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To all Indians.. Very important question i've always wanted to know the answer 2  email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 96/100. pebbles_cubbie (2130) 6 years ago

This is not meant to be discriminatory or negative in any way. My question is. What does the red dot on some of your foreheads mean? I want to know what it stands for, why you wear them and if it is a religious doing? I've always wanted to know that and never found anyone to ask. Please let me know. Again this is not a negative question please don't take this the wrong way. I'm just interested in your culture. thanks in advance.

 

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1. kd5cqq (19)   6 years ago

I would like to know the same thing. I have wondered about it for years. I am told in some cultures, it is a sign of royalty--not sure. I sure hope someone responds and lets us know. I am curious, too.


myLot reputation of 96/100. pebbles_cubbie (2130)  6 years ago

i've wondered this since i was a child. and i've been fascinated by it. i hope someone lets us know too. thanks for responding. i'll keep you posted.


myLot reputation of 78/100. romit19540 (143)  6 years ago

it is called as 'bindi' which all married women in india wear as s sign of their marraige

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2. elizabeth13 (88)   6 years ago

The middle of the forehead (important to the body) has to do with meditation, as well as in some Indian culture for a red dot on the woman means they are married, if it's a different color than red (means she isn't married and for cosmetic purpose.) Somewhat a pledge to their husbands when it's red/married. I've also read somewhere has to do with praying and religion.


myLot reputation of 96/100. pebbles_cubbie (2130)  6 years ago

thank you for clearing this up for us that do not know. i've never seen it other than the color red before.


myLot reputation of 85/100. not4me (1315)  6 years ago

As far as meditation, I always thought it symbolized the third eye. Is this true?


myLot reputation of 61/100. ashumit02 (798)  6 years ago

I m too infavour of meditation.It really give way with speed and accuracy

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3. myLot reputation of 87/100. vityota (816)   6 years ago

that is called bindi and in india we all wear it.. married ladies wear it as a sign of marriage and young girls wear it to look beautiful and more over its a culture here and in india you will find all or atleast most of the hindus wearing the bindi and they also say in the point between your eyes where we keep bindi it wards off negative power or if any one thinks bad about us it will not affect us


myLot reputation of 96/100. pebbles_cubbie (2130)  6 years ago

that's awesome. i love the way the bindi looks. thank you for letting me know what it is called and what it means. i appreciate it greatly.


myLot reputation of 99/100. crazynurse (5813)  6 years ago

Thanks vityota, I too, had always wondered about the dot. I really think that the warding off of negative power is an aweosme idea.


myLot reputation of 97/100. creativedreamweaver (4599)  6 years ago

Yes, thank you vityota for your very good explanation. I have wondered about it myself. I think it is so wonderful to be able to learn from each other. Thanks again.


myLot reputation of 95/100. omega007 (7249)  6 years ago

I always thought it was something but it never occur to me that it was a sign for married woman. So instead of wearing a wedding ring, the red dot on the forehead represent the wedding ring, right?


myLot reputation of 89/100. supersach (1294)  6 years ago

The red dot only represents that the woman is NOT a widow, she may be married or unmarried. By the way, the Indians also use the wedding ring as a sign of being married.


myLot reputation of 91/100. sweetpinks (227)  6 years ago

very right our bindi is the sign of marriage...even when we go 2 the temple after doing our prayer the priest apply red tilak known as sindoor on our forhead..its like keeping the bad things away frm us.


myLot reputation of 95/100. omega007 (7249)  6 years ago

Thanks for clearing things up for us here. Much appreciated.


2471987 (26)  6 years ago

hey thanx viyota even i m an indian and hindu bt u explained it in very good manner thanx buddy

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. crazynurse (5813)   6 years ago

Hello pebbles, I just wanted to thank you for posting this discussion. I too, have always wondering the true meaning. Of course I had been told many different things, but wanted to get the answer from someone who actually knew and wasn't just assuming or passing on what they had 'heard.' I had been told everything from religion, virgin vs non-virgin, married vs single, and countless other reasons for the dot. Thanks again for having the guts to ask!


myLot reputation of 96/100. pebbles_cubbie (2130)  6 years ago

thank you for checking out my post. i know a lot of people that are interested in the bindi. Many of us don't have a clue what it is or what it means. I too have been told many things, but didn't know whether to believe it or not because i've not asked a true Indian.


myLot reputation of 74/100. lauriefnp (4173)  6 years ago

This is a great discussion. I have also wondered about the red dot, or bindi as I now know it is called. It's great that we have this forum where we can learn such things. I always thought that the bindi had some kind of religious significance, but am intrigued with the belief that it wards off evil.

Again, this is a very useful and helpful discussion. It was asked in a culturally-sensitive manner which made it clear that the user had a genuine interest and was not being discriminatory in any way. Pebbles, you can be a "role model" for us! If we would ask these things as you did, I'm sure that we would get a better understanding of many different cultures, and we would in turn help others to understand us. Maybe this would, in some small way, help to stop some of the discrimination and hatred in the world by promoting understanding and tolerance.


myLot reputation of 96/100. pebbles_cubbie (2130)  6 years ago

laurief you are so sweet. thank you very much. i didnt know i would be such a help to many and i didnt know about all the discrimination that goes on around here either. i didnt know it was that bad. one user told me that people have been discriminating against indians. i'm very glad that i could make this place a little more friendly by asking my question in a polite manner. thank you for checking it out and responding to my discussion.

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5. myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15572)   6 years ago

I'm not Indian but I know it's a caste mark. Here is what I found out:

This red powder, commonly seen on the foreheads of Hindu men and women, is not a caste mark at all. It has an auspicious significance as a mark of respect and reverence, used in all religious ceremonies, by all Hindus regardless of caste. It is also applied to statues of deities during worship.

More important, when worn by a Hindu woman, it tells the world that she is married, and conversely would never adorn the forehead of a widow. LOVELINA NADKARNI


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15572)  6 years ago

I should have said thought NOT know.


myLot reputation of 96/100. pebbles_cubbie (2130)  6 years ago

thank you for letting me know what you found out. i really appreciate it.


myLot reputation of 86/100. few00cent (1601)  6 years ago

whiteheather...seems like you got too heated by this discussion..lol

bindi is not the mark of married woman.even unmarried girl can wear bindi on her face.you see,sindhur is mark of married woman.sindhur is placed in front side by seprating the hair from middle and between middle part of hair sindhur is placed.

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6. myLot reputation of 100/100. Alexandria37 (4558)   6 years ago

I had a very nice Indian lady call to my house a couple of weeks back and she had the red do on her forhead. I hadn't the courage to ask her what it signified, so after she left, I asked my husband (who claims to know everything), but he didn't know. It left me very curious, so I am glad you introduced this topic, so that my curiosity could be satisfied.


myLot reputation of 96/100. pebbles_cubbie (2130)  6 years ago

lol. i think all men think they know everything. i've always wanted to know about this since i was a child. thanks for reading my post and i'm glad it was of help to you

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. andak2007 (1657)   6 years ago

Thanks for posting this topic, now i know the meaning of the red dot on the forehead...so thus this mean if the woman wears it in other color than red she is still unmarried and she put it to make herself more beautiful like makeup?


myLot reputation of 96/100. pebbles_cubbie (2130)  6 years ago

not a problem i know many people are interested in knowing this. yea it is like makeup isn't it. thanks for responding.

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8. sadaq1710 (2)   6 years ago

India is a land of cultures and it has a very very big history.
Now coming to ur question about dott, It is called matha ka tilak, and the reason is very simple .The hindu religion says it to kep the dot.


myLot reputation of 96/100. pebbles_cubbie (2130)  6 years ago

i thought it may have something to do with the hindu religion i just didnt know what the connection was. thank you for telling us the true name of the dot. thanks for responding.

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9. myLot reputation of 94/100. mythmoh (3557)   6 years ago

it is sindur or bindi.it can be kept either in the middle of the forehead ie where the eyebrows join or at the top of forehead.top of forhead will be a symbol for married women and we believe goddess laxmi(god for wealth)stays there.we even keep bindi to kids whcih usually black (kajal) to get rid of evil things.it is mostly for hindus.further this bindi or kumkum will be given by the priest in temples.whenever some ladies visits our house we used to give them sindhur.


myLot reputation of 96/100. pebbles_cubbie (2130)  6 years ago

that's so amazing to me. i love the bindi or sindur. it is very beautiful and the meanings of it are wonderful. thank you for telling me more about them and more about how they get them..

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10. myLot reputation of 83/100. irisheyes (3349)   6 years ago

Good posting...Thanks for asking this. I see you are getting a variety of answers. I'll check back and see what develops here. Learning about things like this is what brings us together and that's what it's all about as far as I'm concerned.


myLot reputation of 96/100. pebbles_cubbie (2130)  6 years ago

yes i've gotten many answers varying from each other. i love learning about all this too. thanks for responding. keep checking back to see what we find.

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