My Crushes in School are GAYS!

@cearn25 (3452)
Philippines
December 18, 2011 7:46pm CST
I have so many crushes. I just like them because I admire their way they handle their selves and they also handsome. When I was first year college, I already have 2 crushes. I got crushed on them because they are so good in public speaking. Now that I am third year college, I noticed that something has changed in them. They are now very much open their sexuality. They are not what I have known anymore but still they are still very handsome. I was shocked. But there is nothing I can do but to accept them as who they are.
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@neelia_lyn (2003)
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
I thought you were referring to Papa Piolo, but of course all about him is still not confirmed. You are lucky they are just your crushes, beware not to fall in love with them. Well, I think there's nothing wrong having crushes with them because they are good looking. Good luck on your next crushes
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
Well, you could try to make them real men :)
@cearn25 (3452)
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
Yes, that is one factor that is why I got crushed on them. Aside from being good looking, they are intelligent too and they got the height. I just regret them as gays. I want them to be man.
@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
1 Jun 12
i remember my friends who were in school that were dominated by gay men.. almost all of their crushes were gay. it is really a sad truth that some gay men are very handsome and cool.
@cearn25 (3452)
• Philippines
1 Jun 12
Sad but true. I see also a lot of news that most of the highschool boys are gays in a specific country. I can't accept fully how they turned out to be. Now I am not going to have a crush on someone that easy. I still have to confirm if he is gay or not.
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
19 Dec 11
It sounds like you are good at finding worthy qualities to admire. But I'm sure you realize that to go on a date with these guys would be really boring (and safe!).
@cearn25 (3452)
• Philippines
29 May 12
Thanks my friend if you think I am good at finding worthy qualities. I don't want to ruin my life and don't want to make a wrong mistake. I don't think so that I will find them boring. Actually they are fun although we are not close.
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
It's a good thing that in our younger days, my crushes are all of manly type. And until now, they still are. I think, nowadays it's so hard to discern whether a man is gay. It seems that with the proliferation of gays, some men acquired their ways and suddenly becomes one of them. Sad but it is true now.
@cearn25 (3452)
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
It is really hard to identify now whose gay or not because some men are really men the way they handle their self. I have one crush which is my classmate now. I didn't expect him to be gay because he got the perfect height and face for being a man.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
hello, ha ha, does it change when you enter third year college? maybe they are now free and more matured on how to handle their sexuality. Thank God it never happened to me because I also have a lot of crush in our school though I have a boyfriend but of course I never flirt on them I just notice them. Its alright? You can actually look for another. alright?
@cearn25 (3452)
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
Crushes are normal for us girls even we have boyfriends. Maybe by this time they want to really show who they are. Maybe it is time.
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
19 Dec 11
A girl's worst nightmare! I thought it doesn't happen at all that often but you have proven that it does! I thought it was rare for a girl to have feelings for a guy who is gay, I guess it's easier to fall for them when they're in the closet. But you just have to accept the way they are, they are people like you and me but it really sucks when you thought that maybe you just had a chance! My friend fell in the same situation. She likes to look at pictures on Tumblr and she found a few nice looking guys there. She started to stalk them and said how handsome and nice abs they had. She stalked some more only to find out the two guys she liked were gay! She also liked this singer on youtube, she fond him on Facebook and bam! He was gay too! She started to get pretty sad and upset and complained why all the hot looking guys were always gay. I guess us ladies fall for them because we just have lots in common with gay guys. They're more comfortable to be round with and they're more understanding. Best as friends but probably not relationships.
@cearn25 (3452)
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
I think it happens for some girls. I don't know how they will react. As for me, at first i was shocked, but later on I accepted them for who they are. As long as they are happy I am happy too.
@beki710 (949)
19 Dec 11
I think that coming out as gay is a huge step and it is probably something that earlier in their life they have hidden because they don't know how others will react to it. I wouldn't worry about having a crush on people who may be gay now, my sister dated a guy for a good year who came out as gay about 2 years after they broke up. As long as you are there to support them that is important!
@cearn25 (3452)
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
Yes! You are right! I am no against with gays. I just didn't expected of what they are right now. Many men has revealed their true self. I support them absolutely as long as they are happy.