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myLot reputation of 92/100. tanaclark (219) 6 years ago

Ok so here's the situation. I have a 17, 15, 2 1/2 year old. My two older ones have their friends and school and such. My 2 1/2 year old on the other hand is stuck home all day with just me and her. I take her to the park we play dolls and she watches alot of cartoons. The thing is that there are no other kids around her age where we live. She has no one to play with except me. This leaves me little time to do the other things I need to do. I also have ran out of ideas of things to do with her. Everytime she sees another little kid in a store she gets upset cause she wants to play with them. I cant afford to put her in daycare and she has another 7 months before she can go to preschool. Does anyone have any ideas on things we can do together or she can do on her own besides watching tv? I would love to hear any ideas. Thank you.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. sedel1027 (12989)   6 years ago

Have you looked into other activites? During the week libraries have reading hour, Barnes & Noble has activites for kids, or take her to a fast food place with a play ground (she doesn't have to eat the food, just buy 2 drinks and let her play with the other kids). If you go to the library, ask about other activites for kids. They may only have one or tow a week, but should have flyers for other free things to do with kids. If you think she is capable, you can buy her a computer game for her age range to give her a good head start. It would keep her occupied while you can get other things done and she would be learning.


myLot reputation of 92/100. tanaclark (219)  6 years ago

Thats a good idea. I have went to like the community center by my house and they only have activities for school age kids. I want to get her around other kids so she can learn to socialize before she gets school age. She isnt a selfish child but I just dont know how she will interact with other kids. Thank you for your response.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sedel1027 (12989)  6 years ago

I agree that she needs to socialize with other kids. I went back to school when my son was around that age so I put him in daycare 3 days a week for a half a day. He was the only child on our block and always wanted to play with kids. I don't know how hard up you are for cash, but you may want to check with local daycare centers. Often they will offer you a cut rate if your child is only there a few days a week for a portion of the day.


myLot reputation of 92/100. tanaclark (219)  6 years ago

I have some money but i'm buy no means well off. I checked with 2 daycare centers here and for her age they want $250 week for 6 hours a day. Thats kind of expensive to me. I also have a fear of other people watching my child because of all the stories you hear these days. I have also searched for play groups but there are none that are close to me.


myLot reputation of 94/100. sedel1027 (12989)  6 years ago

Wow that is really high! Where I am you can get daycare for $75 a week at a daycare (not in home) center for full time care. Have you though about putting her in a dance class, gymnastics, martial arts, or or girl scouts (she may be too young for the last one)?

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. xXmeganxX (2442)   6 years ago

maybe you could take her out for a walk most days or go to a resource centre to learn and read books, also how about taking your daughter to a mother and toddler group where she can meet other children and play with them, i go there with my little one and she loves it, or how about a museum just for a look around or go window shopping, i do most of them things and it kills a bit of time while im out! hope this helps. :O)


myLot reputation of 92/100. tanaclark (219)  6 years ago

Thank you for your response. I have looked for mommy and me groups but there are none close to me. The traffic where I live is incredibly congested and I have two other children that I homeschool. I live right next to a community center but they only offer things for school age children. Thank you for your help.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. karinna (116)   6 years ago

mylittle one will be 2 february 8th and im a stay at home mom, i also have another one on the way for july 13th :-). anyway i know what you mean about the traffic i have the same pronlem here living off a highway and im not good with heavy trafic. my daughter and i started practicing the abc's and 123's like the week she came home, i always sang them to her, she can count to ten on her own and say her abc's we are now working on 11 to 20 numbers. i found that big books with numbers and letters are great for learning and fun, i also buy the flash cards for her she loves them. and she loves to color, she does try to eat the crayons but i sit with her and she has a ball. we ;so do dance she loves music. i found that these things keep her stimulated as well as teach her. also what about play dates? do you know any other moms or dads with young children, you can invite them over for an hour or so a day? good luck i know its not easy


myLot reputation of 92/100. tanaclark (219)  6 years ago

Wow another one in July. Congratulations! I also teach my daughter her letters and abc's. She loves music as well. She loves dancing. The only thing is she gets bored easy and it dont last long. Thank you for your response.

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4. myLot reputation of 90/100. getnbuy (1022)   6 years ago

2 year olds do not really interact with eachother. they play besiide eachother. Your little girl is beginning to get to the stage where she will want to play. You could take her to the park to interact with other children, or arrange "playdates" with other peo;le you know. going to church is a good way to meet people with kids. Usually there is a nursery or a class for the children, so she could play there. As for getting your own things done, try to involve her in what you are doing. get her a little broom so she can help you sweep the floor. Show her how to fold wash cloths. There are a lot of things kids can do to "help" mommy. It may take you longer in the long run, but you will have had time with her AND got some work done!


myLot reputation of 92/100. tanaclark (219)  6 years ago

Thank you. That is a very good idea. I think she would love that.

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5. myLot reputation of 38/100. sureshtvin (117)   6 years ago

try to get frinds OF HER AGE ANG ASK HER TO PLAY WITH THEM..
u can make her learn lot of things.....
u can act lik many charectors any make her happy,take hr to a cartoon movie


myLot reputation of 92/100. tanaclark (219)  6 years ago

Thank you for your response.

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. cripfemme (7250)   6 years ago

Try joining a mothers' group. They have free play groups. Also follow the other myloters' suggestions. We are a smart group.


myLot reputation of 92/100. tanaclark (219)  6 years ago

Thank you for your response. Yes we are a smart group.

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7. myLot reputation of 16/100. kodeshkodashim (455)   6 years ago

my son was a ton of fun at 2 1/2.Only child so he learned how to entertain himself.Toys,Toys,Toys,healthy snacks.and if he sat in front of the tv.It was educational vidios,animals,music,science,and documenteries.I loved that time.and if he was being dificult that day then there was always the childerens tylonol cold medicine to knock his little butt out for a while....Opp's did I say that?lol.If the weather was good, a trip to the park was golden and wore him out.


myLot reputation of 92/100. tanaclark (219)  6 years ago

She sits in front of the tv alot and we go to the park. I have yet to find something that will wear her out. Thank you for your response.

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8. myLot reputation of 24/100. ashwinsinha2003 (147)   6 years ago

try asking on yahoo answers coz people here wana earn money and give u stupid answers.


myLot reputation of 92/100. tanaclark (219)  6 years ago

Thank you for your response

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9. redbull_zico (97)   6 years ago

if u have ur inlaws or ur parents around then she can have some quality time with them


myLot reputation of 92/100. tanaclark (219)  6 years ago

Unfortunately her Grandma on her dads side is too old. She can only handle her for about 10 minutes and my mom is far away. Thank you for your response.

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10. myLot reputation of 85/100. avs189 (774)   6 years ago

I would suggest try to find out her interest or whether she is keen on doing any other things..such as drawing ,or any other sport such as swimming,gymnasium,, also make her interact with local kids by visitng ur realtives..else she would feel ,she is different ,make her feel is among the same kids,else she would feel lonely,.....jsut try to be interacting with her ... and keep ehr lively,,,,or see if she ahs an liking for particualr sport ...or any otehr interests....


myLot reputation of 92/100. tanaclark (219)  6 years ago

She is to young for sports but she does love the water. We have no relatives here. We live in a neighborhood with no kids her age. They are mostly teenagers. Thank you for your response.

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