Iccara

@Iccara (131)

Australia • Age 42

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anyone read any v.c. andrews novels?

firefury @firefury (55) • Philippines 3 Apr 07

i don't know how known v.c. andrews is, but i assume her books have also been widely read. almost all her novels come in a series. i love the dollangganger family series. it's made up of five books and i've read all five a number...

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Iccara I havent read any of her books, but I have been looking for newe books to read. Thanks for the tip. I have read alot of Dean Koontz books. He writes mysteries. "Odd Thomas" is about a 20 yr old man who can see ghosts and is helping to solve murders etc. I...

3 Apr 07

your x boyfriend ,new husband and a toddler

onlyourbunny @onlyourbunny (94) • United States 27 Mar 07

When i was 18 i had my first child with a guy i had been with for 3 years. To make a long story sort things were not so good with us and kick him out of my home and end up with his best friend whom am happly married to .my...

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Iccara thats a very hard situation. the only thing you can do is try to get custody and contact rights for your daughter. that way if he does try to take her the court has a ruling in place to keep both parents happy. You could try and get the court to start with...

3 Apr 07

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Okay, here is my situation...

Jennifer21 @Jennifer21 (2476) • United States 3 Apr 07

Me and my husband have been married for 2 years, but I can't lie. I have been with other men before him. Well, my hubby decided he wanted to start hanging out with his buddy from work that I had never met. He brought him home one...

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Iccara THats a tough situation. Does your hubby know you have been with other men before you got married? If so it will be easier to tell him as that way he wont find out from his new friend. IF he doesnt know then that could be more of an issue. 1. tell him and be...

3 Apr 07

Tell me { HaPpY BiRthDaY }

lol_w0w @lol_w0w (86) • Israel 1 Apr 07

my birthday is on the 5th of april , next thursday yaay thats cool, i will be 16 years old :D

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Iccara Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birhtdya dear...(insert name here).......HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!! (Sorry about my horribke singing.. hehehe) I hope you have a fantastic birthday. Live life and enjoy being young. I met my husband when I...

3 Apr 07

Do you pay for the BIRTHDAY BOY?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 3 Apr 07

Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday to y----o----u. Happy birthday to YOU! And so the birthday song that was composed centuries back is still being sung today. How do you normally spend your birthday?...

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Iccara My birthdays havent really been a huge thing. For my 18th I hired a bouncy castle and invited about 8 friends (fmaily were invited and came so there was about 20 ppl there) and we had a ball. FOr my 21st I had given birth 8 weeks earlier so we had a small bbq...

3 Apr 07

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Interview with a potential serial killer

rebelangelseven @rebelangelseven (315) • United States 3 Apr 07

recently i did an interview with a serial killers son, and it went well. now i have the availability to do an interview with a person that has serial killer tendencys and may or may not have commited any murders. If you were able...

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Iccara That would be really interested to do something like that (interview that is). I would ask about the history of him growing up. WHat were his family like? Was he bullied at school? DId he wag, take drugs, steal etc? I guess I would try to see what his past...

3 Apr 07

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Free Dog Food Recipes

speakeasy @speakeasy (4171) • United States 3 Apr 07

With more and more companies having to recall first canned/pouched pet foods and now dry pet foods; it is clear that commercial dog food is no longer safe for our beloved canine companions. Human food and table scraps can also...

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Iccara Thats a great idea. Thanks for that website. I moved recently and left my 2 dogs and 2 cats with my parents. They love them to bits and as much as I miss them it would of been heartbreaking for my parents to have me my son and all my pets move. SO they...

3 Apr 07

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Do you think finances in a marriage are important to the relationship?

dtaggett75 @dtaggett75 (39) • United States 2 Apr 07

I was having a discussion with my husband regarding one of my coworker's financial situation at home. The wife makes the money in the household while he stays at home and does none of the maintaining of the household or cooking....

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Iccara I think that money can be one of the biggest issues in a relationship. At the moment, i stay at home while my husband works. We have a 3 yr old son, but he is NOT is day care. I care for him. We go to playgroup and to the library, have picnics at the park etc....

3 Apr 07

How do you start competing in the showring?

elhogan @elhogan (10) • Canada 14 Mar 07

Does anybody here ride to compete? I want to purchase a horse, but I also want to compete, to "show jump" (can't quite remember the term). Did you start small and work your way up to the professional level? How did you find your...

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Iccara If you are under 25 then Pony Club is a good way to start. Pony Club is not just for the younger ones as if u are over 17 you can become an associate. That way you get to improve your riding ability and they tell you about up coming events. I am 23 and...

14 Mar 07

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people

tiffany23 @tiffany23 (14) • United States 26 Feb 07

are you a people person? would you help someone that is in need? would you shar your last meal with a stranger?

people

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Iccara Yes yes and maybe. i think i am a people person. I always help people in need and i might share my last meal with a stranger. I find it hard to be alone. i like peoples company. I love animals as well and love being in the presence of a horse. They are so...

27 Feb 07

after the wedding....

kleinchik0104 @kleinchik0104 (57) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

we were able to have a solemn wedding last sat. the food was great and was enough for everyone. the day before was really tiring even the day itself because it was me who did the flower arrangement for the church isle to cut...

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Iccara When I got married i was working full time but being paid as a casual staff member.My hubby had just finished uni and had finished working part time to start work in his new career. My wedding would of cost $5000 maximum and I had a fabulous day. Weddings dont...

26 Feb 07

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I feel so DEPRESSED!!!

shay3434 @shay3434 (881) • Israel 25 Feb 07

I feel really bad. I'm upset and depressed. what can I do for making feel better??? What do you do when you feel down? any advice please?

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Iccara first of all seek medical help. Go to your dsoctor and tell them how you are feeling. They may refer you to a councillor but just talking to the doctor might help. Find something that you enjoy doing and do it. Take up a new sport or activity. Meet up with...

26 Feb 07

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im so depressed pls help me...

sugarlen @sugarlen (138) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

lately im just so deprsses of the past that haunts me. it involves my husband, my son and my daughter. all in one company destroyed abandoned. i dont know what to do. i always want to give up everyday even when i pray.

depression

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Iccara its great that you admit you are depressed.. thats a good sign as most people dont like to admit it. Its good that you are praying and prayers do help. I do suggest getting medical help. go to your doctor and get a referal to a councillor. Become a member...

26 Feb 07

Which do you prefer to buy the book you like or borrow it from a friend?

ajinomoto23 @ajinomoto23 (1057) • Philippines 24 Feb 07

Not many people go to the Library today. I prefer to buy a book and read it. My sister always share her books to me. We both have the same interest.

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Iccara I take my toddler to story time once or twice a week. Its great because they sing nursery ryhmes then read some stories and do a craft at the end. My son loves it and we get soem books to read at bed time and i get a few for myself. I do like buying my own...

26 Feb 07

I want to break the record of Responses or I'll Cry outloud!!!!!!!

clarkanthony @clarkanthony (45) • United States 25 Feb 07

I sometimes am so greedy. do you get like that? I wish I were'nt but as I have gotten older and examined my life I realized I am one greedy dude! I worry about myself and how I got so selfish. All I care about is me, with the...

life

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Iccara ill help you on your way to breaking the response record... As for bring greedy cant do that when your mum to a 2 and a half yr old son. :( Sometime i just want to go to the toilet alone!!!!! Can i eat my icecream without a finger in it???...

26 Feb 07

if a gurl say kiss me.

haloamar @haloamar (157) • India 25 Feb 07

wat 'll b ur response ?

friend

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Iccara i would kiss her

25 Feb 07

what is your opinion on giving money as gifts?

Sasselle @Sasselle (698) • Australia 25 Feb 07

I went to a lovely wedding yesterday and I guess it made me think about this. So I have two questions ... Do you find it rude if you are asked to give money as a gift? and Have you ever felt ripped off if you have given money...

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Iccara For my sisters wedding she had a wishing well. As you walked into the garden there was a small wishing well and you could just put the money it. It was good becuase those couldnt afford much didnt get noticed because they just put it straight in or in an...

25 Feb 07

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