Time will solve all
By didi13
@didi13 (2926)
Romania
May 25, 2012 3:41am CST
Whenever we have chosen not to resolve a conflict, do not carry a conversation or do not put your finger on a problem that time will solve them all? Tell me, how many times have you left for your problems and conflicts?
Well, forget that in some cases, time will not solve anything. He can. On the contrary, it will increase problems. Do you think that if you fight with someone and let things like that, unresolved, while you look and everything will resolve itself? Wrong. Or maybe ... if you're lucky, will be resolved superficially. Bypassing that person should have a serious conversation, not only demonstrates that you want to delay as much time and that you are afraid of confrontation. No, when something bothers you, time will not solve anything. When you are angry husband or wife and sighs gently saying "time will fix that", you are wrong. Time is not made ??to solve your problems for you. He goes and that's all.
Not allow time to resolve what to fix you. Take matters in hand. Go to the person and tell him it bothers you, go to wear the conversation you need to wear and work to heal your wounds. Why? For the time passes ...
4 responses
@swapmind (355)
• Australia
25 May 12
There are situations when your effort is in vain because you cannot make other understand the impact of a problem, in such situations its good to leave to time as time teaches bigger lessons than a verbal stint.but there are instances when an immediate solution is the only remedy in order to settle things and if not solved may turn really grave.so conflict and solution are relativistic in nature and needs to be acted accordingly.
@MoonGypsy (4605)
• United States
25 May 12
this happens with couples all the time. one or the other partner will choose just to avoid the conflict and either leave the room, or not respond. sometimes i will attempt to do this with my husband to try and squash an argument. this doesn't work. my husband taught me that. time won't heal, it will just go on with you or the other person seething. they have more of a chance to think about what and how they are mad at you. it's best to just hash it out. even if you have to tell the other person that you need a break to cool off, first. then, go work it out a.s.a.p!...as soon as tempers have cooled. this is how me and mine practices doing it. it doesn't always work, because he is a loud person and i am so not. it doesn't matter though, we get there before it's get to be more than yelling and being mad. we would never break each other's character with hurtful names, nor will there ever be violence, but he tries to respect that i don't like when he raises his voice to prove his point.
@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
25 May 12
I'm sorry I've waited so long to tell you this didi. I think i have a big crush for you!
It feels like such a dilemma sometimes. You don't want to make things worse, you want to cool your temper, you don't want to speak in haste and so you walk away and give it time. It is so easy for something else to get in the way and before you know it time has passed us. I think you are right do, say, just react in the best manner you can. I think the best friendships I ever had came out of a little arguement and a sorry after. Just need to mean it.
