there still is time for us to avoid a debate useless
By advokatku
@advokatku (4033)
Indonesia
January 15, 2012 8:45pm CST
If we are busy debating something that is not useful, we're also will guilty or even more wrong than people who start a debate. Because with conscious our energy has waste time to unnecessarily thing.
Isn't we often experience it? sometime we often involved in a debate useless with spouses, neighbors or colleagues. We argue or fight for the things that a useless, which actually from beginning we has know just will drain our power.
Remember, there still is time for us to avoid a debate or argument which futile and big mistake for us if give response to a debate useless
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4 responses
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
16 Jan 12
In discussion I always reread a post or post response to be sure I am coming across as friendly and accepting.. I think "doing as we would be done by" will cease most arguments
@Sebastion1234 (293)
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16 Jan 12
Went is out control exp a hot temper people better just stop the debate and let it go
@alicia812 (646)
• Australia
16 Jan 12
Hi advokatku. I think it is a common mistake
that we sometimes engage to conversations and
end up into a heated argument due to narrow-
minded thinking. I believe that in a plain
conversation, each participant shall be open-
minded to be able to come up with a talk that
is useful and sensible. Otherwise, the same
leads to argument and non-sense debate, with
each participant wanting to win and prove that
they are right and the other person is wrong.
Level-mindedness is a must to avoid useless
debate which results to fights and misunder-
standings
@xiaohunmeihua (209)
• China
16 Jan 12
Yeah as you have said sometimes we clearly know we are having a debate without meaning but we can hardly control ourselves in doing so even though we may regret a lot having doing that. I think that is because we cannot bare other people's ridiculous opinion to us and cannot wait to let others receive ourselves' thought. And sometimes we may feel Lose Face if not debate as fighting back. If we can control ourselves, situations could be much better.
