AlanKenzo

@AlanKenzo (23)

United States • Age 44

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What makes a person cheat in a relationships?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 7 Dec 09

We always hear stories about people who cheated their partner, so some reasons. Like, their partner is not the person they thought they know or their partner has changed. In your own opinion and experienced, why do people cheat in...

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love

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AlanKenzo There are many reasons why people cheat and in their own minds sometimes the situation justifies the means. Alot of people now a days say that they don't believe in cheating and say that it's wrong and never would happen with them, but I really believe that no...

7 Dec 09

Love

MagdalenaM @MagdalenaM (681) • United States 5 Dec 09

Yes, I much debated subject but so very differently viewed and probably felt...some poeple love some poeple because the way they make them feel and selfishly want them next to them irrelevant if that person if happy or not...if...

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AlanKenzo Love is complicated and love is amazing... If you "love" someone just because of how they make you feel and disregard their feelings, it's still love, a one sided love, is it true? by all means it is. I've known a lot of people that have married because of...

5 Dec 09

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Problem with Love.

prasant_sp3214 @prasant_sp3214 (137) • India 5 Dec 09

Hai everybody, I have a problem, 3 years back one of my friend loved a girl and she too loved him (I can't mention their names, sorry), due to some problems from their parents there were not able to marry, that girl married...

deadlock

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AlanKenzo I say they should stay together, if he really loves her, it should not matter if she is the sister of the husband to his ex-girlfriend. Leaving her because of something she has no control over is unfair to her. Honestly your friend should have no real grudge...

5 Dec 09

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break up with someone without hurting each other emotionally?

musikaLorA @musikaLorA (115) • Philippines 3 Dec 09

is it possible? if my relationships doesn't work out well, i always wanted to break it up in a nice way because if my partner agree,i would like to stay as friends that is why,as much as i want to i still haven't experience...

break up

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AlanKenzo it all depends on the situation and what happens, saying that it's not possible at all is completely wrong, there are conditions that have to be there for it to really work out and honestly it is rare but it can work. You have to be totally mature about it and...

3 Dec 09

break up with someone without hurting each other emotionally?

musikaLorA @musikaLorA (115) • Philippines 3 Dec 09

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AlanKenzo That's a really hard thing to do, but it is possible. If it was miss-communication then it's really had, but if you and your soon to be ex agrees on it and you both understand then it is possible. I've had a lot of break-ups and almost all of them ended...

3 Dec 09

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Are you a facebook addict??

amitgandhi82 @amitgandhi82 (92) • India 2 Dec 09

Many people nowadays are drawn towards social networking sites like facebook,twitter and so on.. Are you a facebook addict?? If yes, what features do you like the most on facebook?? Do you play games on facebook?? If yes,...

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AlanKenzo I would say I'm a facebook addict... sorta... I just like playing the games like "Vampire Wars" and " Castle Age" but other then that I hardly socialize on it.

3 Dec 09

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Are you afraid of getting married?

lynnzheng @lynnzheng (89) • China 23 Nov 09

i am 24 this year, my parents actually wanna me find my Mr. right and then get married, but i have no that kind of mind or awareness, i think i have a long way to go to be a wife. what should i face to this problem. in fact, i...

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AlanKenzo Being afraid of getting married is natural, there are many uncertainties in marriage. Though you should never "rush" trying to find Mr.Right. All things happen when they happen weather or not you're looking. Take your time to enjoy life and when you're ready,...

23 Nov 09

What is the first thing you do when you wake up in the Morning?

mchavez11 @mchavez11 (1406) • Philippines 22 Nov 09

After a hefty hours of peaceful sleep we wake up with full of vigor and energy. We find ourselves doing our own morning rituals like brushing your teeth, washing your face or whatever. But besides that, what do you actually do...

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AlanKenzo First thing I do in the morning? I look at my cellphone or clock and see how much more time of sleep I can get before I have to do anything, then I either go back to sleep or I get up, turn on the coffee maker and then go brush my teeth, usually by the time I...

23 Nov 09

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To spank or not to spank?

kjess77 @kjess77 (40) • United States 21 Nov 09

A few decades ago, spanking was the norm. Now the majority of households do not spank their children. How and why has this shift occured, and where do you stand? This is what I think... I think that spanking teaches children...

been pregnant

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AlanKenzo When I was growing up I got more then just a spanking, my father would whip me with his belt if I did anything wrong, but he would also explain to me why he did it. It was never instant though. I'd get verbal warnings before that and if I went over that's when...

22 Nov 09

How Far Will You Travel

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 20 Nov 09

In the United States, Thanksgiving is less than a week away, and that means that many of us are going to be packing up our bags and heading out of town for a few days. I'm curious to find out how far you are planning to travel...

holiday

thanksgiving

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AlanKenzo wow, the furthest I've traveled... I'm was in the military and so I was stationed in Germany, I had enough leave saved up that I went back home for thanksgiving which would be CA. I did the same thing when I was stationed in Korea, but that's not as far as...

21 Nov 09

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Have you ever contemplated suicide? - I have.

Hanan_x3 @Hanan_x3 (294) • United States 20 Nov 09

I have. So many times. Life is not worth anything. Literally. I mean, I'm very happy in life. I have people who love me and I love others. I have a great boyfriend (sometimes) and a wonderful family (sometimes). I also have some...

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AlanKenzo You know, I think that a lot of people in the world go through that, thinking that it would probably be best if they never existed, contemplating death. All for different reasons. I've tried several times in my life so far but I don't try anymore, but that...

21 Nov 09

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To Tip or Not To Tip...That Is The Question???

LadyMarissa @LadyMarissa (12148) • United States 20 Nov 09

http://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news/local-beat/Time-In-Prison--70426052.html?yhp=1 I saw this on the news yesterday, but was unable to find a link so I let it go. A friend sent me the link during the night so I thought I would...

arrested for not tipping

lousy service

theft of services

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AlanKenzo That's horrible, personally I think they should not have been arrested, but what ever service was given, I usually leave a tip... I've never left any place with no tip. but then again I leave tips based on service and depending how the service is is how I will...

21 Nov 09

Just won 1M bucks! Please congratulate me!

Fulltank @Fulltank (2882) • Philippines 20 Nov 09

When I opened my e-mail a while ago, I just got this wonderful e-mail from a very nice Nigerian man telling me that I won one million dollars. He said to forward him my bank account and other personal information and should have...

scam

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AlanKenzo Nigeria! wow... Mine came from Zimbabwe! are they like neighbors? I sent them all my info and even my home address, can't wait to see that million, As soon as I get my million, I'm taking all of you out to Sizzler, it's all you can eat Stake and shrimp day!

21 Nov 09

Playstation 3 SLIM - opinions

czerpaolo @czerpaolo (7) • Philippines 2 Sep 09

Playstation 3 is priced at $299. They say that this console is lighter, more energy efficient, slimmer (of course), new buttons, and has 120GB HDD.. (New firmware also) Do you have any doubts about its cooling features? Was it...

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AlanKenzo OH! I brought this back to life... The Slim doesn't have backwards compatibility, but sony's been talking about bringing back PS2 emulation through software as opposed to hardware as the 60 did. I still have my 60 gig, it did over heat, and I did pay to get it...

20 Nov 09

will pop ups ever end?

thett3 @thett3 (19) • United States 15 Nov 09

why are there so many pop ups? They are so annoying!

popup pop up computer apple pc mac windows

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AlanKenzo Pure and simple... as long as there are businesses on the internet, there will always be pop-ups... they will never end, and even if you do have a pop-up blocker... it doesn't block all pop-ups, and sometimes some sites require you to have that turned off, or...

20 Nov 09

pc or mac

thett3 @thett3 (19) • United States 15 Nov 09

which would you say is better?

pc mac better computer apple windows

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AlanKenzo You know what, neither is better then the other, it's all about personal preferences. I for one own both, I use my MAC for video editing, music, and art, and OS is a lot more stable then Windows. BUT PC is a better platform for everything else, namely...

19 Nov 09

Do You Still Play Playstation 2 After You Have a Job?

lordcaocao2025 @lordcaocao2025 (4098) • Indonesia 17 Nov 09

Well i am a fan of video game. Usually while i am in high school and college i play video game a lot. Playstation 2 is my favorite console. At College, i could play the console every day, usually playing RPG Game, from morning...

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AlanKenzo I'm a heavy gamer so yeah, I see myself playing video games till I die. I was in the US Army, and I went to Iraq for a year. You have no idea how may people in the military still play video games. I'm 30 and have been out for almost 2 years but one of my...

19 Nov 09

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How big is your Hard Drive? What's in it?

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 17 Nov 09

I have a 240 gb hard drive that is partitioned. C:/ has all my programs and applications while D:/ has all my music and videos. I think I have 80 gb of videos and music. I know some people who buy extra hard drives for these...

computer

hard drive

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AlanKenzo c: 200 gb Main Apps d: 300 gb Music and misc Files h: 500 gb Movies and back up softwear I have an extra External 500... so that's a total of 1.5 TB I think I might just buy another TB of space for all the stuff I do.

19 Nov 09