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myLot reputation of 76/100. mama4kids (343)   ranked 463 out of 9,010 in parenting 5 years ago

I am constantly being teased because we use more natural and organic products and foods than not. I use seventh generation diapers, which are chlorine free and more natural than the other brands. I only use organic baby food. When buying food....I buy all natural, no hormone added meat only, some organic veggies and fruits, and some other organic foods and products such as pasta, tomato sauce, canned veggies, ketchup, cheese, milk, juice, baby wipes, cleaning products, just to name a few. I use natural hair dye and natural, chemical free body wash and shampoos. Also the kids products like shampoo and toothpaste are chemcial free and natural. I wont shampoo my carpets unless I use all natural carpet shampoo. I am sick of everyone acting as if I am doing something so out of the ordinary. I think I am doing what is best for me and my kids. So why does everyone tease and mock me? Anyone else out there that can relate to me? I hope I am not alone. We all need to save the earth in little ways and make sure that our kids are the healthiest they can be!!

 

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1. myLot reputation of 92/100. mac1946 (1090)   ranked 1,376 out of 9,010 in parenting   5 years ago

I am all for your plan,it is always good when someone does some good for a change,but I do not know the brand,Seventh generation diapers,but they sound to me like they are still disposibles.
I reward mom's that use only cloth diapers with a discount on locksmith work or a free key cut.
no matter how disposibles are made,they still contain chemicals and many do not ever reach the garbage.
thank you for your discussion.
Blessed be


myLot reputation of 76/100. mama4kids (343)   ranked 463 out of 9,010 in parenting  5 years ago

seventh generation are disposable diapers. i just dont have the time to deal with cloth. i have 4 kids, work part time at home, attend college and have my housewife/mommy duties daily to deal with. seventh generation uses no chlorine or other chemicals. there are a few other brands that are the same too.


myLot reputation of 92/100. mac1946 (1090)   ranked 1,376 out of 9,010 in parenting  5 years ago

I am sorry if I sounded like I was critisizing,I did not mean to.
I do understand many do not have time,and I do not judge,just reward.
at least you are rtying and that counts for a lot,thank you.
Blessed be.

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. Jennifer16628 (105)   ranked 387 out of 9,010 in parenting   5 years ago

I understand. I don't do quite as well as you do at this it sounds but I do try and get funny looks and comments. I do not buy meat because it is SO expensive to buy the hormone/chemical free and I don't think it is necessary anyhow. I make soy milk for my children (I don't like it). I grow most of our fruits and vegetables in order to get the most nutritous (sp?) and chemical free. I admire your purchasing all chemical free soaps and such...I am easing into it. You should be proud of yourself.:)


myLot reputation of 76/100. mama4kids (343)   ranked 463 out of 9,010 in parenting  5 years ago

sounds like you are doing a good job!! my kids like organic soy milk too. i only like the coffee flavored one which isnt easy to find. or the egg nog flavoed one. it takes a while to do all of this stuff. and you probably know that it isnt easy or cheap to keep up with. but a little at a time is the best that anyone can do.

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. foxyfire33 (5787)   ranked 115 out of 9,010 in parenting   5 years ago

I can't relate much because I'm just easing into it myself. My s/o doesn't see the point so it's been slow going. I'm nursing the baby and making his solids. I couldn't grow the vegetables myself because it's still too early and I didn't get to have a garden last year (again blame s/o) but at least I'm not buying all those little plastic and glass containers or filling him up with preservatives and sugars.
I have cloth diapers that I have every intention of using as soon as my s/o starts listening to me and quits buying the disposables. I make wiser choices when grocery shopping and try to be mindful of water and energy usage.
Ideally I'll get to about where you are with these things but there will always be things I'll have to make huge compromises on because my s/o doesn't think any of this is important. We get into heated debates over which is more important, the potential crude oil supply in Alaska or the nature that would be destroyed to get to it. If we can disagree so strongly about that you can imagine how difficult it is to get our own household wishes on the same page.


myLot reputation of 76/100. mama4kids (343)   ranked 463 out of 9,010 in parenting  5 years ago

it takes a while. a lot of people feel the same way as your s/o (i dont know what this is abbreviating though..sorry..lol). cloth diapers are great but a pain to deal with so if you are using them..give yourself a pat on the back. i understand that it is hard to get those around you to understand why to use this stuff. my husband was skeptical at first but now he is onboard. i wouldnt say 100% but at least 90% so it is better than in the beginning. good luck to you!!


myLot reputation of 92/100. syndibee (529)   ranked 96 out of 9,010 in parenting  5 years ago

your s/o will never stop buying the disposables unless you stop using them first...you are in a viscious circle with that one so if you truely want to get out of the disposables rut then stop using them, put them up where he sees that you don't need more and start using the cloth, keep those disposables for emergency situations.


myLot reputation of 93/100. foxyfire33 (5787)   ranked 115 out of 9,010 in parenting  5 years ago

S/O means "significant other". I know cloth won't be easy but I think it's better than dealing with a pile of disposables everyday.


myLot reputation of 93/100. foxyfire33 (5787)   ranked 115 out of 9,010 in parenting  5 years ago

syndibee- That wasn't a very polite assumption. It isn't in any way my fault. I've told him to not buy them, I've used the cloth instead. He's the one that doesn't WANT me to use cloth. He's not stupid, he sees the disposables missing off the changing table. He just buys more anyway.


myLot reputation of 92/100. syndibee (529)   ranked 96 out of 9,010 in parenting  5 years ago

sorry that you took my comment as an impolite assumption i was just saying that he won't stop buying them and your using them is giving him the go ahead to continue. of course it's your household and you live the way that is best for you and your family, you were just sounding like you felt defeated because he kept buying them and well you aren't in the least, you can easily just stop using them. i don't see anything impolite or rude in that statement.

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. syndibee (529)   ranked 96 out of 9,010 in parenting   5 years ago

i use cloth diapers....they don't take any extra work or time...that my friend is a myth!!!
i use natural cleaners, such as vinegar and baking soda, why even bother going in the cleaners aisle??? i'm learning to make my own soaps and lotions. we don't use paper products except toilet paper which i just can't bring myself to switch that to cloth.
tho i don't buy organic, i'm under the impression that it's more expensive and i have a veryvery tight budget. i try to buy healthy but i know there are better ways to go.
i think if we combined my household practices and your cooking practices we would be the most organic person out there.
actually i talk to alot of natural living individuals, you aren't alone out there. i do suggest u give the cloth diapers a try tho, that really would add to your healthy lifestyle and not to your work load as you think.


myLot reputation of 76/100. mama4kids (343)   ranked 463 out of 9,010 in parenting  5 years ago

well they must take a little more time since you have to wash them. i have a family of 6, do you know how much time i spend doing laundry? i do not wish to do anymore nor do i have time to. i heard of those diapers called gdiapers. they are cloth with a flushable pad like thing in the middle that you get rid of. that i was willing to do but i live in the damn woods, not too close to too much so it wasnt really an option i couldve done affordably. i wish i couldve but i think i found a good alternative. and i do understand the whole tight budget thing. we have one too unfortunately. with 4 growing kids, any budget would be tight i guess..lol. and you are right...combined we kick a**. i appreciate your post. it was a good one!!!

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5. myLot reputation of 84/100. mememama (2153)   ranked 549 out of 9,010 in parenting   5 years ago

I'm not 100% green but getting there slowly but surely lol. We use cloth diapers and wipes (I plan on using them on future children too), homemade cleaners, wash with castille soap or use natural shampoos/conditioners. I don't use all organic, I can't find everything organic where I live but if it's available I buy that first before the other stuff. I'm kind of used to being teased, I was a vegeterian as a teenager and until recently. My husband is actually jumping on the bandwagon, he bought some energy efficient bulbs after I mentioned them and is kind of excited about it.


myLot reputation of 76/100. mama4kids (343)   ranked 463 out of 9,010 in parenting  5 years ago

it takes time to adopt an organic/natural life. even just doing one thing is good. sounds like you do quite a bit though. thanks for the post. i know i am not some weirdo now..lol.

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6. myLot reputation of 88/100. fluffyfrog (2612)   5 years ago

I dont know why everyone is making fun of you. Just look at the grocery store and you'll see how popular organic things are becoming. Its the new fad now. Fred meyer devotes several aisles to all natural products. With all the harmful chemicals in our ordinary foods and products its no wonder that some people like to get all natural items. Just ignore these people, you are doing the safest thing you can for you and your family.


myLot reputation of 76/100. mama4kids (343)   ranked 463 out of 9,010 in parenting  5 years ago

well i guess the only thing i can say is that some of the people i know are just plain ignorant...lol. they walk the earth with their eyes closed..lol. but yes..organic is all around so you would think that i wasnt alone in my circle of friends. but guess again..lol

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7. myLot reputation of 91/100. Impervious (714)   ranked 628 out of 9,010 in parenting   5 years ago

You are not so alone, I cant say that I take it quite that far although I probably should. As far as why alot more people don't do that I think that for some people it is just a little cost prohibitive.

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8. myLot reputation of 59/100. jen20619 (1014)   5 years ago

im alittle like you myself you are not alone on this

i think its all good what you do.

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9. angelblush (74)   5 years ago

nope. you are not the only one... :) there are lots who does this kind of natural living as well. im practicing it... and so are other people i know. its actually a great way... if one wants to live longer... :)

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. charms88 (4635)   ranked 496 out of 9,010 in parenting   5 years ago

You're not the only one, mama4kids. Organic products tend to be quite costly here in my country but I will still buy some from time to time. I am all too aware of the chemicals and pesticides added to the regular and cheaper products.

I always buy organic eggs which is more delicious than the regular one. Vegetables and even the beauty products should be organic too. I was born with a lot of allergies and I must say, I'm grateful to discover all this organic thingy.

Just shrug off whatever people are saying about you. You were on the right track. :)


myLot reputation of 76/100. mama4kids (343)   ranked 463 out of 9,010 in parenting  5 years ago

thank you for your post. i do like those organic eggs too. i actually found that if i gave my kids the ordinary, non organic eggs that they got hives. if i feed them the organic ones, they are fine. i agree with the beauty products too. most people dont realize the amount of toxic chemicals in soaps, makeup and shampoos. sad, isnt it.

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