Sad day in our house...giving up a dog  |
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| We have a 3 yr old Australian Shepherd that we are giving to new owners because he is a little bit aggressive and has snapped his teeth and scratched our young children. We know we are doing the right thing but it is heartbreaking because we love him and he was such a sweet puppy and is a beautiful dog. The saddest part is that we have older children ages 15 & 10 and the dog is fine with them but not so good with our 5, 3 or 6 mo old baby. We're so sad! If you have been thru this or can say anything to make us feel better please speak up. Thanks! | | | | | |
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1. corimcl (2023)
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6 years ago
| | That is sad but your doing whats best for the children. I dont know how long you have had your dog but they become a part of the family. SO when you have to let go of them its going to be difficult. | | | | | | |
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2. ronaldinu (9358)
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6 years ago
| | Remember that dogs do live in packs and in a hiearchy. He is fine with your 15 year old because your dog has learnt that your eldest son is superior to him, while your dog might think that the rest of your children 5,3 and six month old baby are inferior to him in hieararchy. Was there a change in behaviour towards your dog after the arrival of your last baby? For example he was accustomed to live inside and then suddenly he is sent living outside in a yard. This might be a cause of triggering aggressive behaviour in the dog. | | | | | | |
toyboxer04 (320)
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6 years ago
| | I strongly agree with ronaldinu. He surely knows who is inferior and superior to him. Also maybe the little ones seek his attention in the wrong way. Maybe punching at his ears or their moves are too fast for him to interpret as correct so he reacts aggressively | | | |
Pigglies (5141)
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6 years ago
| | I think in some cases it's also a breed thing. A lot of the smaller herding dogs are a bit nippy, which isn't good with children. They may try to herd the children and it's pretty hard to make a young child seem superior to the dog when the child can't take part in such actions on their own or even with help. Keeping them separate sometimes works, but then you always hear about the slip ups where for one second a child was set down and then nipped. One of my online friends had a child who got nipped very suddenly by their ferret that she was not norrmally allowed near. It got her right on the eyelid and even today she has worse vision in that eye and a weird looking eyelid. Her daughter still loves animals and probably wouldn't have wanted the ferret put to sleep, but rehoming is not such a bad option. I think it is great if you can actually find a home for the animal rather than just dumping them. | | | |
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4. Pekachu (1005)
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6 years ago
| | awww i am so sorry i know exactly what you are going through i had to give up a chow chow 6 months ago after rescueing him from being put down we took him in groomed him got attached had him for 2 months then he pushed out a screen in a window to chase a cat a bit a little boy then he bit my son and that was it had no choice i cried for days i loved that dog but he is in a very nice home with a senior citisin making her feel very safe so i feel better knowing he is in a good home we ended adopting another pup who needed a new home and she is working out great | | | | | | |
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| 5. grievingbeauty (84)
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6 years ago
| | everytime you get sad thoughts about your dog, pick up your 6 month old and hold it tight..call the other two young ones to your lap and the three of you just rejoice in each other...play, sing, whatever it takes to take your mind off the dog..if the dog snapped, you are doing the right thing.. a friend of mine had an irish setter that bit the ear off his three year old.. | | | | | | |
monica1216 (380)
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6 years ago
| | Oh my gosh! Thank you for your kind thoughts and suggestion. I do know that I have to do this. We have been keeping them separated so that it wouldn't get to that point with our dog but it's been hard to do. I know everyone will be happier and safer once he's in a home that doesn't have young children. | | | |
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6. annieja (236)
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6 years ago
| | i am so sorry for you and your family. when i was little we had to give our dog, a saint bernard away because he just kept growing and growing and he would jump on us or other small kids and knock them down. he also didn't have much room in our backyard to play. i know my mother took him to the pound, but when we were little, she had told us, he went to a farm where he could run and be happy. my advice is just to say to them the "what if" questions. like what if we kept him and he hurt the baby, or what if you had a friend over and he bit the friend and the pound had to take him away. just keep reminding them he is not safe, and maybe they can pick out a new dog someday. we have 2 labradors and they are supposed to be the best with kids. good luck to you, that is sad, but think of what would be sadder if something terrible happened because you decided to keep him. | | | | | | |
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7. Pigglies (5141)
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6 years ago
| | I think in some cases, the breed just isn't right for being around young children. I do animal rescue and while a lot of the times I think people have horrible excuses for giving up their pets, this is not so bad, and really, what I commend you on is finding the dog a home on your own, rather than just dumping them at a shelter. I think more people need to take responsibility like you did, and at least help in the process of finding their dog a home, rather than dumping off the entire responsibility to someone else or an organization to do it for them. | | | | | | |
monica1216 (380)
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6 years ago
| | Thank you. I do have great respect for the hard work animal rescue organizations do and in the past have gotten pets from animal shelters so I don't wnat to get to the point of dropping one of my animals off there | | | |
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8. kathy77 (6833)
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6 years ago
| | Don't you mean a German Shepherd we do not have any Australian Shepherd they can be very aggressive dogs and even turn on their own owners, oh they are great when they are small and they are so cute but remember that they do grow up and then can turn I love dogs and have had many in my life but I would never have a German Shepherd but my father used to own one when I was a young girl so to make you feel better just think that you did not get hurt any more than you and your children did. | | | | | | |
shelonewolf1969 (416)
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6 years ago
| | in the usa there is an austrain shepherd dog it is alot like a border collie but alittle smaller they bob the tail there is differences but thats the closest breed I can think of to compare it too . | | | |
monica1216 (380)
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6 years ago
| | Yes, there really is a breed called Australian Shepherd and it's very different from a German Shepherd. | | | |
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9. ernst111 (4134)
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6 years ago
| | For the sake of the little children, I do think you really are doing the right decision of giving up your Australian Shepherd. The safety of the kids should be the priority first and formost. We can not endanger their lives just because we want to keep a pet which we are not sure of its health and behavior. | | | | | | |
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10. jbones32103 (686)
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6 years ago
| | We are still upset ourselves over having to get rid of a part wolf and Siberian Husky.He was good with the older two children but was snappy at the younger ones. Although you already made the right decision, you have to look at the well being of the dog too. He must have been miserable being around the younger ones and just couldn't handle it. Now he can live in peace without being upset or nervous. It's stressful on a dog being put in the situation. | | | | | | |
| maainim (64)
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6 years ago
| | It's always sad to give up what we love | | | |
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