suspicion
By uramit2003
@uramit2003 (898)
India
March 2, 2007 7:41pm CST
Hey guys and gals do help me out of this problem.My galfren is always suspicious of me.She doesnt believe me and always thinks that i am looking for other gals.And whenever she finds something extraordinary then becomes outrageous and she doesnt understand that because of these silly things she is making our life a hell.Though I love her very much but these absurd things are getting on my nerves.Plz sugest what I sud do to calm her to strengthen her trust on me
5 responses
@kpendragon77 (417)
• United States
3 Mar 07
It sounds to me that she has trust issues in general. she has obviously been burned before and that is something that she needs to work on before she can even hope to have a successful relationship with anyone. It also sounds like you guys have a lack of communication going on. You have to make your thoughts known to her. Without either of these problems fixed, your relationship is doomed to failure. You need to sit her down and tell her everything that is in your head and heart. If she doesn't want to listen, then you have your answer and you guys need to go ahead and break up.
@uramit2003 (898)
• India
3 Mar 07
thanx ! Got a good suggestion from u .I dont want to part with her 'coz she is perfect for me.She has never been into any other relation before me.I think we do have a communication gap and we do need to get things worked out.
@kpendragon77 (417)
• United States
6 Mar 07
I am glad to hear that you found what you were seeking. I am also glad I could help. I seem to know people pretty well in genreal so if you ever need any advice on anything let me know. I am a great listener. Good luck and keep in touch on the outcome.
@marymarj2002 (1769)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
Some girls are like that. They always jealous. I can't count myself as exempted to that. I jealous my husband sometimes. Especially when I was still her girlfriend I jealous a lot of times and it cause as arguments most of the times. But later, we can understand especially if you show to her that you really love her and she is secure to you. Prove to her that you will love her forever and it would lessen her jealousy.
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@Phlamingho (7822)
• Denmark
3 Mar 07
I couldn't stay in a relationship like that. If there's no trust it wont work out in the long run anyway, mind as well end it now... Sad but true...
@uramit2003 (898)
• India
3 Mar 07
Dude! This is not a solution.I dont want to end up the relation 'coz she is a nice person but sometimes she behaves strange.I just need a soluton to make her feel secure
@Methodless (882)
• Canada
3 Mar 07
A lot of times, one partner is like this because it is THEM who is hiding something and fears that karma will strike them because they deserve it.
What the comment above me says is also true though.
@cybergwen (158)
• United States
3 Mar 07
I hate to say it, but I don't think that she will be secure with you until she is secure herself.
