Do you get mad when your husband looks at pretty girls?
By aileen2008
@aileen2008 (838)
Philippines
January 23, 2007 7:01pm CST
JUst last night I had an argument with him coz I caught him looking at this pretty girl seating in front of us. We were talking when this girl caught his attention. He forgot what he was saying to me coz he just keeps on looking at this girl which annoyed me so much.
When we reached home, I confronted him but of course he denied it which made me even mad coz I saw it with my own two eyes and he is got nerve to deny it.
Am I just a jealous person or do I have the reason to get mad? When men looks at pretty girls does this mean they dont find their wives/girlfriends attractive anymore?
5 responses
@sechsey (1831)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
I actually tease my husband about it before. If i see a pretty girl nearby, I use to always assume that he is looking at her. He usually denies it or say yeah he saw her but no other explanation. I dont really make a big deal about that. maybe if he starts talking about how the other girl looks good, i might feel jealous. He usually assures me that he's got his eyes on me. Its fine for me when he looks. He cant avoid it for sure and the same goes when we see handsome guys around. We cant help but admire but thats how far it should go. :)
@aileen2008 (838)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
It's ok with me if he looks at them but once is enough. No numerous head turning.
@g_aileen09 (1354)
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
I'm glad that my partner is very vocal to me in saying how good looking a lady is, whenever he sees one. He even encourages me to look at them too. I don't know, but I really couldn't get myself being jealous, even once. Maybe because I already know him from head to toe, and I understand that each one of us love to see beautiful things.
Don't get jealous my dear. It's but normal for men to look at pretty girls. This only shows that he is a man. What would be bad is catching him staring at gentlemen lusciously.
@aileen2008 (838)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Yeah it wud be gross if he looks at men the way we girls do. Hehehehe. No problem if he looks at girls, only he denies it and it's what annoys me. But he said sorry to me already coz he knows it upset me a lot. I'll be more understanding to him, promise.
@maryannemax (12154)
• Sweden
24 Jan 07
i think it's just natural for you to feel that way. and it's nice of you to tell your husband how you really feel about it. atleast you've got the courage to open up with him.
sometimes, i do feel the same. but i don't anymore. i always say that my boyfriend can look at the menu but never ever order!
@aileen2008 (838)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Well up until now, I am not talking to him. Probably later. I am preoccupying my mind just to forget what happened last night
@mfhasibuan (250)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 07
i think its a human nature. The fact are:
1. Every one loves a beautiful thing.
2. Every one loves to be loved
3. Every one need to be number one in their partner site
so..
its a human nature. I agree with you, but i agree with your husband, as long as his love is only for you
@aileen2008 (838)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
So every man does that and then denies it when get caught? I will have to try to live with that. But I told him next time I caught you I will not get mad anymore, I will just get even.hehehehe
@janjabu (110)
• Qatar
27 Jan 07
i don't mind him looking at beautiful women. i myself look at beautiful women because i like looking at beauty. :) however, if something similar happened to me that he forgets what he was saying, that's different. and the denial? hmmm. i won't be so happy either.
