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myLot reputation of 52/100. lwethu (215)4 years ago

I am 28 yrs old can are date a 54 years old man.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 78/100. zahir_dk (662)   4 years ago

Well, u can but u shd not....
Ppl say that if u feel comfortable with him, if u r happy, just go around with him.... thats true... u shd be with the person u love.... But tell me Honestly.. do u think this will last for more than a month or two....
Nopes thats what i think honestly... coz in somedays surely there will be some differences between ur thinking and his thinking.... thats the generation gap... and both of us ll surely start to avoid each other.....
So its better to go around with someone with whom u can live ur entire life.. so find someone who can understand u for all of ur life... who ll b besides u whenever u need him... dont just go for 2-3 months of relationship.... u ll definitely get hurt if u fall in such small relations... so search someone who realy loves u and ll leave with u for ur entire life....


Hockey35 (52)  4 years ago

You can date any man that you want to. Don't let other people tell you what to do. It is your life live it to the fullest.


myLot reputation of 78/100. zahir_dk (662)  4 years ago

yup i have never forced her..... i just told her what i feel


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  4 years ago

This is living proof that woman are stupid and let boobs guide there destiny. It is more likely he will tired of her before she does him,If he pays all the bills with out complaint marry him and wait for a coronary thrombosis and live happily for ever off the estate.And get a dog stay at home and don't make any more decisions with out first ask ing your mother.


myLot reputation of 78/100. zahir_dk (662)  4 years ago

Hey Roztredtoes,
U are right by saying that dont take any decision without asking your mother.... But dude dont u think that u r wrong in saying that marry that person for his money, estate. Common man money is nothing imp in life, its all love which matters more than money....


myLot reputation of 52/100. lwethu (215)  4 years ago

All i need is love, and this guy make me feel very strong he is giving me hope even if he can die tommorrow i will have strength to live and be succesfully. When i am down he lifted me.


myLot reputation of 78/100. zahir_dk (662)  4 years ago

Thats alright dear.... but ask one question to urself, do u really Love him or are you just thinking about this coz he helped you when there was a need. If the reason is this lemme make it pretty clear that it may lead to many problems between both of u in the future. So talk to urslef, ask such questions to urself, try n find the basic reason behind ur likeness for the guy.... That wld really help u taking a proper decision... Best of Luck


myLot reputation of 78/100. zahir_dk (662)  4 years ago

Thats alright dear.... but ask one question to urself, do u really Love him or are you just thinking about this coz he helped you when there was a need. If the reason is this lemme make it pretty clear that it may lead to many problems between both of u in the future. So talk to urslef, ask such questions to urself, try n find the basic reason behind ur likeness for the guy.... That wld really help u taking a proper decision... Best of Luck


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  4 years ago

What im saying is why anybody would consult a pubic web site about how to conduct there personal life.My personel feeling is maybe there is a good reason these folks should not be let out in public alone because they might not be able to find there way home. My above comment is total sarcastic and with out merit.


myLot reputation of 78/100. zahir_dk (662)  4 years ago

Ok dude, I agree somewhat.... But if someone is unable to find a solution and asks us for help, we shd help them


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  4 years ago

Ok I can go that route which means my solution is as good as anyones.I admit I have asked many people for technical advice, but I can not remember off hand asking anybody for emotional advice. Except maybe asking some one for a good reason why I should not strangle them.


myLot reputation of 78/100. zahir_dk (662)  4 years ago

Well dude thats ok with u, but if some1 likes or needs to share something personal, its not a harm.


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  4 years ago

Your ok dude but lets get back to the point. PUBLIC WEB SITE, being monitored by who knows what and could this be a BS discussion just to stir up some money.


myLot reputation of 78/100. zahir_dk (662)  4 years ago

Yes u r right, it can be just to earn some money, but who knows.. if the person really needs help or not... so is our duty to help the person out.... atleast one post is not bad


myLot reputation of 3/100. masoud02 (191)  4 years ago

Lwethu said,"All i need is love".What kind of love can you get from a 54 year old? I think you should date someone close to your age.However if the reason is for his money,then go for it and pretend to love him.


myLot reputation of 78/100. zahir_dk (662)  4 years ago

Yes surely, if money is all the need.... then nothing to worry...


cuchulainn (2)  4 years ago

I married a 23-year-old woman in 1985. I was 43. We recently celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary and have been faithful to each other during that time. Are we lovers? Sure, but the most important is taht we are each other's best friend. You can be with anyone, age is not important if you look beyond the basic instincts of live. If you love him, go for it and good luck to the pair of you.
Cuchulainn


myLot reputation of 35/100. wetwoguys (145)  4 years ago

why choose to be strong and happy a few days and know exactly that tomorrow all is over?


Willems1 (13)  4 years ago

If the love is there why not, I believe that if your feeling for this man and his feelings is mutual go for it.

Ps you do not want to be alone for the rest of your life do you?


myLot reputation of 78/100. LANA70 (154)  4 years ago

Whatever makes you happy...I hope he is active.


myLot reputation of 81/100. tigertang (1494)  4 years ago

Well, if a 54-year old guy was dating a 28-year old chick, we'd salute the guy for being a stud at the great age. So, need we say too much about the issue.


myLot reputation of 85/100. marciascott (11745)  4 years ago

He is old enough to be your father, and probaly needs viagra.


myLot reputation of 78/100. zahir_dk (662)  4 years ago

hehehehehehehe.... but its not funny dear... if she loves him for real u are hurting her sentiments.....

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2. myLot reputation of 82/100. bhchy1 (5747)   4 years ago

You are of age you can dat any man you like..I just wouldn't date some twice your age...It never works out in the end..


pablo2000 (2)  4 years ago

Only you can know if you want to date this man!

Dont be affraid of what others think - if you like this guy and want to date him, then why not - your both adults.

You could date a guy the same age and that could last only a week, so go for it if it feels right!


myLot reputation of 15/100. islander7 (3879)  4 years ago

Why not if you care for each other. After all age is just a number. There are lots of advantages in such a match, if that's what it is.


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  4 years ago

I'm sure It will feel right to him and deffinatly work out in his end the money he can save cancelling all his subsciptions to porno channells might buy him a new car.


myLot reputation of 91/100. oriental (960)  4 years ago

She was not talking of a decrepit old man of seventysomething. She was talking about a middle aged man of 54. As I am 56, I think she can expect something more than money.


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  4 years ago

are calling people in there sventies decrepid that should get you a bunch of hate mail. My neighbor down the road just died of aheart attack he was 53 yrs. So see there is hope for a plump estate and life after marrage.

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3. myLot reputation of 84/100. jessycardy (728)   4 years ago

Of course you can, why not? The important thing is you really love the man, and that he loves you back; but I guess that's important even if you're both the same age, isn't it? Just make sure he's not a pervert (I know, I know, not everyone is a pervert, but unfortunately a lot of them are).


myLot reputation of 95/100. Noot54 (4433)  4 years ago

what's pervy about a 54 year old man and a 24 year old woman?
Pervy is men after boys or looking at pictures of children.

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4. myLot reputation of 78/100. shuz697 (1030)   4 years ago

well its up to you but remember you are going to be judged from people by it... see how your parents feel about it first as well I know I wouldn't like my daughter to date an older man.. but if everyone is comfortable about it then go for it...just make sure its for the right reasons and nobody's going to get hurt


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  4 years ago

If you still have to ask your parents you probably should not be out after dark.


myLot reputation of 78/100. shuz697 (1030)  4 years ago

Just because someone respects their parents opinions doest make them a immature child who cant go out after dark.. I would only hope that my feelings matter in my children's lives when they grow up and make decisions. I always just want to make my parents proud and would find it extremely hard to be in a relationship that my parents and family didn't approve of.. I don't think that's immature its just respectful and showing the your family comes first .. beside parents are the only ones who truly want the best for you and sometimes they can see things we cant.. People need to respect their parents and their feelings and the world would be a better place..


myLot reputation of 3/100. masoud02 (191)  4 years ago

Very much so.

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5. myLot reputation of 80/100. bluejay1122 (122)   4 years ago

you can date anyone.. as long as your happy go for it..best of luck..


mwabitutu (1)  4 years ago

IF YOU DATE AN OLD MAN WHO IS ALMOST DOUBLE YOUR AGE, YOU MUST BE AFTER MONEY OR SOMETHING ELSE BUT THIS IS NOT TRUE LOVE.NEVER BE CHEATED


myLot reputation of 52/100. lwethu (215)  4 years ago

This is true love, he is 54 4 heaven sake we can stil spend 46 years together.Money is nothing

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6. myLot reputation of 62/100. brentjh (630)   4 years ago

You can date whoever you want - you are old enough to make up your own mind. Are you a hottie?


myLot reputation of 52/100. lwethu (215)  4 years ago

Yes i am very very hottie.


myLot reputation of 93/100. StarBright (1176)  4 years ago

Better get used to cold showers, dear. That 26 year difference is going to turn lukewarm real quick.


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  4 years ago

Be shure to to get a blood test first. H.I.V. can sure mess up true love.

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7. sugga05 (24)   4 years ago

take it from some one who has dated older men since b4 I was allowed to date. Date whoever you feel comfortable with. No one walks in your shoes but you. You can not live your life trying to make others happy, because if you do, in the end you will be very unhappy. I dated a guy that was 12 years older than me for 3.5 years, it was great and we were very happy. The only reason it ended was because I wanted to move out of state and he didnt. If i still lived in saint louis, we would probably be married by now. Live for you and no one else.


myLot reputation of 93/100. StarBright (1176)  4 years ago

Big difference in 12 years and 26 years. He's old enough to be her daddy.

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8. myLot reputation of 55/100. Doaa17 (249)   4 years ago

I think it is weird!! what would you have in common. You come from different generations, just like you and your dad!!


myLot reputation of 52/100. lwethu (215)  4 years ago

Love babe


myLot reputation of 55/100. Doaa17 (249)  4 years ago

Then you should've asked "Can i be in love with a 54 years old man", not asking if you can date him. And still if it is love, that doesn't make it less Weird!


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  4 years ago

Again! why ask for personel emotional advice on a public web site. does that mean you don't have any friends or is it a BS question to get money from mylot.

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9. myLot reputation of 35/100. wetwoguys (145)   4 years ago

i think the age gap is a bit wide.


Sampson (31)  4 years ago

Love doesn't know age,it's only a number or a figure and age shouldn't be astumbling block.


myLot reputation of 35/100. wetwoguys (145)  4 years ago

what is the matching concerpt here,naturally


myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)  4 years ago

a good supply of viagra should help keep him from stubbing his toe.


myLot reputation of 35/100. wetwoguys (145)  4 years ago

how long is viagra gona last,it helps where there is already a starting point.


kaygoll (17)  4 years ago

They say if it lasts more than 4 hours, you have to go to the hospital.


myLot reputation of 35/100. wetwoguys (145)  4 years ago

but i think you how old oils can do to new engine.ah haaa.

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10. myLot reputation of 35/100. wetwoguys (145)   4 years ago

an once more let say what has atracted you,i know you will have problems....conflicting interests...feelings...!!!


myLot reputation of 3/100. masoud02 (191)  4 years ago

I think she is not after love but rather after money and father's love.

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