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GraceAlexander1 @GraceAlexander1 (16) • United States 27 Mar 08

This is a question that has been broached recently in a group I participate in. Under Islamic law, a woman who has been raped is often punished for having put herself in a position that allowed the rape to occur - in other words,...

muslim rape laws

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TonyaBarton This so-called law is EFFing rediculous. The least Islamic law could do, if that's the way they are going to ill-respect the bearers of their Muslim children ... is call it something other than rape. I find it extremely contradictory to place any blame for the...

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cttjj2312 @cttjj2312 (69) • United States 7 Mar 07

What kind of games do you play with your kids when there is nothing else to do?? We play indoor volleyball with a balloon and net made from our kitchen chairs and something else like a blanket. We also play board games and indoor...

parenting

play board games

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TonyaBarton Five children combined with a rainy day can lead to quite the monotony if we come up with something to do indoors to create some fun. Games that we often play as a family and find entertaining are: Charades, Pictionary, Trivial Pursuit (DVD), Scene It, many...

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TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 10 Mar 07

Normally I am an easy going, "lets work it out" kind o' gal. Right now, I feel more disgust and hatred than I have felt in my entire life! Believe it or not, that is saying a lot, as I have been through the worst of the worst in...

people

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TonyaBarton Exactly! No Compromising with her. She's a hypocrite, to boot. She wants my family to walk on eggshells so her husband can sleep during the day, and in the meantime, she is downstairs doing laundry, hammering, and her mini pincer is yapping all day long. What...

13 Mar 07

TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 10 Mar 07

Normally I am an easy going, "lets work it out" kind o' gal. Right now, I feel more disgust and hatred than I have felt in my entire life! Believe it or not, that is saying a lot, as I have been through the worst of the worst in...

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TonyaBarton Well, let's see ... She is of the personality type (I assume) of "controling". One night she came up and literally kicked my front door. I simply told her, "I don't care what your problem is, if you have something to say to me, complaint or otherwise, then you...

13 Mar 07

TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 10 Mar 07

It took me a very long time to be able to say the simple words "Thank You" without thinking "yeah right" ... "What do want from me?" I know it takes a lot of possitive compliments to undo a negative remark... Have you overcome...

love

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TonyaBarton I agree. As you respond with your gracious "thank you", your mind is simultaneously thinking "what are you talking about?" I desire to believe the compliments, but I don't know how.

10 Mar 07

TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 10 Mar 07

Normally I am an easy going, "lets work it out" kind o' gal. Right now, I feel more disgust and hatred than I have felt in my entire life! Believe it or not, that is saying a lot, as I have been through the worst of the worst in...

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TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 10 Mar 07

It took me a very long time to be able to say the simple words "Thank You" without thinking "yeah right" ... "What do want from me?" I know it takes a lot of possitive compliments to undo a negative remark... Have you overcome...

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TonyaBarton In my opinion it hard to say those two words when they seem unbelievable. When you have been distorted into something of a "negative" through your lifetime and you receive a compliment, in many cases you might just be stunned. Thinking "What" "That is so...

10 Mar 07

TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 10 Mar 07

What do you say to a loved one in the middle of an intimate moment? The man or woman who is guiding agressively in what you are trying to accomplish sexually? Do you find it offensive? Or do you appreciate their direct order? Just...

relationships

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TonyaBarton I am truly LMAO. It sincerely is not funny. But I am happy to know that I am not alone in this matter. I could not kick him out over something he just does not comprehend in the heat of the moment, as the reversed reward is too great (so is he in his...

10 Mar 07

TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 10 Mar 07

What do you say to a loved one in the middle of an intimate moment? The man or woman who is guiding agressively in what you are trying to accomplish sexually? Do you find it offensive? Or do you appreciate their direct order? Just...

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TonyaBarton OR ... fears that it will. You have hit the nail ... well sort of... on the head. Who wants to kill the mood so to speak? I feel it is a little more complicated than that. I don't mind him saying "do this or do that" but let go of my EARS!

10 Mar 07

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TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 10 Mar 07

It took me a very long time to be able to say the simple words "Thank You" without thinking "yeah right" ... "What do want from me?" I know it takes a lot of possitive compliments to undo a negative remark... Have you overcome...

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TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 10 Mar 07

What do you say to a loved one in the middle of an intimate moment? The man or woman who is guiding agressively in what you are trying to accomplish sexually? Do you find it offensive? Or do you appreciate their direct order? Just...

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goingtothesun @goingtothesun (54) • United States 31 Mar 09

The one who believes in God, but follows no good morals. Or the one who does not believe in God, but does his/her best to make the world a better place? Curious to see the responses.

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TonyaBarton The one who believes in God, but follows no good morals. Or the one who does not believe in God, but does his/her best to make the world a better place? Curious to see the responses.

31 Mar 09

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beaniefanatic13 @beaniefanatic13 (5068) • Grand Junction, Colorado 10 Mar 07

Okay I know this has probably been said before but really needs to be repeated. We ALL need to be reading the responses prior to posting our response. At least the first page. Why do you ask? I just got through reading another...

read responses before posting

reading responses

replying

responses

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TonyaBarton OH MY GOD!!!!! I have this very remark on my profile! I am disgusted with the fact, especially in debate, that people are not reading what has been written. By the replies, it is evident that they have not read what is acknowledged in a previous reply. It...

10 Mar 07

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ladywoods @ladywoods (45) • Greece 6 Mar 07

I’ve been a beta tester for Joost since mid-December and I just received invitations I can give out to interested parties. If someone Is interested about it can check it out...

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TonyaBarton I may be interested. However I do not know as I have never heard of Joost. I am searching now, but in the interest of others that are not aware it may be a good idea to ellaborate a bit on what it is Joost is about.

6 Mar 07

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TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 6 Mar 07

Whether it is a smell that evokes a childhood memorie or simply a smell that calms your nerves ... What is your favorite smell(s) and why? I personally have a few favorites that have different affects on me. I love the smell of a...

favorite smells

rain

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catjane @catjane (1036) • United States 5 Mar 07

I like to write poetry and short stories. Any writers here?

poetry

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TonyaBarton I spend a lot of time writing, mostly poetry ... but I making an attempt at short stories now as well. My favorite place to write is on FanStory.com. I have found that it is extremely rewarding in the feedback that you receive and also that it is likely to be...

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joey_matthews @joey_matthews (8354) 5 Mar 07

I've been a member of quite a few community's and forums. I noticed with most that certain users are stuck up when it comes to young people and I've only truly felt welcomed on two sites before this one. Mylots the first which...

age isnt importat when it comes to friendships

age issues

feeling at home

mylotcom

welcoming younger people

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TonyaBarton I for one appreciate the opinions of youngsters and elders alike. Of course that goes without saying that I will choose to either agree or disagree. Everyone is entitled to utilize their "voice" and express their viewpoints. I don't patronize MySpace, but I...

6 Mar 07

TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 2 Mar 07

currently I am a writer on fanstory.com. I feel like I am in fact making progress ... however I find it questionable that a writer in the first place position can maintain that position while not acknowledging reviews of her work...

TonyaBarton @TonyaBarton (89) • United States 14 Feb 07

There seems to be such a lack of public humility, politeness, and manners in our society anymore, that it is quite common for me to be able to, walk down the street, go to a restaurant or movie theater and find myself rolling my...

annoying habits

public behavior

public habits

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TonyaBarton The combination of those two habits especially is quite crude. Could you imagine being on the other end of that phone? I would hang up!

21 Feb 07

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