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myLot reputation of 88/100. Peaches1122 (318)   ranked 2,556 out of 23,121 in relationships3 years ago

My ex-wife, my mortal enemy, is now claiming to really like my current wife. My wife and I are very cautious since my ex-wife hates my guts. My ex-wife is a sociopath with no remorse or the ability to forgive. She is mean, vain and hates most people. Me, I am fun, caring, empathetic and like most everybody. My ex-wife has gone as far as telling her parents that she likes my wife and is glad I have her around (to better take care of our boys when they are with us). She has even sent my wife recipes through e-mail. I am confused. My wife and I agree that at some point she will once again show her true colors.

My question is this ... "can some people really change?"

 
 
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blueskies (848) response was accepted on 1/19/2007.
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tags:  wife, ex-wife, narcissist, ignorant, abusive
 
1. myLot reputation of 99/100. blueskies (848)   ranked 143 out of 23,121 in relationships   3 years ago

I think you already know the answer to your question. If not, here it is: NO!! I have 2 exes, one is a narcissist, the other is an ignorant, abusive jerk. The jerk likes to act all sweet and nice on occassion. I've learned to expect to have papers served within a few days when that happens. He loves to create grounds to take me to court. The narcissist decided that having a child with special needs didn't do anything for him, so he took his new family and left town, disowning our son in the process.


myLot reputation of 88/100. Peaches1122 (318)   ranked 2,556 out of 23,121 in relationships  3 years ago

Agreed ... they sound like really great people ... NOT!!! It is pretty predictable after awhile. I was just hoping that she might someday be a nioe human being.

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. reinydawn (4212)   ranked 3,242 out of 23,121 in relationships   3 years ago

Nope. People don't change. Some things about them may change, but basically they will stay the same.


myLot reputation of 88/100. Peaches1122 (318)   ranked 2,556 out of 23,121 in relationships  3 years ago

I have to agree. It sucks that people do not really change.

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3. myLot reputation of 78/100. bhu143 (385)   ranked 6,962 out of 23,121 in relationships   3 years ago

ya some people will change their charaters due to some reason may be she is changed or as your wife said someday she will show the colour


myLot reputation of 88/100. Peaches1122 (318)   ranked 2,556 out of 23,121 in relationships  3 years ago

True ... very true.

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4. myLot reputation of 59/100. urbangirl (980)   ranked 6,585 out of 23,121 in relationships   3 years ago

I know a friend who was in this situation (she was the new wife). The old wife was trying to get close to her so that she could poison the new wife's mind about her husband. I don't know what your ex's motivation is but I would be highly suspicious that she has not changed and this was only a ploy to get closer to you two for some reason.


myLot reputation of 88/100. Peaches1122 (318)   ranked 2,556 out of 23,121 in relationships  3 years ago

My wife is much smarter than my ex-wife. We use the situation for OUR benefit right now. We hope that it benefits my children in the long run, too.

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