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myLot reputation of 96/100. rachelcaron (895)   ranked 671 out of 19,193 in relationships 6 years ago

This is for the married people out there... how old were you when you got married? Did you feel that was a good age? Do you wish you waited or got married sooner?

I was 24, almost 25. I think that was a great age for me. I was old enough that I had been able to do quite a few things (travel, finish studies), but still young enough that I could have kids at a decent age and yet still spend some alone time with my husband.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 70/100. mbarryton (1427)   ranked 4,207 out of 19,193 in relationships   6 years ago

i was 30


myLot reputation of 96/100. rachelcaron (895)   ranked 671 out of 19,193 in relationships  6 years ago

do you feel that was a good age for you to get married? why or why not? please elaborate.


myLot reputation of 89/100. cruzades (528)  6 years ago

I don't think there's a good "age" in getting married, all boils down into "how both of you are stable financially, emotionally and spiritually?"


fynalefree (71)  6 years ago

30 is the perfect age when most people are financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually stable. I ytried 18 and again at 32 and it was definitely better for all involved the 2nd time around everyone was more mature.


myLot reputation of 93/100. wickedstepma (763)   ranked 8,807 out of 19,193 in relationships  6 years ago

I agree that early 30's is good. I was 19 the first time around, my ex was 23. We were both too immature. This time, I was 32, and my husband 31. It was the 2nd for both, and it's either that we were more mature, or the fact that we became friends way before we got romantically involved, but it's been a great 9 years so far!


myLot reputation of 96/100. rachelcaron (895)   ranked 671 out of 19,193 in relationships  6 years ago

30 might be good for some people. but, as I said, I think it really just depends on the individual situation. Some people are mature enough to get married at 20.

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2. dekzee (36)   ranked 6,101 out of 19,193 in relationships   6 years ago

Just got married, I'm 28. I think it's just about the right time. I don't feel childish anymore and I feel I can handle things that I've seen my parents went throught. Getting married is one thing but having kids is another. I'm planning to have kids at about 2 years from now.

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3. dekzee (36)   ranked 6,101 out of 19,193 in relationships   6 years ago

I just got married and I'm 28 years old. I think that's about the right age. I feel I can handle things that I've seen my parents handle. Getting married is one thing but having kids is another. That, I think, is something I'm not yet ready to handle. When the right time (or age) comes, I'm sure I'll know it.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. beutfulmama6701 (1186)   ranked 566 out of 19,193 in relationships   6 years ago

i just got married 5 months almost 6 months ago, i was 23 at the time.i have been with my husband since i was a senior in highschool. almost 8 years, we have a beautiful 5 year old daughter. to me it didnt matter when we got married for i knew he was the one,

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5. myLot reputation of 72/100. crystal8577 (1403)   ranked 4,910 out of 19,193 in relationships   6 years ago

The first time I was 19 & way to young. It was also to the wrong person. The 2nd time I was 25. That is always the age I imagined getting married at. I think it was just fine in the timing area.

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 486 out of 19,193 in relationships   6 years ago

i got married when i was 25 which was a good age to get married for me. I'm glad i waited because i wouldnt have found my husband! and that wouldnt be just rotten!

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7. myLot reputation of 93/100. harxian (537)   6 years ago

i got married at the age of exactly 25 during my birthday last november 14 2006 we had a civil wedding. i think i am in a right age to be married i had finished my studies and already had a job at this time and also my husband we are now leaving happily married and waiting to have a baby someday that would make us complete.


myLot reputation of 96/100. rachelcaron (895)   ranked 671 out of 19,193 in relationships  6 years ago

That is great.

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. greengal (2946)   6 years ago

I was around 23 when I got married. I turned 24 two months after that:) I feel it was the right age too, I've been spending time with my hubby and we plan to have kids probably next year. We've been married for over a year now. I still can work as well as study before I have kids.

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. armymomma3 (687)   6 years ago

the first time i married I was 18 we were divorced shorlty after my 19th bday. Actually I was served with the divorce papers on my 19th birthday. We are still freinds but we knew we were married for the wrong reasons. I am now 31 and have been married to a wonderful man for a little over a year now. It is much better this time. I know who I am, what i believe in and how I want my life to be. He is a younger man (only by 2 years) and we both could not be happier.

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10. myLot reputation of 90/100. ernst111 (4134)   6 years ago

I got married when I was 23, without the knowledge of my father and mother, or anyone in the family for that matter. We just had each other during the wedding ceremoney, together with two witnesses, who were are friends. It was just a simple affair and we were really in love. But that was years ago, and now it is unfortunate that we have to separate because of irreconcilable differences.

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