which of the men carrie dates did you find the best  

I completely agree with you. Aidan(John Corbett) was the sweetest guy in the world and he really loved her! Why she dumped him for Big is beyond me!

i'd still go for Big because big has a certain way of sweeping carrie off her feet. whenever she's with big, carrie feels so beautiful and outgoing, she's herself and is very comfortable. i think that they are a perfect match because they get to enjoy one another and that they are very compatible.

i love Aidan too!
but it seems mr.big was able to come through for her in the end

Aiden and Carrie were good together, but I don't think that they would have made it in the long run. She always had Big on her mind and in the end, she ended up with Big anyways. I liked him the best because they had such an interesting relationship. They were always there for each other.

I thought Aiden was a great guy... so sweet, so cute, and he had a dog! I loved them together - but in the end, it just didn't work out.

Big. He was a jerk but I still think he and Carrie were really meant for each other.

Big! He is nice and makes her happy. And even if sometimes she suffered it was because she was expecting some things from him and maybe he didn't know this. Aidan looks very good, to.

If by "the best," you mean almost perfect for her, to meet all of her needs, then Aidan pretty much is it. Except why did she feel the need to hold on to her ties with Big after she had started seeing Aidan? Maybe it's just one of those things they did to make the plot exciting? But I find Aidan very boring, and Big very exciting so if you mean best as in not necessarily perfect or ready to share her lifetime with, then Big would be it. He wasn't ready for Carrie's need for permanence but he apparently was everything else for her, and maybe he just needed time to grow into the person he could be for her. Now I have no idea how the series actually ended, so I don't really know what happens to either of these men in the very end although I do know that Aidan found someone else and had a baby. But as for Big, I don't have a clue...and that Petrovsky guy was the absolute worst, I don't know why Carrie went to Paris with him except that Paris was the "it" place...but she shouldn't have kidded herself that she really wanted to be with Petrovsky! When Big came to her rescue then, you could see that he was good for her. And he did show that he cared by talking to her friends before barging in. So he does have his redeeming qualities.

I personally find Aidan the best (good looking, smart, cute, manly), but for Carrie, the best would be Big. I remember those scents that she was accompanying Aidan to his country house and she really didn't enjoy it. There was something not really a good match between Carrie and Aiden in the plot. And Carrie is just so much more "in love" with Big (taking into account of all those ups and downs).

i really like the overall personality of Aiden (John Corbett).. He has this character of being responsible, he did not take for granted Carrie (unlike Mr Big?!)... but since Carrie is not yet ready on a so-called commitment (marriage)maybe Carrie and Mr Big are compatible.