he is hurt me, but I keep to love him

So sad to know why you still stay with him just because he's the father of your daughter even though he keeps on hurting you . .why dont you try to talk to him and tell him about how you feel. .and if still theres no improvement on him. .i guess its better to leave him that stay with him and he keeps on hurting you. .this will affect on the child if she sees that her father keep hurting her mother . .

I guess you should let him know what you feel for him. When relationship is involved with a child it is really very hard to run away from a bad relationship because you are considering an innocent child that might get affected. But I guess what better way to know if continuing the relationship is still good, then you have to know it by telling him how you feel and see what he will tell you.

Our partners tend to be foolish and stupid at times; they fail to see our love for them and chooses to hurt us in numbers of ways. I agree with you that love is a sacrifice.. But it should be worked on greatly. Love is painful, but if you sow, so shall you reap. If your husband/partner/bf realizes that you are the only person who is true to him and is very loyal to him, I am quite sure that he would see your value and would understand your love for him and not hurt you anymore. Always pray for him too.. and pray that God gives you strength as you get over this painful experience in your life.

Applaud! He has already stolen your heart. You are his possession. ha! ha! Tolerance, Faithful and Understanding are the must to have a happy family. You have gotten all of these. Work harder not for him but for your children and yourself.

Love is a sacrifice i accept this but love must be on both sides...Means in you as well as him. He has to understand you once in a while. Try to explain him about your feelings. Hope he will understand you and be happy with your husband and baby..

oh that's sad:( but maybe it's better if you tell him that you felt offended or hurt from his behavior, because sometimes we offend people unintentionally. but it's really true that however they hurt us, we still love them no matter what.

hi reinykwan no no no.He hurt y ou and that is wrong. talk it over but do not just tolerate it as the ne xt time he will do worse. he sounds controlling .love is not meant to be painful. if h e likes to hurt you because he cannot control his anger he needs anger mamagement classes and you need to learn you do not deserve to be hurt at all ever.Are you going to wait until he knocks you flat then moans forgive me?He sounds like a potential wife batterer so be fore w arned. do not be the person battered., love is a two way street and battering someone is not loving them., it has to be stopped or it will continue until he kills you.

I think it's important to let him know how you feel about whatever he did, as it might be something that he simply doesn't realise hurt you and he might be very sorry. Alternatively, if he is treating you badly a lot of the time, it might be wise to have a look at the relationship to see if it's really right for you and your child?

If that is what you want to be quiet and not to tell him how hurt you are with his action and behavior. If you love him make sure he treat you right. Tell him that you hurt everytime he did his bad behavior and he should stop and be sensitive to your feelings. Maybe he doesn't know that you hurt and that it is ok with you the way he acted, that is why he always do that to you. If you need to sacrifice its ok, but also he should do.

Yes i understand you that you really love you husband as a father of your kids. I also believe you that love is blind and this is an old saying. Ok try to keep on loving him as you feel coz if yourself is your no 1 enemy when it comes to this situation. Time will come you will feel the hatred if he really abuse your love. Dont worry everything will be okay. Time will help you to get well.

I think you must give a lesson so he will not hurt you again. Make something that can make him feel regret on what he do to you. He is the father of your daughter so i think he must also know that he must not hurt you because you are the mother of her daughter and a wife is not meant to be hurt by her partner. I think you must also think that you are already a mother, there is a possibility that there is a time that he might hurt you more and you must also protect you daughter from him.