Problem to my love from my first girl friend

To be honest with you if your new girl friend trusts the word of your ex girl friend over your word then it is probably no meant to be with her. I really hope this dont hurt you. But real girl friends wouldnt believe anything an ex would have to say about her new boy friend. All ex girl friends or ex boy friends have something bad to say about the other ex. Even if its not true.

i think you have to make sure that your ex-girlfriend doesn't contact your new girlfriend. and try to prove to your girlfriend that your are not a bad person. show her that your truly love her and that your are willing to do whatever it takes just to prove to her that she is wrong. if it doesn't work and she still believes in what your ex-girlfriend is saying, then she doesn't really love you at all. because if she does loves you, she will talk to you first before acting weird towards you.

People will only believe what others say if there is already something wrong. It's not possible to ruin a good relationship. I think your new girlfriend already had some doubts about you. Perhaps there are small things in your behavior which she sees as the same your old girl friend is telling about you. So you better talk withyour new girl friend. She is the one you have a relationship with now so you should focus on her and be open to her. It's very hard for me to believe there is nothing wrong with you and you are Mr Perfect. Nobody is in any relationship. It takes to to have a good relationship but also two to make it worse or to break up. I also wonder how many times you are attentive to your new girlfriend, how hugable and sweet you are. Or are you the one who loves to be pampered and gives nothing in return? Hating someone else, blaming someone else won't save this relationship of yours. As said before: you can only ruin or break a relationship if there is already something wrong/going on. If your new girlfriend would be blindly in love with you, not see who you are she would not believe any worth of what is told.

I don't have to get rid of her. Let her be, if you pay attention to her she will just keep doing this. I suggest first you talk to the girl you are with at the moment. Discuss about the things the other girls said and tell her how you really are. If she doesn't want to talk about it or if she doesn't want to listen to you or understand maybe you are wasting your time with her. I think communication and trust is important in a relationship. I don't know how old you are or what you expect from this relationship but if you want a serious relationship you should discuss this kind of things. It takes two to be in relationship so if she just keeps to herself and don't want to discuss anything let her be. But if you know how to talk to her and she is not shallow you will sort this out. Communication really is the key to solving this kind of problems. You need to trust each other and not listen to anything other people say. Especially previous girlfriends/boyfriends. A lot of the time they just want to get even for something in the past and want to screw things up. Don't hate you ex, love you current gf and talk to her.

Just simply ask her. it may work. lol

Show your new girlfriend that everything that your old girlfriend says about you is all but lies. Your past girl friend can't get over you. Shame on her. LOL! Show your new girlfriend how much you love her. Be romantic. Girls like that:)