Scarcher

@Scarcher (14)

Indonesia • Age 45

Joined myLot 19 years ago

I'm normal. Yeah.

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To forgive while there is pain or to forgive after the pain is gone?

shakirabijin @shakirabijin (79) • Philippines 2 Nov 07

If someone had hurt you so badly and that someone wasn't able to asked forgiveness from you would you prefer to forgive him while the things he had done is still very painful? or would you prefer to forgive him just after the pain...

pain and forgive

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Scarcher To forgive while the pain is still there is not an easy feat, but it shows how wide our heart is. In some cases, the pain won't go away completely. Wound heals with time...but sometimes it leaves a scar. Forgiven not forgotten.

19 Nov 07

love game

jona06 @jona06 (78) 17 Nov 07

It's easy to play with love....Easy to hurt the feelings of others...Easy to let cry the person who loves you... BUT... It's difficult to find a person who really loves you??? How sad...this is really the saddest part of...

find a person

love

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Scarcher Hmm...to find a person who really loves you is the second hardest IMHO. The hardest: Truly love someone unselfishly. The easiest but saddest: Do nothing about that. GBU girl =)

18 Nov 07

unfair

jona06 @jona06 (78) 16 Nov 07

Unfair is when I had given my best but still got left behind..... Unfair is when I had been true to her/him but all I got were lies and false promises.... Unfair is when I chose her/him over everybody else but he/she chose...

love

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Scarcher IMHO, when you like someone, that doesn't mean that he/she ABSOLUTELY MUST like you in return. He/she is FREE to choose anyone they like, just as you are. I'm sorry, that counts as fair. Just imagine, if someone likes you but you don't like him/her, what would...

18 Nov 07

What are you in a medieval fantasy setting? Why?

Scarcher @Scarcher (14) • Indonesia 14 Nov 07

What are you in a medieval fantasy setting? A brave knight? A royal wizard? A cunning thief? An adventuring ranger maybe? Or maybe you want to make your own "class"? (e.g.: I am a sword-wielding sorcerer with a touch of trickery...

fantasy

medieval

medieval fantasy

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show me your best pick up line

brielevan @brielevan (238) • Indonesia 30 Nov 06

Show me your best pickup line let me go first:Do you have a quarter? ... Sorry, my mom told me to call her when I meet the girl of my dreams.

flattering

pick up line

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Scarcher Hi & smile =)

14 Nov 07

hello everyone, Who want to make friend with me?

cindy83 @cindy83 (133) • China 25 Dec 06

hi, I am chinese girl, today is my first day in mylot, I know I can make some friend come from worldwide, and I can learn english from all of you, pls post here that I can add you to my friend list.

friend

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Scarcher Hi Cindy. I'm a newcomer, this is my 3rd day on MyLot. Nice to meet you and hope we can be friends. GBU. =)

13 Nov 07

i knew i love you before i meet you ... ?

malaekat2an @malaekat2an (526) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

that title taken from some popular song, and believe it or not, it really does happends to me few times, back then on the year 1996, mobile device and internet are not that popular as nowdays, some girl that i have ever meet...

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Scarcher Sounds very nice. Too bad I've never had that experience before.

13 Nov 07

Do you consider yourself attractive?

Ministry @Ministry (70) • Norway 26 Oct 07

Or at least sexy? I was just wondering if you know if you're attractive or not, which might reflect upon your self-confidence?

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Scarcher Yes =P

13 Nov 07

hey!!! tell me about the best moments from the trilogy

rmish07 @rmish07 (28) • India 9 Nov 07

hey everyone.lets discuss about the best moments in the trilogy which like the most. my favourite is the one is the battle of helmsdeep. whats urs????

hey

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Scarcher Fellowship of the Ring: Death of Boromir The Two Towers: Battle of Helm's Deep Return of the King: Sam fought to protect Frodo. IMHO, Sam has the best character in LOTR. Honestly, without Sam, I think Frodo won't make it. Another favourite is on...

13 Nov 07

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Who do you think will win in a battle Aragorn or Legolas?

shakirabijin @shakirabijin (79) • Philippines 29 Oct 07

Aragorn is Isildur's heir, the king who is so brave to fight Sauron and won against Sauron. Aragorn inherited also the braveness of his ancestor. Aragorn is the king of Gondor though he grew up in Rivendell, the place of the...

aragornlegolas

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Scarcher Aragorn or Legolas eh? I personally like the way Legolas fights. He fights elegantly, with finesse, cold efficiency, and charm. I always love archers. In every game I play, I tried to be an archer first. But I hate his pretty boy look there (Orlando Bloom is...

12 Nov 07

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Missing out on love

jona06 @jona06 (78) 12 Nov 07

Missing out on love I'm the type of girl who just can't overcome the fear of love. Do you ever get like that? I can't seem to fight for what I want. It's like I'm stuck in this fantasy world where my prince charming will one...

love

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Scarcher You know what? There are a lot of other people out there who feel the same way as you are now. I have a very little experience on this kinda thing, but let me share something to you. I hope you can find these useful =) No rush. Everything will be good...

12 Nov 07

Do you play online games?

Cherry_Eve @Cherry_Eve (284) • Indonesia 21 Jan 07

I'm a big fans of online games, and I have played many games, such as Ragnarok Online, Seal Online, Stargate Online, and Nexus (Nexia in our countries). My favourite is Nexia, the games have a lot of sweet memories, I met my...

games

online games

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Scarcher Yeah I played online games. Not many, only Ragnarok Online, Risk Your Life (RYL) Online, and World of Warcraft. If we're talking about quality, the best would be World of Warcraft. A truly excellent online game, high quality indeed. But my most enjoyable...

12 Nov 07

which city are live in? tell me...

xiongqh @xiongqh (791) • Hong Kong 29 Dec 06

hi, my friends! where are you come from, I has benn here somedays, I know the people in this forum is come from worldwide, I want to know where are you come from, which country, which city??? Never mind, I know most of the...

city

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Scarcher Hi. I live in a crowded archipelago country in South-East Asia called Indonesia. I live in its capital, Jakarta. Maybe one of the most chaotic city in the world. I rent a room there, work there, and trying my best to enjoy life there =)

11 Nov 07

Child marriage- Is that what my parents want? Please help!

naughtysexy @naughtysexy (110) • India 2 Jan 07

I am only 17 years old, but i am soon going to be 18, and my parents speak of marriage every single day! I had an exam today, and my paper didn't go well, so my father told me that if i don't do well then he will forcefully get me...

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Scarcher Serious response: I'm not a wise man. Hell, I'm not even experienced in these kinda things even though I'm a lot older than you. But I am agree with above opinions which basically stating something like "If you truly love him fight for it no matter what." Be...

11 Nov 07