Lemongrass18

@Lemongrass18 (313)

Singapore • Age 61

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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If you found out that you have AIDS will you tell it?

maribel1218 @maribel1218 (3085) • Philippines 30 Jan 07

This sounds so personal, but I want to hear some intelligent opinion on how you deal with AIDS when you become a victim of it. Will you keep it or tell it? Would you rather die alone or spend the remaining days with your family...

aids victim

to tell or not to tell

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Lemongrass18 Family members are often the souce of strength for all who suffer from terminal illnesses. One should share the pain with one's loved ones to gardner their support. Do not suffer alone least the journal would be more painful.

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dying young

nafisah @nafisah (33) • United States 5 Feb 07

Hi everyone, I would just like to say this world is getting worse everyday. I just had a friend die from aids and she was only 25. Who would think one night of fun could bring you so much pain. How do you cope?

aids

dying young

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Lemongrass18 Think positive. Now that she's gone; relieved from pain and sufferings. I know dying at age 25 is too young but let this be a lesson that one should take one's actions seriously.

6 Feb 07

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Do you believe in superstitions?

smilingurvashi @smilingurvashi (1151) • India 5 Feb 07

I have grown up in a society where everybody believes in some superstitions or the other. i'm no exception to them. infact, superstitions are a part of my daily life. if a black cat crosses the street that i'm walking in, i'll not...

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Lemongrass18 Supersitions are nothing more that old folks tales. Life is what you make it out to be. Try to stay aware from supersitions and you should be alright.

6 Feb 07

I'm tired of reporting abuse. Does it really change anything?

unusualsuspect @unusualsuspect (2602) • United States 5 Feb 07

When I'm on any site I take the rules seriously, mostly because I've seen what can happen when too many people break the rules. It can eventually destroy a site. So I've reported a lot of abuse since I've been here, mostly...

abuse

reporting

rules

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Lemongrass18 MyLot keeps it very confidential on abuse reports and its rating. One man's meat is another man's poison, you may be right to report abuse but to others it may not be seen as abuse thus it is good to be subjective. Do remember that MyLot is for fun and...

6 Feb 07

why is it that we find people not interested in online business opportunities

sexcshruti @sexcshruti (3) • India 3 Feb 07

its always been found that people, more often than not refuse to believe in the potential profit making opportunities that are available online,despite the fact that such opportunities have the capability to turn ones fortunes.for...

lucrative online business opportunity with paypal

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Lemongrass18 Personally I don't believe in on-line business. Nothing beats person-to-person sales/talk. Often these on-line business opportunities are nothing more than Multi-tier/multi-level marketing (MLM) which is an offence for some countries. Guess its always best...

3 Feb 07

A very bad scam... Be careful!

tictac714 @tictac714 (975) • United States 20 Jan 07

Guys, this one is so bad I am embarassed to say I almost fell for it. The only reason I am even admitting to it is in hopes I will help someone else. I responded to an ad on craiglist for a "bookkeeping position". The next...

fraud

internet

scams

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Lemongrass18 Always do remember that money doesn't come easy unless some you know willed it to you upon death otherwise, hard work is the key to making monies!

3 Feb 07

strange email in my inbox today!?

xXmeganxX @xXmeganxX (4421) 3 Feb 07

TOP SECRET RE-REMITTANCE OF $15.2 MILLION USD ATTN.PLEASE I am Dr ibrahim zongo. i work with the African development bank (ADB) in Burkina Faso republic. it is my wish to solicit your...

make extra money

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Lemongrass18 This is a scam! The email is likely from Africa. The scam has been going on for some time now. What happened is once you responsed that you'll like to help or is interested, the next email you'll receive is to complete a form with your banking details and...

3 Feb 07

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What is considerd work...having a paying job or taking care of the house?

winky73 @winky73 (1404) • United States 29 Jan 07

I've had this discussion just this morning.I was told that he works seven days a week after I told him he just wants to be waited on hand and foot. Well I work seven days a week as well....doing laundry,paying bills,buying...

fair

paycheck

work

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Lemongrass18 Definitely not. The man may provide for the family financially but that does not mean household chores are out of bound for him. Have a one-on-one chat with him. Advise him that household chores are 24/7 work thus you will need his help with some of the...

30 Jan 07

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What if your husband died in another woman's arms?

angelmae @angelmae (351) • Philippines 21 Jan 07

I saw this woman on TV. And I can still see the pain in her eyes as she told how his husband died naked with another woman. After 1 week of looking for him, he found him and the woman both shot dead. She said that he was the...

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Lemongrass18 The man must have provided well for the woman to love him that much even to the extend when he died in anoher woman's arm. Let's look at it positively. Now that he's dead what good would anger do? It would only hurt the woman who's alive more. Let bygones...

30 Jan 07

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Deception and Pretending...

ukchriss @ukchriss (2097) 29 Jan 07

one of the things which makes me sigh about people in general, is the way that many people will smile and be nice to your face and then say completely the opposite thing behind your back as soon as you walk away. Why do...

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Lemongrass18 Relax. This is but the real world. It takes all types of people and personalities to make the world. There isn't any need for you to get upset with least makes our lives miserable. Keep things positive and forget those negatives. You'll feel better and...

30 Jan 07

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Saying THANK YOU...how important?

hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 29 Jan 07

Sometimes in our busy lives, we often forget how to appreciate what we have. We often forget how to say thank you on receiving grace, service given by someone or any small favors. How important is saying Thank you? I know I...

appreciate

thank you

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Lemongrass18 It is always nice to give compliments even for small things done like picking up an item one has just dropped. I am one who never forget to thank people enough. Good gesture indeed breeds good people. Keep up the good work.

30 Jan 07

Please do not start religious discussions

tycoon_007 @tycoon_007 (302) • Sri Lanka 30 Jan 07

I notice that many people are doing this just because the number of responses seem to be high. But meanwhile they are also spreading hatred. People just start a topic, criticizing some religion or saying something that would...

people

religion

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Lemongrass18 I agree that religious is something very personal thus its best kept to oneself.

30 Jan 07

new year's resolution

hellboi @hellboi (661) • Philippines 3 Jan 07

What do you vow to change this new year? May it be breaking an old habit or moving on to something better, let's hear them!

holidays

new year

resolution

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Lemongrass18 To uproot to the U.S.

30 Jan 07

New Year’s Resolution Or Not?

villageanne @villageanne (8553) • United States 29 Jan 07

New Year’s Resolution Or Not? We have all heard the New Year’s resolutions before. I’m going to loose weight…I am going to exercise more….I am going to get out of debt, etc. People will make a New Year’s resolution but after a...

live

setting goals

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Lemongrass18 Resolutions can be made anytime during the year. All that is needed is diciplined.

30 Jan 07

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Do you keep the money you find when doing your family's laundry??

lifeis2good @lifeis2good (1183) • United States 29 Jan 07

I am the only one in our house who does the laundry and yes it seems like it's a never ending task. But I was wondering what you do when you find money while doing the laundry whether it's in a pant's pocket or falls out during...

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Lemongrass18 Its not right to keep things that do not belong to you. I know is hard work doing all the household chores but one should not have the "finder's keeper" attitude. Its not a good morale either. Rethink your actions.

30 Jan 07

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Do you find yourself becoming disheartened here on Mylot?

shywolf @shywolf (4515) • United States 29 Jan 07

I worry that I'm reaching a burn out point. I was really happy here at Mylot for a long time - but recently with my star rating dropping and my earnings dropping with it, I just don't know if I can keep up posting at the level...

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Lemongrass18 Well I haven't been to your stage yet, burnt out! However, one needs to understand that MyLot is but a fun site to make friends and contribute positively to discussions posted. Take it as a pastime and hopefully your contributions is able to help someone out...

29 Jan 07

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