CarmelLove

@CarmelLove (145)

United States • Age 41

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Choose: Career first or have a child first. Why?

happymom1 @happymom1 (1179) • United States 25 May 07

Life has lots of choices to choose. Sometimes we are confuse of what choice we want to made. I ask this question because there are lots of people or woman that make a choice to have a career first before having a baby. They want...

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CarmelLove i choose to have my kids before my career. You can never stoplearnong, but being able to enjoy your kids growing up and be able to play with them more seem to be more motivation for me.

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wat is important 4 u love or money ?????????

nitindx @nitindx (283) • India 25 May 07

if u give a choise to chose any one of them than wat did u do after& wat 's ur choise

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CarmelLove Love is my choice over money. Haven't you heard of better to have loved than to never have loved at all. Love seems to do some amazing things if you ask me.

25 May 07

How can I help my far away friend?

sreevasu @sreevasu (2717) • India 25 May 07

My friend, who is in the other side of the globe is going through really hard times which is really a turning point in life. I want to help my friend. From this far away what can I do? I have a helping hand but I am really...

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CarmelLove The best thing that you can do for your friend is to be there for him/her. Just give them suport, listen to them and talk them. i know it may not sound like much, but in the end it is more than words can say. I hope that all is well, and that your friend get...

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Friendships changing after having kids

cynddvs @cynddvs (2948) • United States 24 May 07

Every since I've had my daughter I've noticed a lot of my friendships have either ended or become very distant. And I'm not putting the blame on my friends since I'm just as bad about not calling them. But here lately I've been...

families

friendships

kids

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CarmelLove The same thing seem to happen to me. I think that we just grew apart and grew in our own direction. I say keeping living your life, and your bound to meet new people who have the same interest as you. Don't fall back into a life style that isn't you for an...

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Does a lover or close friend criticize your body?

desertdarlene @desertdarlene (8910) • United States 24 May 07

Are you in a relationship where someone belittles parts of your body or tells you that you need to artificially change a part of your body that you don't have a problem with? Why can't people accept each other the way they are?

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CarmelLove No, my lover loves me for who I am and tells me I beautiful all the time. For me, it is my family that has the problem with me. I use to be a little s,maller before I had kids. So they tell me all the time what they don't like about my body. Ohh ur face is...

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Do you believe that you can move energy in any direction you want?

polachicago @polachicago (18716) • United States 24 May 07

“We now experience that we live not in a material universe, but in a universe of dynamic energy. Everything extant is a field of sacred energy that we can sense and intuit.” “We humans can project our energy by focusing our...

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CarmelLove I've always felt the energy that is around us, but I didn't hear more about it until I wen to school for massage therapy. It opened my eyes to all kinds of things in this world. Especially the energy that surrounds us. I was once told that if you place a...

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How many days you and your GF or BF keep the relationship???

felixwang76 @felixwang76 (85) • China 24 May 07

I have spent with my girlfriend 1207 DAYS,more than THREE YEARS,just from my freshman year to today.SO what about you??my friend,pls tell me ~~~

three years with my girl

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CarmelLove I have been with my bf for 7 years and 2 months that's 2581 days.... WOW

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love just ain't enough?!

gsgonzalez2007 @gsgonzalez2007 (1004) • Philippines 24 May 07

A friedn of mine visited me last week with a sad on her face and sez: "I broke up with my ex even though I loved him so much and still love him until now. I realized I can still love him, and not be with him, because he's not the...

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CarmelLove Love is a powerful thing, but I do believe that it takes more than just love to have a relationship. She did the right thing, because she's right she can still love him and not be with him. Why should she settle for less?? The answer is that she shouldn't if...

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Why does a person cheat in their relationship?

gsgonzalez2007 @gsgonzalez2007 (1004) • Philippines 24 May 07

a person actually cheat, either girl or a boy, married or not in a relationship, probably because of the thrill that comes with it. Some says probably they do this because there are expectations that are not met. They usually find...

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CarmelLove In my opinion, I think that person cheats for their own reasons. Some cheat for revenge because they have been hurt, some cheat because of their needs and as you said some just get a thrill out of doing it. Whatever the reasons may be, I don't think that it's...

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Who likes the movie FACEOFF?

andak2007 @andak2007 (3229) • Philippines 24 May 07

Hello guyz care to answer this question? I like this movie very much infact this is one of my favorite movie of all time, don't you think John Travolta and Nicholas Cage were great in this movie?whats your favorite scene of the...

faceoff

john travolta

nicholas cage

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CarmelLove I just loved this movie. It happens to be one of those movies that I can watch over and over again. Both John Travolta and Nicholas Cage did a great job acting out ther parts in this film. I was so into the movie, I don't think I had one favorite part of it.

24 May 07

multiple births

nicolecab @nicolecab (923) • United States 24 May 07

Do you know of any one or do you your self have multiple birth babies. Do you have or someone you know has twins, triplets, or quads or more... If so how many and what ages? My mom has a set of twins and no I am not one of them to...

mulitipal births

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CarmelLove yes, I know a few people that has had twins. Lets see my mom had 6 kids. Out of the six she only had one set of twin girls. Both my brothers have a set of twins, one of my sister has twin boys and the rest of us didn't have twins. Thos e who do have multiple...

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describe yourself in one word

Donsky @donsky14 (5990) • Philippines 23 May 07

describe yourself in just one word. me..I would say that I'm "unpredictable"

describe yourself

one word description of yourself

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CarmelLove the one word I would describe myself as is LOVE. I choose love because it is more than that one word to me. It is the word that we use when we feel things, basically it represents so much more and that is why I choose it.

23 May 07

What do you love most about kids?

go4amitshah @go4amitshah (1005) • India 23 May 07

What do you love most about kids? There innocence, smile or something else?Share your views.

love

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CarmelLove I love when my kids laugh. It shows their pure innocense of how they can just laugh at anything and be a kid. I find that I don't do it as often as I use to. So I love it when they do laugh. Just being a kid, no worries and care free. i miss that feeling...

23 May 07

age difference

sands01 @sands01 (16) • United States 21 May 07

I was wondering what kind of age difference you had between you and your brothers/sisters? I am the oldest. My brother is 7 years younger, my sister is 10 years younger and my younger brother is 12 years younger. Does anyone...

age difference

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CarmelLove My mom has 6 kids and I am the youngest. My older sister is 7 years older than me, but after that the oldest child is like 17 years older than me. Sometimes yes I do find it difficult, but it depends on the situation or conversation that we are having.

23 May 07

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Would you stay in an abusive relationship?

disvachic @disvachic (10117) • United States 23 May 07

A friend of mine has a friend who is an abusive relationship.She take the physical,verbal and emotional abuse.My friend is trying to get her to go to HERS its a battered women shelter but she wont go.My friend even told her to...

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CarmelLove I think with this situation it is easier to say than to do. It's not that they don't want to leave. But If they have been in this relationship for a while, majority of the time it is a mind game. Therefore mentally she is afraid of what he can do, especially...

23 May 07

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Your Girlfriends

rebornangel05 @rebornangel05 (42) • United States 22 May 07

Do you have any friends that remind you of the friends on Girlfriends? Details details! I have a friend that reminds me of Toni. LOL. Her husband is still with her! What are your girlfriend stories???!!!

yourgirlfriends

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CarmelLove In some ways yes and some ways no. I have a friend that is like Mya, only right now she's not with her man. Sometimes it reminds me of when they were going through a divorce. Sometimes I just sit back and watch it like I got all new episodes to watch. LOL

23 May 07

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Shakira these days...

rebornangel05 @rebornangel05 (42) • United States 22 May 07

Can anyone update me on what Shakira's up to lately? Does she have a new song coming out? Is she working on a clothing line? What's up with Shakira?

shakirathesedays

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CarmelLove Sorry I have no news about her, but I can't wait to find out. She's very beautiful and talented.

23 May 07

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Do you know what you want to do?

rebornangel05 @rebornangel05 (42) • United States 22 May 07

I was just wondering if you knew what you wanted to do in life? Do you have a career in mind? Let me know.

career

life

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CarmelLove Right now in life, I seem to be alittle confuse, but I hope to have my own business one day.

23 May 07

Lisa Left Eye Lopes.

Lifez2short @Lifez2short (4962) • United States 20 May 07

I was watching the documentry yesterday of the last few days before she died in the car accident. And did anyone know that a few days before she died she was riding in a car that struck a child and killed him? I had no idea this...

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CarmelLove I also got ot watch the documentary. It was like my eyes were glued to the T.V. I couldn't stop watching it. I think that it was so sad. Seeing her life in the Honduras was really something. I guess it was a life journey quest. She was really trying to find...

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