VotreAmie

@VotreAmie (3028)

United States • Age 58

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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What do you think of sibling taking the role of the parents

Your Highness Emperor Albert Whisker @CaptAlbertWhisker (32756) • Calgary, Alberta 17 Apr 11

I grew up with parents so I never experienced this situation but i noticed this situation in some families. there are families where the parents are dead, or had abandoned their children, or just happened to be busy. In this kind...

family

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VotreAmie It's a hard situation. It pushes these siblings to grow up fast and take so much responsibilities early in life when other people their age are just having fun. It is hard. I had a cousin of mine who lost her mom at a young age, she was only 20 years old and...

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improve my child's concentration

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 1 Mar 11

Teachers who teach my children at school, told me that I must improve my child's concentration. I do not know, what should I do, to improve my child's concentration. Can anyone help me or advise me, to improve my child's...

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VotreAmie I think you have to get him in a good environment that he is used to so he can concentrate better on his homework. At that time, you need to avoid other distractions such as other kids around, television, or other toys. Also you need to be there with his to...

2 Mar 11

Heaven and Death

LilyoftheThorns @LilyoftheThorns (12918) • United States 23 Jan 11

So, I think it's safe to assume that most people in the world are sad when a family member or close friend dies. And many people are saddened by the death of a beloved pet. I know both of those are true for me (heck, I'm sad when...

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VotreAmie I think nobody can proove 100% that there is heaven, it is all beliefs (either you believe or you don't). But myself I do believe otherwise what is the purpose of life and death ? I think most of us will reunite in heaven, but even believing in that it's still...

23 Jan 11

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do you also like to smoke?

samurai3x @samurai3x (65) • Indonesia 1 Dec 10

I feel I have much to know, especially for people who smoke cigarettes every day,because right in every pack of cigarettes are made about the dangers of smoking, such as this.SMOKING CAN CAUSE cancer, heart attacks, impotence AND...

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VotreAmie No I never liked to smoke. I understand why people smoke, they try it first to do like their friends or guys on tv. Then it becomes addictive and it's hard to quit smoking. Well you quit for afew days and then when you are with your friends who smoke or when...

1 Dec 10

How lost would you be without your computer?

GemmaR @GemmaR (8517) 31 Aug 10

I know that if I didn't have my computer, I wouldn't be able to do very much with my life. I do absolutely everything on here- I make money, order food, pay bills, buy clothes and presents for my family, and lots more things...

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VotreAmie I don't know what I would do without my computer. I am so used to it. My computer is way more important to me than the tv, radio or any other entertainments. That's the word, I would feel lost. More so, it's not just the computer, it's mainly the connection to...

31 Aug 10

Do you believe that what goes around, comes around?

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 14 Aug 10

In a more deeper meaning I think the saying is more like you better be good or else it'll come back at yah. Lol. More like don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto you. I believe that if we do something good...

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VotreAmie I do believe in that saying. But that said I don't believe that every misery that a person has comes from bad stuff they did before. But being mean to other people, God will catch up in a certain way with us. Besides that it is good to believe in it even if...

14 Aug 10

how do you deal with an obsessed girlfriend?

enyoung @enyoung (42) • Philippines 9 Jun 10

i have a good friend whose girlfriend is very much possessive. his girlfriend gets angry when he talks to other girls even if it's just for business purposes. they've been in the relationship for more than four years now and they...

obsessed girlfriend

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VotreAmie I think unfortunately when one or two members of a relationship is too possessive, in the long run it results in a failed relationship, I do think they will end up breaking up if she doesn't change. I don't think I could have managed a boyfriend who was very...

9 Jun 10

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What do you miss the most

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 7 Jun 10

from when you were a child? Today was my daughter's first day of her first summer on the swim team at one of our local pools. I'm very excited for her, but also jealous to a certain extent as well. When I was growing up I was...

being a child

memories of the past

nostalgia

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VotreAmie I miss the time I was at school with a lot of friends. Life used to be fun and we had a lot of good time. I am not saying that I can not have fun anymore but it was so easier back then, I could laugh at any joke, now it really needs to be super funny to make...

7 Jun 10

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Man forces son to eat school report, mad?

AjaySinghBaghel @AjaySinghBaghel (5506) • India 30 May 10

Furious at his son's poor school report, a father in France forced the boy to chew and swallow the sheets of paper and later admitted that he had "lost his temper" and had "over-reacted". The boy found it difficult to eat the...

father

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VotreAmie Wow! These things make me angry and sad for these little kids that can not defend themselves. The father is not just mad, he had problems and should see a psychiatrist. The prison is not enough, I think they should remove this kid from living with his father....

31 May 10

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The WRONG dog poo???????

Wizzywig @Wizzywig (7847) 18 May 10

I've just read this story about a woman being issued with a fine for picking up the wrong poo. It seems her dog did what dogs do and she picked it up but was told that she'd picked up another dogs by mistake as she hadnt seen...

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VotreAmie What ? that's something, I'm sure it has been very frustrating for her. We have a dog at home but thank God, I never received a fine, I might have picked the wrong poo sometimes but how would I know ? I think it's unfair to fine her especially because she did...

18 May 10

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Why is facebook so addicting?

borg246 @borg246 (539) • Malta 11 May 10

Hey mylotters, Facebook has drastically increased in popularity over th epast few years now. I don't really get why the site is so popular and what makes people so addicted. I only go on facebook because i'm curious how they...

addicting

facebook

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VotreAmie I agree facebook is very popular, many of my friends send me invitations to join the social network site. Many people like to share what's going on in their lives on a regular basis and many others like to know. I am thinking of joining the site just to see...

11 May 10

Is it a good idea to put on a makeup on the way to work? Even in public?

nessosamu @nessosamu (193) • Japan 10 May 10

In Japan, you can see some women putting on a makeup on the train, on the bus, even at the wheel! Some people think it is rude and others think it is OK. In my opinion, it is OK. They just want to look beautiful but is too...

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VotreAmie I'm okay with it too, putting make up outside why would that be rude? I would just be against it when they are driving because that is very dangerous for themselves and others, they can easily get distracted and get into an accident. But other than than, it is...

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divorce as a trend?

maxen07 @maxen07 (882) • Philippines 6 May 10

I just don't get people who swore 'for better or for worse' and then would get a divorce because of a fight over the smallest of things. I understand if you want to leave a husband or a wife because they're having an affair or...

family

marriage

people

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VotreAmie I agree there is more divorce in our generation than the one before. People just don't want to work things out, it's like they have no patience anymore. I think our society is to blame, in the past generations, we only divorce for major problems because...

7 May 10

Could You Hold On a Sec…

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 1 May 10

I have a cousin that I just get a kick out of talking to. She has a red-hot temper and it seems like the minute she gets on the phone her kids go wild. They will yell, cry, slam doors, run around her, throw things or just “mom”...

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VotreAmie Actually that happens to me, every time I am on the phone my kids want my attention or they want me to give them the phone, especially the little one. She is always on the phone pretending to be talking to somebody. It's hard to be on the phone with her...

2 May 10

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if you are of mixed races/nationalities

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 28 Mar 10

if you are of mixed races/nationalities which ones do you embrace more and why? i have a ton of different ones in my family. italian, irish, polish, british, cherokee, and a few i have probably forgotten but i relate more with the...

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VotreAmie My mother is from france and my dad is north african. I usually say I am north african I think because I am closer to my dad and to my uncles, aunts and cousins on the side of my dad. When people want to know exactly my decent I say I am mixed north african...

28 Mar 10

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MyLot discussion...

pcserver @pcserver (392) 24 Mar 10

[i]Don't you hate myLot sending you e-mails about new discussions made by your friends? Can it be stopped? What is the feature you like the most in myLot I am very curious and what is the feature in this site that is...

computers

internet

mylot

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VotreAmie When I started I used the feature that sends you emails about my friends discussions, but after some time I had so many friends that I decided to get rid of that setting. It's too many discussions and even if I have to sit the whole day in front of the...

24 Mar 10

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What a relief.... sort of

laglen @laglen (19759) • United States 21 Mar 10

House Democrats on Saturday decided against using a controversial tactic to pass the Senate's version of the health care bill without an actual vote. House Majority Leader Steny Hoyer, D-MD., said he believes Democrats have...

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VotreAmie I'm very happy that they passed this bill for health care reform. Many presidents tried hard to do this and no one succeeded. I remember when obama was campaigning, they said he was just words. Well he is not thanks God. Health care is a right and I think...

23 Mar 10

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Please remove your shoes when you come in my house;here's slippers!!!

marianna45 @marianna45 (1399) • Romania 14 Mar 10

I have several pairs of slippers as precaution in the hall closet, for friends coming to visit ... but for people who come first in my house .... just i do not know, is not polite, I give them to choose if they...

healthy

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VotreAmie In Hawaii, when you go to somebody's house, you have to take off your shoes and leave them by the door (outside). If you don't do that it is considered not polite and they would not like that. My husband lived many years in Hawaii and now he is used to that...

14 Mar 10

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