Do you think being homosexual is a choice or thier born with it?
By sweetpea_216
@sweetpea_216 (1470)
United States
November 29, 2006 10:16pm CST
I really think it's a lifestyle people choose. It's my religion talkng too. It's just that I believe in a man and woman. There are so many arguments about this, but I'm still 75% sure it's a lifestyle.
10 responses
@sillygirlsd (959)
• United States
30 Nov 06
A person is born homosexual. A person cannot help who they CHOOSE to love or be with. Yes some people can hide it or just deal with being homosexual but I think it's harder for them to hide it then to just deal with it. I'm catholic but you know whatever lifestlye someone else chooses doesn't bother me it's not my life and I'm not anyone to judge them on who they are with or whether they are gay!
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@sweetpea_216 (1470)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I'm all about being non-judgmental. I have had friends that were homosexuals but it's just how i feel about the situation.
@sweetpea_216 (1470)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Guess you wanted to make a point, hehehe. The postings below this one are a little, how can I say this . . redundant. Must have been a glitch.
@Celanith (2327)
• United States
30 Nov 06
It is a choice, some may have repressed memories of abuse and so choose that lifestyle. But they are not ever born with it. God does not create something he considers and abomination. He said Men would choose to have unnatural affection for one another and that it is an aboration to God. Some may not know why they choose it. Is it unforgiveable? Yes if some turns around and repents God will always forgive them. They are lost not abandoned.
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@sweetpea_216 (1470)
• United States
30 Nov 06
This is a great comment. My belief sometimes conflicts with my friends lifestyle but I still love them and try to "help."
@SparkyG (357)
• United States
15 Dec 06
In the book of Genesis it talks about how god created the world and all thoose who dwell in it. "And, the Lord saw that it was good." So if God created us, and everything he created is good how is a homosexual guilty of making this choice?
"Judge not lest you be judged." Matthew 7:1
@sweetpea_216 (1470)
• United States
30 Nov 06
hmmm . . iwas starting to think that perhaps I was the only one that thought so.
@sweetpea_216 (1470)
• United States
30 Nov 06
Hmm. . . that's an interesting theory. Peer pressure and upbringing.
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
15 Dec 06
There have already been studies that has proven that homosexuality is actually from the genes. Try looking it up in the internet regarding the human genome project or what they call the homosexual gene. So in conclusion, yes one is actually born a homosexual.
@sweetpea_216 (1470)
• United States
15 Dec 06
It is interesting how many things they can say that are genetic. I guess it just depends on what you want to believe.
@pretty_babe (703)
• New Zealand
26 Mar 08
Hi there.
I know that God created Men and Woman to Man and Wife. I know equally that He did sure not make Men and Woman to be neither Man and Man or Woman and Woman. It is sure as Eggs a lifestyle that people choose. As was said in a Panel Discussion at a Camp I went to "People may be born with the Genes of Family Members who have had Gay or Homosexual Genes in them, but it only takes their SELF CONTROL to stay straight, if therefore there is anyone who is Gay or Lesbian then IT IS CHOICE not GENES." It is a LIFESTYLE not a FAMILY TRADITION or anything to this kind of Effect.
Catch ya later.
@sillygirlsd (959)
• United States
30 Nov 06
A person is born homosexual. A person cannot help who they CHOOSE to love or be with. Yes some people can hide it or just deal with being homosexual but I think it's harder for them to hide it then to just deal with it. I'm catholic but you know whatever lifestlye someone else chooses doesn't bother me it's not my life and I'm not anyone to judge them on who they are with or whether they are gay!
@sillygirlsd (959)
• United States
30 Nov 06
A person is born homosexual. A person cannot help who they CHOOSE to love or be with. Yes some people can hide it or just deal with being homosexual but I think it's harder for them to hide it then to just deal with it. I'm catholic but you know whatever lifestlye someone else chooses doesn't bother me it's not my life and I'm not anyone to judge them on who they are with or whether they are gay!
@shaj_me (149)
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
God created only 2 human beings---a man & a woman..there are no such thing as gays and lesbians.. so i think it's more of a choice. but science also speaks up---its on the chromosomes and genes of a particular person..it is embeded on the human body's blueprint--- X & Y chromosomes.. the Bible and Science books will never be of same path, ever since...they both have different views on every aspect of human life.





