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myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6718)   ranked 154 out of 32,957 in life 6 years ago

I am a real worrier , I worry myself sick about things . My family get so annoyed at me but I just can't help it , If I have a problem and I can't solve it I am like a dog with a bone I just have it at the back of my mind and it niggles at me all the time , I thought my daughter in law had given me her copy of her wedding video taken 22 years ago so I could transfer it to DVD for her , I couldn't find it and I was really upset about it , I love her like a daughter and when I phoned to explain she said not to worry as It didn't matter , I felt even worse because she was so nice about it , My granddaughter was in visiting with her boyfriend last night and when I mentioned it to her , she said it was in the cupboard i her room , I felt so relieved I could have danced , She didn't see the problem and just said " nanny you worry too much " would you have Been the same under the circumstances ?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. poppoppop111 (3282)   ranked 200 out of 32,957 in life   6 years ago

i have this same problem, i worry too much. i even drive myself crazy. if i'm worried about something tht's all i can think about and i can't consentrate or talk about anything else so i really annoy the other people around me.


myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6718)   ranked 154 out of 32,957 in life  6 years ago

Thanks for that I am not glad you worry but it's good to know i'm not the only one xx

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2. myLot reputation of 85/100. serge4hair (1148)   6 years ago

this is why I am a buddhist because I can control the things others worrie about jsut see the way you can control your life and others will be ok in your life.
www.sergeruzeck.com will explain.


myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6718)   ranked 154 out of 32,957 in life  6 years ago

Thank you so much for the link xx


myLot reputation of 97/100. taramoon (418)   ranked 1,425 out of 32,957 in life  6 years ago

This sounds very interesting i am a very bad worrier i get that bad if i have a problem i flare up in spots and worst of all i have to have steroid treatment to get them down, we had a particular hard and long summer with our business last year and i was so stressed out and worried on how i was going to cope i ended up with these blotches for month all of summer, and they actually leave scars, could do with learnign how to relax and alternative theraphy


myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6718)   ranked 154 out of 32,957 in life  6 years ago

pitty you don't live closer pal . we could have some good laughs together eh!?xx

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. 4MYGIRLS (5062)   6 years ago

it really depends on the situation. some things i don't tend to worry about so much but some things i go overboard with worry. as for the wedding video i would have worried about that. i never got a copy of my wedding video. i was married in the courthouse and my sister in law video taped it but never offered us a copy. i was a little upset about it.


myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6718)   ranked 154 out of 32,957 in life  6 years ago

That was a bit mean after all it was your day, at least it all worked out for me Could you husband not ask her for a copy and say it was a surprise anniversary pressie for you ? xxxxx

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4. myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15574)   ranked 1,381 out of 32,957 in life   6 years ago

Not really. I do what I can to make the situation better if it turnout OK if not I just move on. Otherwise I would drive myself crazy because I have the affliction of being a perfectionist. You have to know when to give in and let go.


myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6718)   ranked 154 out of 32,957 in life  6 years ago

I am learning that but its taking time thanks heather xx

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. mel_87 (281)   6 years ago

yep im a worrier my work mate always tells me to stop worrying about things all the time and to stop stressing out about things but i cant help but worry about things and people lol i would have worried as well if i was in that situation yes


myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6718)   ranked 154 out of 32,957 in life  6 years ago

my daughter in law never worries and she just can't understand why I do , she is lovely though xx

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (14489)   ranked 86 out of 32,957 in life   6 years ago

We are both the same my friend, I constantly worry, I take after my mum in that respect, she too is a great worrier, although she has eased up a bit. I always look at worrying in this way, which is a great help to me.

Sit down and spend twenty minutes worrying about the problem you face, or problems in the plural, ok sitting comforably? Right, twenty minutes have gone by and you've spent that time worrying!

Ok, what have you achieved?

NOTHING

You've just wasted twenty minutes worrying but nothing has changed! The status quo is still the same, the same problems are still there!

My aunt had a saying which is very very true

If you've got a problem, do something about it, if not bu**er it!


myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6718)   ranked 154 out of 32,957 in life  6 years ago

I try so hard to do that pal , and I think I am getting better , xxxxxx

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7. myLot reputation of 91/100. kathy77 (6833)   ranked 1,409 out of 32,957 in life   6 years ago

Yes I would say I am a real worrier, I do not worry as much as I used to though. Yes it is very hard to stop worry about something that is on your mind and you can't solve it quickly. Yes and some times when we loose something it does worry us especially when the other person is so nice about it but you know something Weemam that when we lose something don't worry about it as we normally find it when we are looking for something else and that is what we found out when we had to move quite a bit, so I hope this helps with your worries. Yes I would of felt exactly like you did though.


myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6718)   ranked 154 out of 32,957 in life  6 years ago

my hubby said the same thing we will find it when we are not looking for it and my granddaughter did ( in her house lol ) xx

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8. myLot reputation of 86/100. shywolf (3828)   ranked 1,647 out of 32,957 in life   6 years ago

Oh, weemam, I'm so sorry that you worried so much over that video! I'm so glad that your granddaughter knew where it was! You must have felt such relief! ^_^

I am a worrier, for sure. I always thought that I was the worst, but my best friend is probably even more sensitive and more of a worrier than I am. I am just really, really sensitive and shy, and I especially worry myself to death over things to do with other people, because people mean everything to me. For example, I will write something to someone that I think a lot of, and if they don't reply I will start flipping out that I said something wrong or that made them think differently of me. I really honestly thought that I had lost a friend a couple of times recently when I didn't hear from them for a week or two. I don't mean to worry like that, but I find myself having to push back the nervousness and fear that I sometimes get after writing to certain people or writing about certain things on my journal knowing that certain people read it. I am getting better, honestly - I used to be far worse - but I still have a terrible, terrible tendency to worry about things like that. I even did it last night, only to hear from the person in question this morning and see that things were 100% fine, lol.


myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6718)   ranked 154 out of 32,957 in life  6 years ago

we sound so much alike I think we must be related xx

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9. daizie (90)   6 years ago

I wouldve been, yes. If I dont know something I find the answer, if I cant find something, everything else stops until I find it. Tunnel vision, I'd say.
As for worrying, up all night? Only when it concerns my job, money or the kids...so I would say the answer would be yes ;)

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. beaniefanatic13 (2154)   ranked 623 out of 32,957 in life   6 years ago

I would have been very worried had I thought that I had misplaced something that would be irreplaceable. I worry to much and this has caused me to have anxiety atttacks. I don't know why some people worry to much and yet others seem to have no worries at all, but I wish that I could be in the middle, not to much, and not at all, just right.
I'm glad that it was found. Good luck here at mylot!


myLot reputation of 98/100. weemam (6718)   ranked 154 out of 32,957 in life  6 years ago

I worried so much it caused an asthma attack Just can't help it can we ?


romeosmarty (1)  6 years ago

If you can't sleep,then get up and do something instead of lying there and worrying.It's the worry that gets you,not the lack of sleep.


endeya (5)   ranked 27,182 out of 32,957 in life  6 years ago

I am a worrier too... that worry usually turns to panic and anxiety. Usually it's about something I forgot to do or something I left somewhere.
What keeps me grounded is my guy. He never worries about anything, you'd think he didn't care. A very simple example is when we're already late for an engagement... I'd panic and run around the house but he'd even find time to watch TV.
I guess you could find comfort in the people around you... if your friend was nice about it, try to relax. I'm sure this has happened to you--- you worried so much but everything turned out OK anyway... you then think how silly you were to panic.


myLot reputation of 66/100. nevertolate (518)  5 years ago

yes im a BAD worrier

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