Why do we get close to some people very soon and others not?

@ajithlal (14716)
India
March 6, 2007 8:25pm CST
why do we get close with some people within minutes and others that we known for months not? What makes us attract to some people and stay away from others? It is telepathy or behavior or something else?
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cruzades
@cruzades (659)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
It's the 'aura' or 'good vibes'. I admit that it really play a vital role in meeting people, we easily get acquainted to someone with a good 'aura' than those are not. Yea I believe in this.
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ajithlal
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
7 Mar 07
I also think to some extend this id due to the good vibes or aura as you said that is transmitted form one person to another.
sherinek
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
7 Mar 07
That is may be dut to the natural charisma of that person. I mean, some are very easy to talk to, very patient and understanding. Do not say crude things or jokes. They are very polite and cool with any situation. Its easy to be friends with such people.
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ajithlal
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
7 Mar 07
Yes me too like the people who are very understanding and easy to talk adn very patient. These kind of people are very hard to find. Most people are not very polite or cool to different situation. Some people tries to critize others. Most times people who get irritated or angry easily are less liked by the people.
sherinek
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
8 Mar 07
Everybody likes to be friends with a calm person. I dont think anyone would like to be next to a person with anger and attitude.
Kylalynn
@Kylalynn (1771)
• South Africa
7 Mar 07
I think it's a certain energy. Different people give off different energies. I am always attracted, to calm intelligent people.
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ajithlal
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
7 Mar 07
yes different people have different energies and wave lenght. We get comfortable wih same energy or wave length that is transmitted by others. I also like calm people. I think most people likes calm and cool people.
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CatEyes
@CatEyes (2448)
• United States
10 Mar 07
I think it has to do with a lot of things and a major part is to do with intuition. Telepathy or what not. I know I have friends who I can read their minds at times and it freaks them out, but they are used to it now.