Why are some people are so disrespectful,,,,

@bjc66bjc (6730)
United States
May 20, 2012 6:33pm CST
I just went into the front area of my apartment and the Mexicans are playing their music so loud its terrible...Thank God its not sounding in my bedroom...I don't hear it at all in my bedroom... Now, I have no problem with any party or any tpe of music however, I think when you play your music it should be for the benefit of you and your guest not the entire block....
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@celticeagle (189833)
• Boise, Idaho
21 May 12
I think some feel the louder the better. I used to have neighbors right above me that always had their music on loud. I would go up and knock and they wouldn't answer so I called the police. I gave them every chance to do the right thing and they wouldn't. It is a matter of respect when you live in apartment complexes. And some people don't have respect for others.
@celticeagle (189833)
• Boise, Idaho
21 May 12
They have no concept of living in close quarters with other people. And they are so self involved they don't care about others. Ugh!
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
21 May 12
hi celticeagle, you are so right,,,the bottom line is that some people have absolutely no respect for other.....
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
21 May 12
Yes, i an totally relate.. Whenever they have parties, our neighbors always play sound so loud- and sing karaoke that the whole neighborhood can hear. Sometimes they go on and on until dawn and my mom has to call someone to make them stop.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
21 May 12
Oh hell no, until dawn???? are you serious? they would definately not be out there with the loud music after 9;00PM the police would be here in a heart beat...I have call the police and they have said to me "miss are you having a party" and thats when I say "NO" its the clowns next door....so the police will respond to the complaint if you call....
@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
21 May 12
Yeah, they are the worst, they talk with loud voices too when they are drunk.. When it is already 10 or 11 my mom calls someone already to end the party though. But the drinking usually lasts longer.
@sid556 (30953)
• United States
21 May 12
I live in a neighborhood that is pretty much over-run with college kids. I have been here so long that to be honest, it doesn't really bother me. I have always lived in very noisy places to the point that I really think silence would keep me awake more than the noise would. Well my daughter and her boyfriend spent the weekend with me. Last nite I came home at midnight from work and he was watching tv. The sound seemed quite loud to me but that could be that I'm just not used to even having my tv on much less at that hour. I adjusted rather quickly. I got on here for a while and when I went to bed, he was still watching. I guess he fell asleep watching it. This morning he apologized and asked why I didn't just shut it off. It honestly did not keep me from sleeping. That being said, there are usually noise ordinances. I think in most places it is before and after 9pm and am that you have to keep the volume down??? maybe it's 10am and 10pm. If it were bothering me then I think I'd ask them nicely to turn it down.
@rosegardens (3032)
• United States
21 May 12
I do not know why people don't think of others. Now, if it's a party they only have a few times a year, I can overlook it. But if it is constant that is just bad manners. I have to put up with the bass and the boom boom rattling my windows at night. No fun. Maybe if they continue doing this you can call the police on them. There is a noise ordinance they must follow.
• United States
21 May 12
Those dang Mexicans! just joking at your reference that the Mexicans are loud. . I think I would have just refrenced them as loud people. I agree. When you live in a crowded situation you have to keep the noise down. I'm glad I live in the country in a separate house. If my neighbors want to make noise it's not close enough to bother me. where I'm moving to is a quiet neighborhood also.
• United States
21 May 12
I hope you don't get any gang violence there. That's what I would worry about for you angle Gifts.
21 May 12
some people were just like that, maybe i can share a story to you.. i have a friend, and i consider him as my best friend. and i care for him. he's younger than me, so as his 'sister' i feel i have some responsibility for him, about what would he be, what kind of person he would be, kind or good, his grade in colleges, i do care. he had a kidney transplantation 6 years ago and his family have to spent for almost us$1.500 a month JUST for his medication. he lives normally. go to college, eat drink and other normally, hang out with friends, just like normal people, the different is he has to take a medicine every single day and check up to the doctor every 6 months, logically, where the hell we can get us$ 1.500 a month? exclude for the daily use and etc, i feel pity for his family because he act like he don't even care at all, he went to work and keep playing blackberry during the office hour, he keep breaking the promises he made which i think can make people don't trust him anymore, i keep spending money in fact he didn't earn even a bucks, i keep telling him to change, get a good job, study seriously, be a nice person, have a nice attitude so people can like him easily which i think can make him to be easy to get a job, and possibly can get him to a higher level of his job, but he don't even listen to me, he kept saying i'm so lousy, please don't be to smarty about my life, i want to be having fun for the rest of my life, i don't even care about my life, you guys see? what kind of respond are that? so brainless, we're doing the best for some people but sometimes, people don't even respect our opinion in fact all that we do is for their own sake, so yeah.. there's some kind of that people
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
21 May 12
A guy who lives in the same house does the same. He turns out loud when he listens to music or watching movies.. i can hear all well even i close door for my room. he does as if he lives alone in that house... It is really bad...
• United States
21 May 12
I have lived in many different places, apartments, trailor courts and houses in subdivisions, and yes people are very disrespectful. I rent a house now and I still have to deal with neighbors and their party noise. I also live close to a major highway and have traffic noise as well. I just keep my windows closed and when I go to bed I sleep with a box fan on to drown out the noise.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
21 May 12
Usually here if we have a party (qwhich is never) but say if we did. Normally we will notify the neighbours early and explain even invite them to the party. Usually neighbours dont mind if we advise them ahead of time, but then we dont play any muysic loud considering the neighbours. But also after a certain time such as 10 pm we dont play it and shut it off as many are going to bed. I find many just dont take into consideration other around them.