@Kikotay on myLot

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 22 Jan 11

when i am broken hearted,of course it will reflect to me,the way i think, to move, to talk and even in my face. so when someone ask me for giving an advice about their problem especially in love problems,i couldn't give any...

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Kikotay I think that really depends on the individual. If you're a person who can put your own emotional matters aside and help other people, then that's good. If not, then it's better not to give advices. There are people who make profession out of this....

26 Jan 11

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 22 Jan 11

when i am broken hearted,of course it will reflect to me,the way i think, to move, to talk and even in my face. so when someone ask me for giving an advice about their problem especially in love problems,i couldn't give any...

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Kikotay Consequences of me being broken hearted can go two ways. I could either be demotivated to do anything else but sit in a corner, feeling sorry for myself, or I can be extra motivated to do something, anything. I find that helping other people takes my mind...

22 Jan 11

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gantwick @gantwick (849) • United States 4 Oct 10

I heard an interesting story on the radio about reality TV and the most common phrase heard on these show, "I'm not here to make friends." The reporter noted that the person who gets a lot of camera time by taking the...

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Kikotay Well probably cause no one likes an unfriendly whomever (colleague, employer, employee, contestant). Being soft-hearted is good but too much of it could result in people taking advantage of it. I know friend whom are really nice, but the people closest would...

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hippiemomdiaries @hippiemomdiaries (815) • Philippines 4 Oct 10

Once we open the internet, I think we have varied habits on what site we open first. Do you check your email first or do you open your social network sites (like facebook, twitter, etc) first? Or do you immediately proceed to...

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Kikotay Facebook's a virus :)

6 Oct 10

hippiemomdiaries @hippiemomdiaries (815) • Philippines 4 Oct 10

Once we open the internet, I think we have varied habits on what site we open first. Do you check your email first or do you open your social network sites (like facebook, twitter, etc) first? Or do you immediately proceed to...

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Kikotay Hmm.. this is a little difficult to answer. I have never really take notice of my habits when I first come online. But I think it's safe to say I would open either Facebook or my blog first before going to do anything else.

5 Oct 10

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rifnee @rifnee (1713) • Indonesia 4 Oct 10

Hallo .. I have a little problem with my sister, she was 16 years old, but he has not experienced first menstruation, is this not normal? In fact I used the first menstrual period is 10 years old. I am very anxious lest my...

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Kikotay It could probably be that she's a late bloomer (getting menstruation at a late age) and this may be normal for her body. However, if you still have doubts, you can seek professional help on this. Try Googling a health website or a teen health website and...

5 Oct 10

bev_arch_20 @bev_arch_20 (842) • Philippines 5 Oct 10

Whenever I’m in an argument with my husband, I have a hard time admitting some of my mistakes. I would always come up with reasons which I think is reasonable. How about you do you have the guts to accept your mistake?

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Kikotay I think that humans in general find it hard, when in the heat of the moment, to admit that they are really wrong and back down from defending themselves. It is afterall, humans' instinct to defend and survive. I also think that it is worse for those people...

5 Oct 10

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insulin @insulin (2479) • Philippines 4 Oct 10

My fiancee act angry like you can't talk to him but he explains that he can't think well.I also can't think well when I'm hungry and especially when I am working with something and still no chance to eat then I feel terrible.How...

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Kikotay I used to think it was more of a men thing that when he's hungry, he gets really crappy. But to my own experience, I found out it happens to women as well. I am usually quite patient on the good days, but when it comes to a time my dinner is really late, or I...

5 Oct 10

for1ever1 @for1ever1 (18) • China 4 Oct 10

Long time no login MYLOT! ^^ I'm working as busy as a bee recently. And I just have a very short holiday: one day per week. Usually holiday is over while I haven't found the sense of holiday which belongs to myself. How about...

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Kikotay I am now currently on mid sem break from my course. It lasts for one week but it doesn't feel much like a break. My weekends are filled with my part time work and church, weekdays are for my assignment which is due the week after the break. Phew! I feel like...

4 Oct 10

gantwick @gantwick (849) • United States 4 Oct 10

I heard an interesting story on the radio about reality TV and the most common phrase heard on these show, "I'm not here to make friends." The reporter noted that the person who gets a lot of camera time by taking the...

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Kikotay Does this imply that the good ones do not make it through or the bad ones eventually be kicked out? As for whether I kick a person when they're down or offer a hand to help them, being soft hearted, I would always choose the second option. But then, some...

4 Oct 10

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Jessica37 @Jessica37 (63) 23 Jun 10

yes ,I am 24,female, I am 168cm 46kg ,I just want to gain some weight,50kg mabye better for me! I do not have a good degestive system .I eat much but never put on weight .i was really confused why more and more girls lose weight...

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Kikotay BEANS make you gain weight? Geez. If I known that earlier, I'd ask for more beans in my diet. On another note, how come they make you gain weight?

23 Jun 10

snowhybiscuis @snowhybiscuis (1882) • Philippines 21 Jun 10

I am very specific and detailed oriented. Also, I get frustrated when my plans go havoc or did not materialize. I need to ease off so as to remain cool. You see I am an obsessive compulsive. This OCness though helped me get to...

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Kikotay There will certainly be some clashing with people whom are not so specific and detailed. Like me, I am a total slacker. I'm so laid back. My friend and assignment partner looks like she would tear her hair out in a second while working with me because she's...

21 Jun 10

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clang3104 @clang3104 (86) • Philippines 31 May 10

good day mylotters! how do you really manage to survive a break-up? this happened to me a couple of weeks ago. i've gotten an advice that i should give myself a week to move on. i should feel the pain, cry my heart out, listen to...

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Kikotay Thank you. 4 years of relationship is quite long. I understand how it feels like. I'm glad you have no regrets and I hope all the best for you and him =).

31 May 10

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