FayeSLongo

@FayeSLongo (306)

United States • Age 42

Joined myLot 18 years ago

Always be willing to share your smile; you never know who may need it.

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FayeSLongo's Responses

what makes people fall out of love? is this really possible?

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 12 Oct 09

A couple close to me is going through a crisis right now. For the past 6 years the relationship was just perfect and sweet. One day the husband came

falling out of love

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FayeSLongo I'm currently kind of going through a similar situation to the one described. I want a divorce from my husband but he wants to work things out. Things weren't all rosy but they weren't bad either. I'm not sure how it happened but I just don't love him anymore....

13 Oct 09

Which is more important to you?

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15394) • United States 24 Feb 09

Is your children more important to you or your husband/wife? I am sure they are both important but if you needed to pick one, which one? It is very tough, isn't it? I'm asking myself too...

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FayeSLongo My son, without a doubt, or a moments hesitation. He didn't ask to be born and he had no choice but to end up with me. I'm with him first, last and always!

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I feel for this poor lady.. hubby sure is stubborn

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12587) • United States 24 Feb 09

I was reading this wondering if the guy is just trying to slowly kill himself. Does he know what he is putting his wife through? Does he really care? Seems selfish to me! I would be changing my habits to stick around, what about...

heart health

hubby

stubborn

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FayeSLongo I have only three words for his wife "LEAVE HIS A$$". I would put up with that for all of five seconds!

24 Feb 09

Do they use this sort of incentive program at

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12587) • United States 24 Feb 09

schools in your area? My daughters school uses going to a theme park in our area as incentive to read. They give you a free ticket to the park. It's Six Flags. We only just found out about it. And the forms are due tomorrow. She...

reward for reading

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FayeSLongo My son's school does this Reading Bug thing. They have to read so many books a year (and this too can be assisted) at the end of the year they win a prize and it's different for each age group. We also have the Pizza Hut thing. I think that it can be a good...

24 Feb 09

What do you think about Indian music after Slumdog Millioniare?

rakesh284 @rakesh284 (1472) • India 24 Feb 09

Well I am always listening Indian music. It is great pleasure listening some of the songs. But it was never internationally acclaimed but after Slumdog Millionaire it has reached all over the world. A R Rehman has did a...

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FayeSLongo I shouldn't even be answering this but I just wanted to poke my nose in and say that I haven't even gotten to see that movie yet and I'm dieing to see it. I've heard GREAT things about it. But anyway, even though I haven't seen that movie I've always enjoyed...

24 Feb 09

My middle child is rebelling! PLEASE HELP ME!

jashley1 @jashley1 (746) • United States 24 Feb 09

Ok - so when I had my third child who is now 15 months old, my two daughters were fine with it. However, I am finding that my daughter who is my middle child and age 4 is now really yearning for attention and doing a lot of...

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FayeSLongo First I would like to say that I only have one child but my bestfriend has four and she and I are very close. She is going through something very similar right now but she is a single parent. What she decided to do is to have me take the baby once a week so...

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when is the right time to take ur child to school?

unchie @unchie (122) • Philippines 24 Feb 09

I wonder if i can already enroll my son to school this year.. I feel like he already want to go to school. he loves to draw and color. He can draw line,circles and other shapes. He can count one to ten. He's only 2 and a half year...

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FayeSLongo I'm not sure where you are located but here in the U.S. kids start school ate around five but parents can choose to put their kids in daycare/preschool whenever. My son started going to daycare part time (two days a week) when he was almost two but that was...

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how often do you have guests

rubypatson @rubypatson (1840) • India 7 Feb 09

Do you get visitors often to your house, or rarely, when my father was alive we got very often nowadays, its not the same we get the occasional guests sometimes my cousins come to stay with us, but otherwise some visitors in the...

guests

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FayeSLongo I rarely have people over to my home. I deal with people all day so my home is like my sanctuary, the place I escape to to be rid of all that. I do have visitors occasionally but I notice that I am much more anxious and jumpy when they come to my house; if I...

7 Feb 09

your plans for valentines day

rubypatson @rubypatson (1840) • India 7 Feb 09

hey whats your plans for valentines day, nothing special for me as my valentine is working abroad, what about you guys anything special or its just another day

valentine

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FayeSLongo I plan on spending this valentine's day snuggling with my son, eating candy and watching cartoons. Ahhhhhhhh romance =) Honestly there is no other man in the world I'd rather spend my v-day with than my cute little man.

7 Feb 09

Quotes for a Broken Hearted Me....

cristina_2008 @cristina_2008 (69) • Philippines 6 Feb 09

"Giving someone all your love is not an assurance that they will love you back." - Ritianne Muscat "Even has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation." - Kahlil Gibran "I just hopes to sleep and...

broken hearted

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FayeSLongo "The only thing that hurts more than falling in love - falling out of love" written by 15 year old me. I am so sorry that you've been hurt but try to look at all you can take away from this; all the experiences, knowledge, all the lessons learned - keep...

6 Feb 09

Which would you rather have?

Corimore @Corimore (249) • United States 29 Jan 09

Would you rather have lots more money or lots more true friends? Me I've never really had a lot of money so I wouldn't know what to do with it. And when I really needed help with anything my friends were there supporting me so I...

friends

money or friends

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FayeSLongo I would TOTALLY rather have more true friends. Nothing out-weighs a real friendship and now-a-days they are few and far between. I would give anything to have a real, caring, and trustworthy friend.

30 Jan 09

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Do you take your spouse surname?

headhunter525 @headhunter525 (3548) • India 24 Jan 09

There is a controversy here in India when one celebrity says that wife should take her husband's surname. Feminists are angry with the comment. One female writes that in Austria even man takes wife's surname. Do you take your...

celebrity

surname

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FayeSLongo When I got married my husband actually took my last name. I was open to doing a hyphen but I wasn't about to give up my last name. I think that this is a very personal and individualized choice. Obviously it is something that the couple needs to figure out...

24 Jan 09

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MySpace or Facebook?

bubblyapple @bubblyapple (2653) • Philippines 24 Jan 09

So which one do you prefer?

blog wars

personal profile

social networks

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FayeSLongo I too am a devoted myspacer. I tried Facebook but I really didn't like it. The whole process of setting up a profile is different, it's not as personal, and I noticed that facebook has a different audience than myspace. Myspace is definitely more for me.

24 Jan 09

BIGGEST DIARY that can communicate...

mMakingMoney @mMakingMoney (403) • Indonesia 16 Jan 09

Many events in daily life, a fun and sad, that even make us angry. In general, these events will be written in diary. Any time we can get to the open-diary, and reading back events that have occurred. What happens when the...

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FayeSLongo I don't know if I would use mylot as a diary. Those are usually very personal but I guess if you wrote here like you would a diary you might get a lot of responses and you might not. I come here to vent sometimes like I would in my diary but it is always...

16 Jan 09

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The star feature - What is it

techguru @techguru (30) • India 11 Jan 09

Some of the users on MyLot have a star with a number in it. What is the significance of this?

star in mylot

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FayeSLongo After you reach one hundred responses/discussions the star will appear and the number/color is based on how other users have rated your responses/discussions. Hope that helps.

11 Jan 09

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Will you try to understand and respond the discussions?

mMakingMoney @mMakingMoney (403) • Indonesia 11 Jan 09

Mylotters from all around the world, may be some of them not proficiency with the english language. Will you try to understand the discussions mean and respond as you can, or you left the discussions and say "stupid question, what...

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FayeSLongo I'm aware that some of the users on mylot don't have the most experience with english so I always try to read a discussion carefully and IF I can gather what it's about I respond, even if it is difficult to decipher. Most of the time I can figure out what the...

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Do you eat Baby Carrots? Are you still going to.... after reading this?

aaamine @aaamine (134) • United States 9 Jan 09

How many of you eat baby carrots? Is it good. I read this somewhere and wanted to share with you guys. Many of you may already know that the small baby carrots you buy from supermarkets are made using the larger crooked or...

baby carrots and health

swimming

swimming pool

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FayeSLongo I do eat baby carrots on occasion but I usually only buy organic veges anyway. I never knew this but I've also never seen a white film on my carrots either; I wonder where it is exactly that this happens. Mostly my son and I like the big fresh carrots anyway,...

9 Jan 09

Crystalized Tree in the woods

webeishere @webeishere (36313) • United States 9 Jan 09

This shot I feel is one of the best ice crytals I captured this winter so far. A ice covered tree standing tall on the edge of the woods. I just love crystal photography as you never know what shows up on the glass as the...

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FayeSLongo That is really beautiful! I live in VT where there is a ton of snow like 7 or 8 months out of the year and my favorite thing to do during a storm is to go out with my son and a couple pieces of black construction paper so we can catch the snowflakes and see...

9 Jan 09

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