people will love you when you start loving yourself and not pushing yourself to be ugly. Feel beautiful about yourself and get comfortable with it. Your beauty does not emanate from how you look but you you project yourself to others.
@sarameastrong (826)
• Surrey, British Columbia
23 Mar 13
ok thank you for the response .i appreciate your encouragement how to stand with confidence.have a nice day.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
26 Aug 11
hello sara,
If your boyfriend loves you, physical looks is not the main topic here.
He was your boyfriend right?..and he was the one who courted you and asked for your love.
So, it means he find you beautiful and out- so, why you were thinking like this now?
Just because he missed texting you and sending you messages?
Dear, have you tried to find out the reason why he's not able to send you text?
Have you ever tried to call him and ask him if he is fine, what if he is sick and confined?
Do your move first before judging him.
Unless you have already done your best to communicate and he is not responding- well, that's another question.
Have a great weekend ahead 
jaiho®
jaiho®@sarameastrong (826)
• Surrey, British Columbia
26 Aug 11
ahm,i give him load so that he can communicate me ,but still no response.
@anitha123 (252)
• India
26 Aug 11
Think you are the best always. He doesn't deserves you. He has the bad characters of hurting and not understanding other people. Is there any good character that you can see to have him. Enjoy your life. Find Someone. But this time search for the best one.
@roshigo58 (4856)
• Pune, India
28 Aug 12
Hi,
I can understand your feelings. Your bf is not ready to talk to you. You love him very much but doesn't care for you. You have tried many times to contact and communicate with him. But he is not giving response to you. you shouldn't blame yourself for this. He doesn't deserves you. There should be some another made for you. Don't waste time in thinking about a person who is not caring about you. Forget him, go ahead and try to spend life happily. Don't think like that you are inferior than him. Go ahead, forget about the past and keep smiling always and try to bring the happiness on the faces of others.
@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
16 Jul 12
Hey there girl, cheer up and hold that head up high! :) If you look down on yourself like you do now, how else can you expect others to find beauty in yourself when you yourself cannot even accept the beauty that you naturally have?
How old are you? How old did you enter into a relationship with your bf? You have lived without him for quite some time; do not let your world revolve around him only. Treasure and know your self worth that he may soon see for what you truly are. Remember, what you feel inside reflects strongly on your physical looks, and in turn, on how others see you.
@sarameastrong (826)
• Surrey, British Columbia
23 Aug 12
thank you ,sorry for late response ..i am 22 years old already and i started to enter relationship at the age of 20..mybe im just insecure.
anyway thank you for the positive message and i appreciate your strong words for me ..
godbless
