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myLot reputation of 93/100. Sawsen (659)   ranked 808 out of 27,455 in mylot.com 6 years ago

Here's what I don't get here on mylot. Why are people so picky when choosing which discussions to respond to. I mean either way they get money, so they should want to respond to as many discussions as they get. But I see a lot of people with 0 responses to their discussions, so it's a loss for the discussion poster and the non-responder. Why can't we all help one another to get more money? I try to reply to all of the posts that I see, because I know I'm not only benefitting myself, but also the person that posting the discussion. Has anyone else noticed this as well?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. canadabis1 (676)   ranked 13,279 out of 27,455 in mylot.com   6 years ago

Cause alot of us arent here for the money...were here for the convo...im not gonna worry bout the pocket change i get here.


myLot reputation of 98/100. rosie_123 (3858)   ranked 61 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

Exactly - I agree. I can't see me giving up my job anytime soon on the money I get from here - so I just do it for the interest and good conversation. If I make a small amount at the end of the month then all well and god - but I don't post for that reason!


myLot reputation of 95/100. omega007 (7249)  6 years ago

I'm with them. And sometime discussion which I have no interest I won't response with just any answer just so that the discussion starter and myself will get paid. I choose the discussion which I know I like and can answer.


myLot reputation of 91/100. medooley (1847)   ranked 1,574 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

Yeap this is why. I don't want to waste my time commenting on discussions that I have no intrest in. I mean I don't know who the best bowler is for the indian cricket team. So I am not going to respond to those. I actually want to make a good post that represents my actual opinion and not something that I am just spewing to get $$$


myLot reputation of 70/100. amish2222 (161)   ranked 5,736 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

I would agree with all these folks. A response is to be made on something where I have an opinion and what I can talk about. Money is just one aspect of the whole story of MyLot. There are many more interesting aspects to it as well. The main intent of this website is NOT to help you make money. The money part is just to attract more crowd.


myLot reputation of 94/100. cwgrlsarefun (1345)   ranked 2,083 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

I have to agree here. I have only been here a short time, but since joining I have learned that you will make more money by giving better answers. Money is not the reason that I am here, it is only benefit. I try to only respond to the things that I know. It would not make any sense for me to respond to something that has no interest to me. I would just be wasting everyones time.


myLot reputation of 92/100. JC1969 (778)   ranked 6,547 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

I won't respond to a topic that I have little interest in or I can't find my own words to add anything of value to the discussion. The purpose of mylot was to bring people together in a forum where we can produce meaningful discussions that would draw others in, that would bring out more meaningful words and conversation--if it was utilized like this more, you would have discussions that flowed on.

Why should I add something of little value to this forum just for the sake of adding something? To me that is a way to scam mylot for earnings.

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2. myLot reputation of 91/100. mgmagana (2469)   6 years ago

it's not about quantity here on mylot it's about quality! so u pick good topics so u can have good quality discussions!


myLot reputation of 91/100. Bee1955 (3216)   ranked 2,194 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

I agree, I cant just answer somwone's discussion when I have no knowledge or experience with the topic. I like to pick and choose. Sure I have a few zeros in my own discussions, but I rather have someone answer in a few sentences logically, than just saying 2 or 3 nonsense words. The money isnt everything (though it doesnt hurt), but I want to reach out to people, too.


myLot reputation of 92/100. JC1969 (778)   ranked 6,547 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

You are so correct. Unfortunately, mylot didn't get a grip on the fact that many members joined early on and use this site as a pay check. Those that have the mentality that mylot is their pay check, are driven by the earnings and to them you need to post as much as you can all day long, which is why you have the meaningless discussions and responses on mylot.

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. Marleysa (2953)   6 years ago

The reason why we are picky is because we are not here to make money as this is not really a BIG money making site. We are picky because we are here mostly for the discussions not the pennies we earn here? The money we can earn here is just a small bonus for doing what we anyhow love to do..to discuss important and thought provoking ideas with like minded people.I hope this helps you to understand a little better why most people, old timers like me, are still here. The ones that came thinking they will make a lot of money quickly are mostly gone now... and some will still leave...I haven't been here for a few weeks as I have moved house and have to wait to get connected at home again and just popped in from a friends pc now to say hi to most of my friends...hope to still see you around once I'm back permanently again..


myLot reputation of 93/100. Sawsen (659)   ranked 808 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

I'm not saying that it's only about the money. But it is sad when there are people with good discussions and they get zero responses. And the people with really crumby discussions, get a lot of responses. I think people are choosing favorites, and I don't think that that is what mylot is about.


myLot reputation of 80/100. Marleysa (2953)  6 years ago

Yes, I suspect that you have a point there. It does seem that some people are being "chosen" for their seeming to be popular..as I said..haven't been here for a while..so I lost touch a little..


myLot reputation of 93/100. ashiflett (668)   ranked 11,330 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

Yes, I agree. I want to help others, but if I have no interest or opinion on the subject manner, I will probably not contribute to that particular discussion. Simply because I feel I could not add value to that discussion.


myLot reputation of 91/100. mgmagana (2469)  6 years ago

i think a lot of people just go to the home page which is today's top discussions and pick off there instead of new discussions, or discussions with no responses!


myLot reputation of 56/100. cenko0 (833)  6 years ago

for my not about interest or not interest but l have a problem for help, l have bad english because l live in indonesia, and in every day l use local language, now l want to say to any body please for give me if my englis is not good or l am not respons your discussion

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. creationhub (2165)   ranked 187 out of 27,455 in mylot.com   6 years ago

Helping each other in mylot to earn money is very noble. However, there are many of us who selects posts to read and to respond to. They are based on our points of interest. We do not meant to offend anyone as it is not possible to read every post.
I have written approximately 15 discussions and not ashame to say that about 5 of them have zero response till today. However, I do not feel bad about it. Mylotians have every right to read what they get attracted to.
You are very positive in trying to reply many posts. However, do not stress yourself out. Help mylot to be a better site by replying to good posts only.

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5. myLot reputation of 92/100. kakuemmom (614)   ranked 1,955 out of 27,455 in mylot.com   6 years ago

i don't bother answering post that are not of intrest to me. I could not give a good quality answer if i were to answer all the post i would just be posting for the sake of it. Although on the other hand i do have a couple of post out there with 0 or only 1 or 2 responses. A couple of these posts i really would have like to have more ppl answer them but alas it was not to be so.


myLot reputation of 93/100. Sawsen (659)   ranked 808 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

I know what you mean, and I understand it, but some people post only to the ones they think are popular. I think people should try to post to as many discussions that interest them while still mainting quality posts.


myLot reputation of 90/100. coco526 (7525)  6 years ago

Swansen i agree with you there,I respond to
shot and long discussions,I just don't pick one over the other because I don't think it's fair.but I don't go for the yes or no question
but more like the oneliner discussions that I'm interested in.


myLot reputation of 90/100. coco526 (7525)  6 years ago

I mean Sawsen sorry I misspelled your user name

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6. myLot reputation of 58/100. ugachaka (261)   ranked 10,649 out of 27,455 in mylot.com   6 years ago

Sure, it's about money, but I still have a conscience. Ever post I make can be seen from my profile and it represents me. It bugs me when I see half-assed responses that exist only to generate a penny or two, but I don't want to lower myself to that level. I try to make sure I can type at least 4 sentences for every post. If I can come up with at least that much to say, it's not worth the space on mylot's server.

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7. myLot reputation of 92/100. Angelwriter (1833)   ranked 7,434 out of 27,455 in mylot.com   6 years ago

I'm picky because I believe quality responses help me make money. So, I can only answer questions and join in discussions where I can honestly contribute. I can't post in every discussion because I don't have enough knowledge to be helpful in every discussion.


myLot reputation of 95/100. cloudwatcher (4168)   ranked 998 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

A good philosophy.

Keep up the quality answers.

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. thekiwi (503)   ranked 8,535 out of 27,455 in mylot.com   6 years ago

Well i am a little picky cause if its not interesting to me, i cant give them a good answer, it would probably be short and stupid...So i dont even waste my time there...If i am going to respond its going to be meaningful, and not just a two worded response!


myLot reputation of 93/100. Sawsen (659)   ranked 808 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

I understand that, and all of my responses are 4 or more sentences long. But I'm saying for the ones that have 0 responses, I try to help them out if I can, even if I don't really have much to say, because I know it will get other people to respond. And usually the people that would be interested in responding to such discussions, don't get to see them because they never get into the top list and so therefore no one gets the chance to respond.

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. cloudwatcher (4168)   ranked 998 out of 27,455 in mylot.com   6 years ago

Sawsen, I wouldn't normally respond to this type of discussion, but I noticed it while posting to another.

Many of us on myLot are here for the "deep and meaningfuls" not for the money. While the little we receive is somewhat of a bonus, it could hardly be called an incentive or a payment for the time spent.

Many of us enjoy intelligent, logical, polite conversations, not necessarily with people of like minds. I enjoy "talking" with people of differing views and I have learnt a lot by looking at things from a different viewpoint. My basic views haven't changed, and I doubt they will, but I've been able to view some things differently and have learnt to respect people's rights to believe as they see fit.

We are able to make long distance friends on myLot and enjoy sharing not only in discussions, but a bit of fun and even some sadness and problems.

I think it could be an idea, as you suggest, to post to new myLotians, to help them to become enthusiastic and more conscious of the higher ideals involved.



myLot reputation of 93/100. Sawsen (659)   ranked 808 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

I understand that most people, including myself, are here for quality discussions, and not necessarily for the money. But as I've mentioned earlier, I think it would nice to help out those new mylotians, not even necessarily new mylotians, but people with no responses to their discussions. Because I think if you can post one response to a discussion, then other people might notice it and those interested in that subject would want to post. But if no one posts, the discussion never makes it to the top list, and not many people see it, and therefore no one posts, and that mylotian gets discouraged to post anything.


myLot reputation of 92/100. khalablue (233)   ranked 6,331 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

I have been here 2 days and have started 4 discussions. Only 1 has had responses, and I would have to assume that the other 3 are boring or of no interest to anyone else.


myLot reputation of 96/100. OOHCUTE2340 (446)   ranked 2,870 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

Don't get discouraged -- I have several topics I started awhile ago and no responses, someone will run across them one day and respond out the blue. Just keep posting and responding. It is tremendous amount fun. Happy posting :) Best wishes!


myLot reputation of 95/100. cloudwatcher (4168)   ranked 998 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

I do respond to new mylotters, especially those with 0 - 3 responses, to encourage them to continue, but I try to select ones to which I think I can contribute.


myLot reputation of 73/100. mistypq (324)   ranked 8,536 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

You have to remember there are over 67,000 myloters! It takes a lot of time to get through just a hand full of them! When you make friends you will have good disccusions with them! then you get less time to worry about others responding to you! I can have good disccusions with two or more friends at a time it can go on for days its great.

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10. myLot reputation of 89/100. MGjhaud (3532)   ranked 832 out of 27,455 in mylot.com   6 years ago

in my part, i have to pick those that interest me because it simply better that way of course so that you can respond to it very sensical. or you'll have no hard time to think what to say more then. but then if discussions that's out of my interest but i have something in mind to share to -- i will try to strem in to it.


myLot reputation of 64/100. pramod05bc (151)   ranked 8,882 out of 27,455 in mylot.com  6 years ago

i am not picky at all...i guess most of the people comment on the discussion started by their friends...so that they can earn more mylot point..

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