I love my family!
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
United States
November 25, 2011 8:49am CST
When I say I love my family, I don't just mean the family I live with, which is my daughter and son-in-law. I also mean my extended family. Yesterday, Thanksgiving, I spent the whole day with my 'adopted' mom. My mom and brothers are all of a different race than I am. My mom and brothers are black and I'm white... does that matter? NOOOOO! Yesterday we sat around the table after our meal, and I said, "Mama, we haven't done something yet. I said, "We haven't said what we are thankful for." So Doug started off, and I was second, and Shackey was next, and then, Eddie, and then Mama. Mama started and couldn't hold back the tears. She said how wonderful it was that she has ALL of her children gathered around the table at Thanksgiving. She told me right there at the table that she couldn't love me more than if she bore me herself. And then she was typical MAMA and said I wish you made more of an effort to go to church... but that's just mama. I love my Mama Jo! She has only been my Mama since 1997, but it feels like she has been my 2nd mama all my life.
Is there someone, not actually related to you, whom means the world to you as if they were a mom or dad? Please share your experiences.
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@deliar (609)
• Indonesia
26 Nov 11
how family you are.
i also love so much my family at all.
i have "extended" family, my sister, she is belong to my sister from a friendship relation and grow till like now.
she is really cute and she always ask me something that she doesnt know about something,
she is 16 years old and me 19 years old. i do only see her as my sister.
many time she come to my home, visit my parents.
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
26 Nov 11
Family is wonderful.. and it doesn't take blood to be a family. I'm so happy that we can love people and they become family to us.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
25 Nov 11
U are very blessed to have an extended family like that. Ur 2nd mama has got to be a GOOD PERSON W/THE NAME JO. tHAT'S MY NAME TO, LOL.I am so glad u had such a good day.

@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
4 Dec 11
Thanks for sharing this my friend. This is an awesome story, and Glad that you have someone in your life who cares about you this way. It is always good to have an extended family like this. I have a couple who I have known for quite a while, since I was in my 20s that are an extended family. Too young to be my Mom, but they are someone I can count on when I need to talk.
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
4 Dec 11
It don't take blood to be family...
I'm glad you have someone too. It's just wonderful. I have a few 'sisters' here on Mylot too... one is in Canada, one is in Indiana and one is in Germany. I also have a 'daughter/friend' in Nevada... It is so easy for me to love people. They become family to me.
I'm glad you have someone too. It's just wonderful. I have a few 'sisters' here on Mylot too... one is in Canada, one is in Indiana and one is in Germany. I also have a 'daughter/friend' in Nevada... It is so easy for me to love people. They become family to me. @RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
13 Dec 11
hi dear PointlessQuestions, I am glad to read you have your adopted Mom and its very touching what she said to you this Thanksgiving.
I also have the privilege of the friendship to an elderly couple who mean as much to me as if they were my bio parents. See it started when I attended the Baptist Church in my old hometown. This was about 25 years ago and when I got there first time and saw and heard their preacher I thought, Wow if Jesus would have been older than 33 years he would certainly have behaved and talked like this.
This Pastor and his dear wife really walked their talk. They saw that I had struggles with my birth family for such simple things like being ME, and choosing the Christian Denomination I wanted to be part of. Secretly I named the Pastor the Daddy Pastor.
Then I was off to the Holy Land with a group of people and Daddy Pastor led the group. It was a wonderful time of 2 weeks with them and in the way he treated his grown children I saw what a good father is like and it was heart breaking that one of the grown kids was so snotty with him instead being thankful for his loving concern. My own father never had been considerate cause my parents are divorced so I didnt have a good role model of a father in my life.
Daddy Pastors Wife was the one who encouraged me and listened to me and also helped me through the not so good patches of life a lot.
When the Pastor retired and later moved into a Senior Citizens Home in another city, I wrote them a long letter thanking them for everything they had done for me and telling them as long as they are still healthy, physically and mentally, that they mean as much as parents. That I honor and love them like parents and thats without any obligations on their part as they have 4 kids, already.
A little over one year ago cancer came back to my Heart Mom Anne and when I learned of it, we took a 5 hour drive one way, stayed there 3 hours then headed back home that was the least I could do.
I wrote her a card or letter for each day she was on a nasty chemo like medication and prepared myself for the worst to come.
She passed away in July this year and I miss her more than I miss my bio mother who passed away in May this year. I was sobbing through all of the memorial service cause I did and still do miss Anne a lot.
I am so thankful for the time I had with her. She was a lady of few words but with a golden heart.
@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
13 Dec 11
ooops forgot to mention something which really was super remarkable. When I got married my bio mother had a fit about it. That was 6 years ago when I was 43 and my husband 44.
My Daddy Pastor and hiw Wife took a Plane from where they were to my old hometown as a surprise and attended the church wedding. When we were walking the aisle, they both stood there beaming and Daddy Pastor made the thumbs up sign so THAT was the parental blessing my own mother refused to give me. Infact my bio mother attended the civil and the church ceremony to make me feel uncomfortable and maybe say no instead of yes cause she was around.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
13 Dec 11
Hi RitterSport,
I remember you telling me how much your parents of the Heart are to you.. I think it is awesome that they were there for you when your own parents weren't. I'm glad that your Daddy Pastor was there for you with the thumbs up sign. I'm sure it meant the world to you. We all need someone in our lives to love us and lift us up. I'm glad you have that in your parents of the heart. Though Anne is gone, you have her precious memory in your heart.
Love you always,
PQ
@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
13 Dec 11
yes dear PQ you are right. They mean the world to me and I dearly do miss my Anne especially now as Christmas is nearing that fast. I am also glad that God provided me wich such great friends who are like parents to me.
@wangexplore1259 (102)
• China
26 Nov 11
Before I went to college,I lived with my parents in our house.At that time,I didn't realize how much my parents had done for me,and I even thought they deserved to do all for me.What was worse,I quarreled with them about disagreements on certain things.Now in the college,far from home,I would often miss my family a lot,and I've finally realized how much my parents have done for me and what an excellent family I have,with my parents both loving me so much.The day before yesterday was Thanksgiving,and I gave each of my parents a phone call to express my appreciation for their love in me.And I would treasure my parents,treasure my family more in the days to come.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
26 Nov 11
Oh is Thanksgiving celebrated in China too? I thought it was just an American holiday. Canada celebrates it a month before we do. Yes, I agree.. we don't always realize the extent that our parents do for us.





