what will you do if the person you love doesn't love you ,you just give up or?
By una1129
@una1129 (271)
China
April 6, 2007 7:17am CST
finding a person you love and love you is very difficult,so please treasure the person who you want to treasure.lasr summer i fell in love with a boy secretly,but i didn't tell him ,because i have no confidence of myself.i can't imagine the result if i told him the truth.but now another boy came into my life,unlucky i don't like him,he isn't the style i like. though i always say that i want to loyal to my heart ,i still don't what should i do?
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6 responses
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Apr 07
Well love is a two way process it takes two to tango when you alone loves the person its not love at all when it is not returned. I was in the same kind of situation before and it was for eight years and I just accepted my fate. I found the person that was really meant for me and I believed to be the one sent by God for me. Just wait for God will give the perfect person for you in HIs perfect timing.
@Palace_Girl (416)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
I agree with una1129 here. I'm so happy for you zelmarq that you found someone, but others really don't. Most of the advise coming from friends and family for the broken hearted is this.
But what if the one you deserve is not the one you want? What if this perfect person somewhere is not the one want?
@Palace_Girl (416)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
I have not been in this situation but i'll tell you the story of someone i knew..
I have a friend who is head over hills inlove with her bestfriend but he is in a relationship. Based on what i gather the guy likes her as well but he is afraid to make a move because he treasures his girl. My friend is thinking of telling him the truth but i really think she can't do it since she has been planning of doing it for the last 15 months. HaHa. I ask her, what will you gain by telling him that you have feelings for him? Hoping that he loves you back? Why would you want to be with someone who don't love you enough?
@Palace_Girl (416)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Of course your not! It happens. Hey, don't be too hard on yourself. It is natural.
@una1129 (271)
• China
24 Apr 07
To give up something or someone is so difficult.Though i know we have no future ,but i still can't let myself forget the feeling.everytime when i think that there will be another girl doing things together with him,then i'll be very uncomfortable.
Am i a little abnormal?
@jjwatson28 (572)
• United States
6 Apr 07
I think you should tell the guy you like. You never know he might be as shy as you. If he doesnt feel that way move on but do you want that could of should of would of hanging over your head?
@mosvph (97)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
How can someone come into your life when you don't even like him? And how do you know the first guy doesn't love you when you haven't made him notice you? So who do you have to be loyal to? Well of course you did not explain much and I chose to respond to a riddle.
I think you should talk to Guy No.1 and find out if he feels the same.
@piggynell (2)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
hmmmmm...just be the wind and go with it freely..why hold on to a person who doesnt like you ...right???????????iiiii gaveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee up already....theres no sense..u actually put a lot of effort and then for what????stupidity???????????
