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myLot reputation of 61/100. artisweety (305)2 years ago

how u react after a BREAK UP??
i often wonder how i would react if i had 2 hear frm da person i love 'ITS OVER".....
mmm u tell me how wud U react????
did you ever break up?
My philo. is 'when u part u part with a smile' Not only that u move away with complete truth n honesty..if the other person likes another one then be honest and then move out. But easier said than done...more often than not we just resort to lies and leave a sour impressions in the memory lane. Nyways, I hope u don't hav to hear that but in case u do...assess (realistically) whther u guys can patch ot not...if not...forget ASAP and join dievert ur energies/ attention into somethin constructive! Good luck!

well always keep in mind one thing"Everything is part of life not heart of life"..so if somebody have any kind of break up wid frnds or partner.so no need to frown or no need to think so much about it...and also today's philosphy is "move on in life no matter wt".....and last but not the least "people and things dont upset us rather we upset by beleiving that they can upset us"...take it as experince and move on.and think positive like wtever happen happen for gud:)..Tc

Very very well said!!!- Dil par mat le yarr. Its also about how quickly you kinda divert ur focus rather than stickin to the unfavourable.

well when u break up . go to the market purchase a fevicol & apply in the affected portion!!!thats it!

well.. breakups happen for many reason... but in the end it comes down to the fact that either of the partner thinks that they'll be happier without the relation. I know its a hard thing... but if you truly love someone, wouldnt this sacrifice be worth it? i mean if i ever realised that i was no longer a part of my lover's happiness and was more of an obstruction, i'd be much rather remove myself from her way and let her be happy. Thats what matters for me.. her happiness.. i'll always love her... if she ever comes back to me, i'll accept her...
so dear, til then.. turn to other things in life for that happiness... and hope that the one you loved will be happy.. and one day, he/she might come back.. or better still, you will find someone who truly cherishes you and loves you. Life works like that... its always a dawn after the darkness.
. well i ve nvr gone thru it.bt hd it been so wel i vd ve simply carried on wid my life,an wished good luck 2 him.dats it an den search 4 sm1 else

Kisi ke pyar me gehri chot khayi hai,
wafa se pehle hi bewafai payi hai,
log dua mangte hai is haal me marne ki,
par humne usiki yaadon me
jeene ki kasam khayi hai...........
Live your life......

believe in the dialogue of movie "ISHQ"Bus, Train & G**l, ek jati hai toh dusri aa hin jati hai.
So, Wait for the other ...........
till then take it COOL & Njoy
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tags:  break up, love, relationship, breakup, break ups
 
1. myLot reputation of 91/100. blondegirl1975 (2166)   2 years ago

well i broke up with my ex 4 months ago and i may add that i was very much in love with him
i still am
i still cry and hurt but it does get easier
i kept myself busy at all times and it is true that time is a great healer
I will always love my x as he was my first true love and will always be but at the end of the day he does not feel the same about me
so i will get on with my life to the best that i can and i know that i have a lot of love that i can give to someone, i am falling in love with someone else but it is taking time


agefreak (31)  2 years ago

best approach!!!!

minus the crying and getting hurt bit......!!

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. sierdij (572)   2 years ago

After breakup i want to be alone.I just want to listen to some music.I don't want to see people reminding of the situation i had been into.I don't wanna hear anything about my lost relationship.


19781508 (83)  2 years ago

after break-up, i cry for three hours, stay in my room, skip a meal or two, then listen to rock music.
the day after, i just want to look at our pictures together and compile them in an album and keep them in a box and put them under my bed. i try to take a glance of them once in a while. until the pain passes away... oh, how sad thinking about it.

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3. myLot reputation of 59/100. dominican (184)   2 years ago

i usually become bitter but through time and with the help of friends its easy to cope.


myLot reputation of 98/100. maryannemax (10495)  2 years ago

yep. you will go through days of feeling bitter. feeling bad about what had happened especially when the person means so much to you. but with the help of friends and relatives, you are able to move on.. aren't we still lucky?

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. sanell (1694)   2 years ago

well let us say this, I would be absolutely crushed if my spouse turned to me and told me that he did not love me anymore and that he did not even want to be married to me anymore. I would be so sad and hurt that it would be frustrating for me. But yes I would try to do what I could to make it as easy for my kids to deal with it and make sure to remind him that as long as he is being honest with me, I feel that i would want to work it out for us, not for the girls but for our marriage. I would also hope that if he did come to me with this that he would do it at a point where perhaps we did need to get help to make things better for the both of us!

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. kokopelli (1930)   2 years ago

i don't easily give up on my relationships, i always give it my best. so when it gets to the point of being 'over', it's a lil bit easier. of course it hurts, but knowing that you've done everything to make it work gives you the consolation that ending it is the last option you got if it still doesn't. so i just move on and not look back; keep myself busy which is easy being a workaholic, and make use of my family and friends' company to take my mind of any remaining emotional pains. like i said, it's easier to recover when you know you've done everything. giving anything your best shot would relieve you of regrets if it still fails.

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6. myLot reputation of 18/100. treblem (323)   2 years ago

i might b hurt but i need to accept it. and need to move on. maybe there more better one to come.

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7. myLot reputation of 77/100. ghazal2k5 (820)   2 years ago

just keep silent but now i don't care of breakup.


myLot reputation of 61/100. artisweety (305)  2 years ago

hey gazal i think i know u, we both studied 3rd and 4th class in army school ahmednagar.anju bhatia was ur class teacher then.

 
8. myLot reputation of 82/100. amit312_18 (375)   2 years ago

i hvnt been into such a relationship.want to get into that,yet no one there...to love me.;(
so i can oly tell u after i get into a relationship like that.

 
9. muthunaveen (88)   2 years ago

if i break up,i wud go n spend time with my friends rather than sitting alone . It helps u forget it a lot easier.

 
10. kyuti_elai (71)   2 years ago

when somebody you love tells you it's over, you take it as a lost. more often than not, your reactions shows as if it's the end of your world. for you it would be too much to bear. but day by day, you never notice that you're already learning to accept the truth that he's gone. and much more, you'll just end up smiling and laughing at yourself when thoughts of him come barging. you'll remember your stupidities and then, you'll tell yourself, "i'm okay!"

 
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