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myLot reputation of 95/100. raghavrao89 (112)   ranked 1,258 out of 27,452 in mylot.com 5 years ago

I don't know whether it's just me or there are others, but my friends say I'm an awful nag when it comes to language and get annoyed because I constantly correct their grammar and pronunciation. It's not that I'm a know it all or that my english is flawless. It's just that..I make friends at my intellectual level or close to it, so if I can take criticism from them about my stories, speeches etc. can't they heed my corrections as well? Do any of you have this obsession to correct any mistakes in your friends? (be they in language or in smoking or in litering etc.)

 

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1. myLot reputation of 75/100. Adrenochrome (736)   ranked 5,031 out of 27,452 in mylot.com   5 years ago

Yes I am, and I should just like to mention that this is not perfectionism, but pedantry! Lol! I'm, also, an English teacher, so technically it is my job to be a pedant.


myLot reputation of 95/100. raghavrao89 (112)   ranked 1,258 out of 27,452 in mylot.com  5 years ago

Hey... thank you.. I'll remember that.. what exactly does Pedantry mean again? Oh.. and by the way.. the only reason my time on mylot isn't restricted by my mother is that she believes that it'll improve my communication skills.


myLot reputation of 75/100. Adrenochrome (736)   ranked 5,031 out of 27,452 in mylot.com  5 years ago

I notice from your profile that you are from India, which probably explains why your English is so good, the average UK resident has few linguistic skills nowadays, and especially when it comes to their mother tongue! Congratulations to your mother, though I feel you have already attained a very high standard of English language, and communication skills. Good luck for the future, and keep up the good work.


myLot reputation of 95/100. raghavrao89 (112)   ranked 1,258 out of 27,452 in mylot.com  5 years ago

Thanks.. I really appreciate that... someday.. I hope to attain the level of my mother's eloquence... she's still miles ahead of me. And I find it hard to believe that people in the UK have limited linguistic skills.. English being their mother tongue.. and being brought up on books by the likes of Enid Blyton and P.G.Wodehouse


myLot reputation of 75/100. Adrenochrome (736)   ranked 5,031 out of 27,452 in mylot.com  5 years ago

Unfortunately, the appeal of such great literature are little, and the UKs kids prefer Playstations and DVDs to a good book, nowadays. If you enjoy PG Wodehouse, might I reccommend an author of a similar ilk, named Saki (aka HH Munro). He, too, wtites wonderfully amusing stories set around the same time in England, and with some tremendous characters.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. Michele21 (2867)   ranked 1,246 out of 27,452 in mylot.com   5 years ago

I am always correcting my husband and kids if they say something incorrectly. My husband gets annoyed with me but I am trying to help him out so he doesn't go to work or something and sound dumb. I don't usually correct other people though, maybe my mom a few times, but other than that I don't want to appear rude so I keep it to myself =)


myLot reputation of 95/100. raghavrao89 (112)   ranked 1,258 out of 27,452 in mylot.com  5 years ago

Well.. that's probably possible because you live elsewhere than in my country.. here the males are like primates.. very egotistical.. so a wife who can corect them is likely to be beaten up. My father used to get frustrated at my mom a lot as she was much more intelligent and take it all out on her. Today, at the age of eighteen..I see that the male dominance is fading.. and not surprisingly.. some of the most eloquent teens of a comparable age that I've come across have been girls.

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3. myLot reputation of 90/100. listen2me (401)   ranked 9,414 out of 27,452 in mylot.com   5 years ago

personally i dont, i fel if u can undrstnd wht im writin it shuldnt be a prob.

now like the above statement, i know someone will read it and go nuts, but hey, correct grammer isnt my pet peve. you have to know what im trying to say in order to correct it. and if you do correct it. u under stud whut i was trin 2 say. lol

nice topic


myLot reputation of 95/100. raghavrao89 (112)   ranked 1,258 out of 27,452 in mylot.com  5 years ago

I get your point and being jus eighteen as well.. I guess it's a bit arrogant trying to correct other people, but the thing is.. If I don't, being in the field of Media, when talking to professionals from the field, they may make a fool of themselves, and it's better to correct your friend now and be cursed that watch them make a fool of themselves in front of bigshots right?

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4. myLot reputation of 87/100. livewyre (1226)   ranked 2,969 out of 27,452 in mylot.com   5 years ago

Hi I just posted a question about English learners and I saw your (close to) flawless English. This is very refreshing. You don't need to correct someone unless it is asked for, your good grammar (and no doubt pronunciation) 'speaks' for itself, It is clear that you are a bright individual, you should be careful not to appear superior though...correction is good, the manner of correction should be humble and thoughtful - start with encouragement so that it doesn't look like you are establishing yourself above someone else. I hope you will continue to strive to be as good as you can be.


myLot reputation of 95/100. raghavrao89 (112)   ranked 1,258 out of 27,452 in mylot.com  5 years ago

Aw gee... I'm blushing beet red.. thanks for the praise.. and for the advice.. I'll try to correct as humbly as possible.. I only correct friends though, I know trying to correct an elder protrays nothing but conceit.. and your english seems much closer to flawless than mine :)


myLot reputation of 87/100. livewyre (1226)   ranked 2,969 out of 27,452 in mylot.com  5 years ago

Well, I just have the one language to contend with, I am assuming (maybe wrongly presuming) that you speak more than one language?


myLot reputation of 95/100. raghavrao89 (112)   ranked 1,258 out of 27,452 in mylot.com  5 years ago

Yeah.. true.. I speak three almost fluently and a fourth with a questionable command.. makes it four :P

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. happymommy3 (1191)   ranked 1,536 out of 27,452 in mylot.com   5 years ago

I don't have this obsession, but I am very annoyed at times by my brother who is just like you. There's nothing wrong with that, don't get me wrong, but it is annoying at times when you're trying to have a conversation and are constantly corrected.

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6. fastlove (24)   5 years ago

as much as i wantim not that good, because im from 3rd world..

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