How do you tell a friend that he has a bad breath?

bad breath - bad breath ... ewww
@heatspine (1141)
Philippines
February 28, 2007 7:14pm CST
I have a friend who really has a foul breath. There are times that I really could not stand it that I cover my nose in front of him - but still he does not seem to care. How do I tell it to him without him being offended?
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6 responses
• United States
1 Mar 07
Hi Heatspine: Being a true friend it is really your duty to tell your friend the truth. How will he take it???? That remains to be seen. But, nevertheless, I would want my true friend to tell me. You can let him know that you have something to tell him and that you are not trying to be funny, but you are telling him because you really consider him a good friend of yours and you don't want anyone talking about him behind his back (and believe me it is a really good possibility that they are). Tell him that you don't want to offend him or for him to be upset with you, but on more than one occassion you have noticed that he has bad breath and you just wanted to make him aware of it so that he can carry some mints or something with him. Best of luck to you. P.S. If he gets upset know that you were only doing the right thing and would want your friend to tell you if something was wrong.
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@heatspine (1141)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
yeah. i'll muster enough courage to say it to him straight face. i may also have to practice holding my breath for the long discussion.
@blaze21 (67)
1 Mar 07
i can understand you not wanting to hurt your friends feelings but as his friend you should tell him just be upfront with him its better that he hears it from u in a nice way then from someone who doesn't care about his feelings. in the long run he will appreaciate you being honest with him and you won't have to stand his bad breath i hope that helps ya out let me know how it goes.
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@matlgal (1686)
• United States
1 Mar 07
LOL the plot thickens.... I would leave packets of Mints or Altoids, breath savers or something to that affect on his desk after or before hours. Eventually he will take the hint. It could be a bad stomach ulcer? or bad teeth? you never know but it is so hard not to react when they are in your face with it. Give it a try, or like they said always offer gum if you are having one etc.
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@heatspine (1141)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
ow yeah :) maybe it can also be an anonymous giver of breath mint ... nice idea.
@heatspine (1141)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
yay. somehow i expected that response. i'm coming up with a good dialog for this one. now, lets make it more interesting - what if the person was your boss?
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@baby88 (695)
• Singapore
1 Mar 07
using a polite wat like offering him a sweet or something to refresh his breath. then tell him that maybe he have forgotten to blush his teeths. i think yhis is the best way.goodluck!
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@heatspine (1141)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
saying maybe he has forgotten to brush might be too direct. the gum can be a better way to do it.
@earth2jacq (1498)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
Since he is your friend I think saying it directly to him will do. But do it in private don't announce it and do lower your voice. Another option would be to give him a note that says he has a bad breath and as a concerned friend you are saying it so other people won't talk about it behind his back. I think your friend will understand after all it's for his own good to start paying attention to his hygiene.
@heatspine (1141)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
a note would be a good idea. spares me from a lot of verbal reasoning.
@Zo0mZo0m (1357)
• United States
1 Mar 07
If you say that you are truly his friend you will tell him the truth. Sometimes the truth really does hurt. It's better that he knows the truth now and take care of it than getting embarrassed by strangers who will NOT spare his feelings. Sometimes you have to put feelings aside and tell the truth. Foul breath is murder to our nostrils.
@Zo0mZo0m (1357)
• United States
1 Mar 07
It's good that you can see the lighter side to all this. Stench is just not socially acceptable, in my opinion. LOL!!!
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@heatspine (1141)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
agree. good thing our nostrils have x number of lives.
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• Canada
1 Mar 07
Make sure you have gum on hand and offer him a piece? I did that once with someone I worked with that had bad breath. As far as I know they never caught on, either that or they were just too embarassed to say anything lol.
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@heatspine (1141)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
nice idea. i'll try a menthol gum next time.