Esbatty

@Esbatty (58)

United States • Age 43

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Help about a... poem or song?

timmeh0910 @timmeh0910 (1168) • United States 17 Feb 09

Hello! I've recently decided I wanted to start writing poetry, but when I think of it I think of it as if it were to be in a song. So either way could be taken and know that it is just beginners work, but if your smart in the...

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Esbatty Poems are also meant to be read aloud but you're trying to express an idea or thought or an image, its it own music. Poems range from a couple lines to an epic story. you can have characters and moods and themes being explored where as for songs, they're...

17 Feb 09

what personal traits do you look for your son's or daugther's partner in life?

goldief06 @goldief06 (45) • United States 17 Feb 09

my son just read and discussed romeo and juliet in his english class and i was to help him with his homework. i was asked thesame question.. what personal traits do you look for your son's or daugther's partner in life? my...

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Esbatty Well thats not really up to you, its really up to your child to pick their partner. And honestly, you can only hope the values you instilled in them growing up along with the example you set for them will help guide their choices in life. Its all any parent...

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Co-Sleeping HELP!

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 2 Feb 09

I've been fed up for months now with my 6yo & 3yo co-sleeping. It's to the point now that I just sleep with them because otherwise one of us gets kicked out of our bed. And additionally my hubby needs his rest for work as he...

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Esbatty The best method is to create a good bedtime ritual of tucking the children in. Since the six year old is the most insistent of the two, and the three year old is at the cusp of the normal end of Seperation Anxiety, right now is the optimal time to get them...

3 Feb 09

president of united states of america

manishere @manishere (40) • India 3 Feb 09

well i have been thinking this for a long time that MR.BaRAK OBAMA was easily able to win the presidential elections but do u think that it had anything to do with him being a black i mean he is a great man and a hero America...

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Esbatty Barak Obama didn't win because he is a great man or hero, he's yet to prove either of those things yet. He won because of a combination of factors: 1) Change. He promised Americans a change from the "Good Ol' Boy" system Bush jr. and Cheney were milking...

3 Feb 09

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Can i lose Belly fat doing lots of crunches ?

nsujin @nsujin (91) • India 3 Feb 09

What is best abdominal exercise

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Esbatty You can't really target body fat, its just you have to burn more calories than you consume daily to remove excess body fat. And its best to lose weight slowly so that your skin doesn't remain stretched and loose where your fat deposit were situated. I...

3 Feb 09

What time do you start washing your clothes?

CRSunrise @CRSunrise (2981) • United States 2 Feb 09

Most of the time, I can start washing my clothes around mid-day, if it's just clothes. If it happens that I'm washing all of the sheets and comforters, I have to start doing the laundry a lot earlier in the day. When it takes five...

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Esbatty When my "clean" and "still good" piles are gone and the "dirty pile" are suddenly much much larger.

2 Feb 09

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CNN Catches UFO on Camera during BARACK OBAMA inauguration?

allright @allright (86) • India 2 Feb 09

CNN Catches UFO on Camera during inauguration?Jan21 2009 by Senior Editor| First of all, Congratulations to President Obama and the people of the United Stated of America. Change has happened. And, it seems possible that not...

ufo on camera barack obama inauguration

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Esbatty Has to be a UCAV

2 Feb 09

How selfish are you???

ketybhagat @ketybhagat (4123) • India 2 Feb 09

I have to still find one person who is totally unselfish in life. I too am selfish to some extent, but I also am kind hearted enough to think of others. When I have something a little extra, I tend to share it with the less...

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Esbatty I say take a few hours out of a long uneventful day and read "Atlas Shrugged" by Ayn Rand. She gives a wonderful argument, in fiction no less, about how everybody is selfish due to our inherent "survival of the fittest" instinctual programming. That...

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What's your favorite TV making company?

exodian1 @exodian1 (75) • United States 2 Feb 09

Whats your favorite TV making company? Mine is Sony because they make some really nice TV's. I've always bought TV's from Sony and they are extremely reliable. What are your favorite TV making companies?

television

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Esbatty I tend to be a more frugal shopper so I tend to really bide my time before making a television purchase. About 3 weeks before christmas I ordered a 32 inch Vizio HD plasma television from Walmart.com. I got it for a little under 350 after shipping, and so far...

2 Feb 09

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The Watchmen Motion Comic

cd_lear @cd_lear (74) 31 Jan 09

I've been watching The Watchmen Motion Comic on iTunes. I've really been enjoying it. I've never read any of the Watchmen stories, but I think that it is really well written. The motion comic works really well in my opinion. I...

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Esbatty So far I've seen the first 3 installments, and will eventually get around to watch the 4th. Its really well done but my only gripe is that they should have gone the extra mile to get a full cast instead of a single narrator performing the voices. To me it was...

2 Feb 09

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Do you the ending at the beginning

TLChimes @TLChimes (4822) • United States 1 Feb 09

When you are writing... a story, blog, paper, whatever... do you know more then just a general idea of where it's going, where it'll end? I tend to have a story idea but as I write it, the story tends to go where it wants. I...

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Esbatty Can't say its the norm but I can say you're not alone. My tendency towards writing by-the-seat-of-my-pants is renown in my writing circles. I tend to work in fantasy and science fiction genres and the characters really take on a life of their own after a...

2 Feb 09

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Solar and Wind Energy

kayla_7602 @kayla_7602 (704) • Canada 1 Feb 09

Hello So we recently bought our first house and have been looking into solar and wind energy for a couple of reasons. Firsty it would eliminate the monthly hyro bill which not having an extra bill each month can help...

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Esbatty Going "Green" as they say, is a great idea. But one thing you should think about, if you live in the United States and in a residential zone of a city or town, is to make sure that your solar panels and your wind generators meet specifics of the codes and...

2 Feb 09

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Superbowl Outcomes

loveyevi @loveyevi (513) • United States 1 Feb 09

So who is really mad about the outcome of the game, who is happy? Personally Im pissed off, but they did put on a good game.

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Esbatty I'm a Cowboys fan so I didn't really feel disappointed with the outcome or which team won. All I know is I saw a helluva football game. I wish EVERY game was that exciting. The Steelers and the Cardinals gave me an awesome Super Bowl experience. Heck I even...

2 Feb 09

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Rude drivers

scarletwitch12 @scarletwitch12 (562) • Philippines 2 Feb 09

Name the place where you met the rudest driver you have encountered.

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Esbatty Laredo, Texas. Wow, this place is considered one of the "safest" place in the United States to drive due to how few accidents are recorded by Auto Insurance companies. BUT, and this is a big 'but', statistically half the drivers on the road are uninsured,...

2 Feb 09

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Would you restrict on your Girl Friend's dress code?

kguru1979 @kguru1979 (381) • India 2 Feb 09

Many of us are possessive on our girl friends .. Even me too. They have their own dressing sense. Sometimes we may feel it as good and some as bad. Is it their wish that they can wear anything and roam around? Or do boys restrict...

girl dress code

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Esbatty I'm not one to seriously object to what my girlfriends wear, sometimes if its too "sexy" for certain places we're going together or where she's going I make alternate suggestions of my own. But ultimately I don't own her. She's not my possession, I tend to...

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cheating in marriage

okoyskabo @okoyskabo (186) • Philippines 2 Feb 09

i am often told by older married women that cheating on the hubby's part is inevitable in marriage. i hope this is not true to all marriages. :-(

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Esbatty If you want the truth, men in relationships do have fantasies of being with other women. These are simply fantasies but they do go on in men's heads. But as for actually cheating, that's another matter. It does happen, but its not "inevitable"; not every...

2 Feb 09

would you go for non commitment relationship before asking for a commitment?

lolipopicecream @lolipopicecream (170) • Philippines 1 Feb 09

I know alot of people this days being a girl i know i deserved to be woed and courted i believe in courtship cause i don't wanna be the easy chick, i believe in exclusive dating but being on the dating scenarios this days most...

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Esbatty Good old fashioned courtship is really missing in this day and age. I'm a big believer in it myself, but from what I gather from your statement the guy who's interested in you is being honest and upfront with you about what he's expecting: His first step...

2 Feb 09