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myLot reputation of 91/100. missytia (230)   ranked 1 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter2 years ago

Thank you to all of you who had some advice for me regarding my daughter who's father (my ex) took her on an overseas holiday and falsified the itinerary so I would let him go.
Anyway, my daughter returned home same on the 10th January. After I made my other post, I got in touch with my solicitor once she was back in the office. She advised me that there was nothing that could be done until the 10th January and should would write a letter asking for an explaination.
When I picked my daughter up from her Dad's place, I asked for an explaination and he could not give me one.
The matter is now in the hands of the solicitor and I will be applying to the court to have a variation made to our current parenting orders, to incorporate travel in the future.

 
 
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tags:  daughter, holiday, advice, travel, kidnapping
 
1. myLot reputation of 90/100. kathy77 (6951)   ranked 6 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter   2 years ago

This must of been a dreadful period to of not knowing where you daughter was you have to apply to the court as no man/woman should be able to get away with this and nobody understand the stress that this causes their ex partners when we don't know where our children are I am so happy for you that your son is alright.


myLot reputation of 91/100. missytia (230)   ranked 1 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter  2 years ago

It was my daughter. And we are now just dealing with her jet lag.

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2. myLot reputation of 46/100. rohit55_56 (2094)   2 years ago

sorry i don't have any idea...


myLot reputation of 91/100. missytia (230)   ranked 1 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter  2 years ago

Well, why would you even bother responding to this discussion???? Rated accordingly.


myLot reputation of 96/100. tigrashadow (788)   ranked 4 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter  2 years ago

also rated post accordingly

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. Tanika (564)   ranked 8 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter   2 years ago

Great to hear that she is back safe and sound. It is pretty bad that there was no explanation given about the whereabouts? Did you daughter have a good time or was she stressed?

I think that your doing the right thing by contacting your solicitors and applying to the court for a variation.

Sorry that you had to go through this but at least she is safe and sound.

Tanika.


myLot reputation of 91/100. missytia (230)   ranked 1 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter  2 years ago

Hi Tanika, thank you for your thoughts. She seemed to have a good time but she did tell me that she missed me and was sad because daddy wouldn't let her ring me. She's kinda regretting the holiday now as she's still having trouble sleeping due to the jet lag. Poor little thing is so confused. And I'm getting rather sleep deprived also.

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4. helpingminds (66)   ranked 7 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter   2 years ago

Nice to hear that your Daughter is back home!! I know it is very painful to miss someone whom you really Love!! Now itz time for you to Enjoy with her!! Keep going!! My regards to her!!

 
5. myLot reputation of 93/100. loujac3 (824)   ranked 15 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter   2 years ago

I am so happy that you have your daughter back. It could have been a different ending with him not returning her to you. Men can be power control freaks and they find it easier to do what they want than to consider the consequences.
It has been said that it is easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission.
What was your daughter's feelings toward this matter? Was she upset with her father?

 
6. myLot reputation of 98/100. ausnikki (1570)   ranked 17 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter   2 years ago

I'm so glad your daughter has been returned safely to you.As for her Father not having an explanation,well that's not good enough.Having matters in the hands of solicitors is a great idea,you need to protect yourself and your daughter from this happening again.

 
7. myLot reputation of 94/100. cwgrlsarefun (1358)   ranked 9 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter   2 years ago

This is very refreshing news. I did read your last post and have been waiting to hear what had happend. I am glad to hear that she has made it home and is safe now. I hope that you can get everything worked out with her father so that this does not happen again. I would be very leary of letting him take her far from home anymore. So glad that all worked out for you.

 
8. myLot reputation of 95/100. GardenGerty (12450)   ranked 19 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter   2 years ago

I think we are so glad that you posted an update for us, so that we know your daughter got home again safely. You have taken a good step, and I know you will be even more cautious in the future about her travelling with her dad. Did your daughter say where they actually went, and if she had a good time? Try not to drag her into taking sides, because it might be a good memory she will have, even if it scared the life out of you. Make sure she knows how to get alhold of you if she is ever away, though.

 
9. myLot reputation of 87/100. Melizzy (975)   ranked 22 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter   2 years ago

I am glad your daughter was returned safely. Have you spoken with her and found out exactly where they were and what they did? Asked to see any photos that may have been taken? Found any receipts in her stuff to verify where they went?

 
10. myLot reputation of 73/100. dragonryder (3574)   ranked 2 out of 31 in had a beautiful daughter   2 years ago

I am also glad that you have your daughter back home safe and sound. Being a parent I know that I myself would go nuts not knowing where my child was. I hope he doesn't ever put you through this again. Good Luck.

 
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