Which do you prefer a girl or a boy?  

As long as the baby is healthy then you are lucky. I know you will both love and care for the baby no matter what its gender. You could buy a few baby things that would be suitable to either a boy or girl?

well i say boy

Well, i'm pretty much like whatever is given to me... it a gift given not just something you wanted and you get it. if you want i can tell the gender by a short interview if you want...

When I first found out that I was pregnant with my first child I wanted a girl. All I could think was pretty pink dresses and bows. Well after 2 pregnancies and having one of each I think boys are easier do deal with. Girls are drama queens and cry about EVERYTHING. Boys are rough and tough and just take things as they come. I am pregnant again for the third time and I am praying deep down that this is a boy! Good Luck and I hope you get what you are wishing for.

Som people think it's bad luck to buy baby things and bring them into the house before the baby is born, but I don't think so. I am 26 weeks pregnant now, and we were first told the baby was a boy. Then in our next ultrasound we were told it was a girl and they gave us pictures as proof. I'm just happy the baby is healthy, really. I hope it stays that way.

i wanted my first to be a boy so if i had a girl he could take care of her, and sure enough i had 2 boys then my baby girl! i love my babies!

I know where you are coming from. When i was pregnant with my first child i couldn't wait to find out if it was a boy or a girl. I also wanted to make sure that the baby was healthy as well. I wanted a girl, and my husband wanted a boy. Come to find out the baby was a girl. So a year later we decided to have another child. And it was a boy. So we had one of each. :)

It doesn't matter. I have a daughter and am pregnant with a son. Each have already given me so much joy. I love my daughter and who she is and I can't wait to experience life though the eyes of a boy. Each are eay and hard to raise and deal with but it's all worth it.

I have 2 boys and I don't have a girl. I didn't care either time. Both times I said I would like a boy for different reasons but as long as the baby was healthy I really didn't care at all.

Congratulation! You are now a mommy. Being a mother makes a woman complete.

As to your issue of your child gender. What I can say is that you should be happy whether your child is a boy or a girl. The baby is a gift. And I think what God will give you is the best for you.