abi1005

@abi1005 (194)

Philippines • Age 43

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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love is ain't anything in a relationship

plumwish07 @plumwish07 (4057) • Indonesia 22 May 08

perhaps i am wrong in this matter but in my point of view love is not everything in build deep relationship. there are lots of thing that we should consider very well before we step forward in relationship. respect each other,...

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abi1005 i agree with you...love is not the only thing that makes relationship go stronger. in my personal opinion, trust and respect play a vital role in every relationship. without these, everything will be in mess..

23 May 08

Mylot debates.

crimsonblues @crimsonblues (1191) • United States 24 Mar 07

I have a question. If you don't agree with a post or what the post says...do you still comment on the post? Do you move on to the next topic? I move on to the next topic. I don't think it's my place to tell someone what they...

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abi1005 hi there...whenever i came across with a topic i don't agree with, i still post my opinion. anyways, this is what is mylot for..to share our opinions. it is just up to the reader how he/she takes other's opinion. in my case, whenever someone disagrees with me...

5 Nov 07

A matter of HE says... SHE says...

ahgong @ahgong (10064) • Singapore 5 Nov 07

When it comes to arguments between a man and a woman, as a third party witness to the argument, it is always a matter of he says and she says. He will claim that she has done such and such a thing that is why they quarrel. She...

believe

disagreement

neutral

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abi1005 hi there ahgong..in my opinion, as a mediator, you should stay neutral so as to give a fair advice. once you've heard both sides, you don't have to believe any of them. you give them advices without telling them who you believe more. don't get yourself...

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Does anyonw like writing poems

rochel1011 @rochel1011 (63) • United Arab Emirates 12 Oct 07

Hey all,Does anyone like writing poems,Any kind of genre.Just let your your creative juices flow.Maybe some funny ones and some nice ones.we could actually have alot to share in poems.And it would also get our thinking caps...

creative

poems

thinking

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abi1005 hi there..just started a thread..try to visit it and share yours. have fun posting..

23 Oct 07

How many kids do you want to have?

youngkin @youngkin (53) • China 23 Oct 07

Children are always lovable. I have a boy 3 years old, and I love him. However, my wife and I don't want to have another kid any more. It takes so much to bring a kid, and we have not the ability to bring up one more kid. How many...

child

kid

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abi1005 as much as i want to have lots and lots of kids, my financial status won't allow me to. i'd want my kids to have a good life so i have to trim it down to 3. i guess i could only send 3 kids to good school if not the best.

23 Oct 07

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Bananas for medical uses

Ellie @ellie26 (4139) • Malaysia 23 Oct 07

I got this in my email and thought that I pass it on to mylotters for information. If you have the time, read it: "Never, put your banana in the refrigerator!!! This is interesting. After reading this, you'll never look at...

b12

banana

medicional value

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abi1005 i've read that at some newspaper somewhere. anyways, i think i will start eating bananas since i am experiencing mild depression lately. thanks for reminding me.. :)

23 Oct 07

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Today is my birthday

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 22 Oct 07

Hi Friends, Yes, I've reached another milestone. It's birthday number 68. Nothing special planned, but cards, gifts and telephone calls from family and friends. Life is good. Blessings.

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abi1005 a Happy Birthday to you pose!! :) wish you all the best things that life could offer..

23 Oct 07

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I miss my bf

maean_19 @maean_19 (4656) • Philippines 23 Oct 07

Do you feel the way I am feeling right now? The feeling is that, I haven't talked to my bf last night and I missed him so much. It is funny, yet I can't control the feeling of want to see him, hug or kiss him whenever we had no...

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abi1005 yes my friend..it's ironic that i still miss my BF though he's just a room away from me.. lol.. i still miss him eventough we see each other almost everyday. i miss him even when we are together. funny but it's true. maybe it is the mystery of being in...

23 Oct 07

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My family is making my life miserable!

ladysurvivor @ladysurvivor (4746) • Malaysia 22 Oct 07

I am sorry if my subject title is too rude to some of you. Maybe some of you think I have no manners, but today I am so freaked out that I decide I should write this into mylot and share my feelings with all my dear friends out...

personal problems

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abi1005 hi there ladysurvivor..i was never in your situation but i do understand your sentiments. don't allow them to pull you down. go on with your life. stay as strong as you are. just don't mind them. at some point in their lives, they will come to realize...

23 Oct 07

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Favourite movie of all time?

MH4444 @MH4444 (2161) • United States 20 Oct 07

Please share what your favourite movie is of all time and why? thanks ^-^

movie

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abi1005 for love stories, runaway bride, unfaithful, you've got mail and the notebook are my all-time favorite..i could watch it over and over again and never get tired. i also love patch adams. i always get teary-eyed whenever i watch it. what else?? hmmm...i have a...

23 Oct 07

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supporting parents in their late years....

rivergod40 @rivergod40 (22) • India 23 Oct 07

We all know that in today's fast paced life, we dont have time for ourselves, leave aside our ageing parents. Their needs increase with time and we get more and more caught in our own world. Further, once a man is married, does...

relationships

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abi1005 the wife doesn't have any rights to ill-treat anybody much more the persons who raised her partner. the husband must talk to his wife. hear her side first. then, decide from there. if she cannot accept the parents, think twice boy. does the wife really loves...

23 Oct 07

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Regret something you said......

laurentyu1 @laurentyu1 (743) • Romania 22 Oct 07

Did you regret something you said? Well i have to say that there wore some moments when i said something and then i regret it.Most of times that happened because we say things at anger....

regret something you said

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abi1005 i really hate regrets. but just like everybody, i also commit mistake. but as much as possible, before uttering words to someone, i think about it first a lot of times. and maybe we could learn how to control our anger so as not to hurt anyone else..

23 Oct 07

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What will you first love?

surajpkn @surajpkn (581) • India 20 Oct 07

Men always fall for a lot of things about women. What is your first choice? Beauty or Character or money or is there anything else that is in your criteria?

love

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abi1005 in every relationship i had in my past and in my present relationship, i don't really set any standards or qualifications. i must feel comfortable and secure and that's it..his sense of humor will also count. he doesn't have to be good looking, rich or...

23 Oct 07

Do you use white lies to preserve a relationship?

raulgc01 @raulgc01 (306) • Philippines 22 Oct 07

I think, a relationship would not last if one tells his/her partner only the truth and nothing but the truth. Did you?

love

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abi1005 sorry raul but i don't agree with you. i still believe that white lies will only make things complicated. on the other hand, honesty will make the relationship if not perfect, at least healthy. telling the truth won't cause you and your partner trouble. it...

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Your spouse likes it, but you Don't.

aowaow @aowaow (1516) • Indonesia 22 Oct 07

Your spouse likes to eat pizza, but it's on your last name in your favorite list. Your spouse loves the craziest (go to naked beach), but that's humiliating for you. Your spouse likes 6-hours-shopping girl, but you're the type...

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abi1005 i am still single but i think those differences mentioned are not that big if both parties have respect for each other and would compromise solely for the feelings they have for each other. at some point of our relationship, there will really come a time that...

23 Oct 07

Difference between "I love you" and "I'm falling in love with you"

smiggy @smiggy (18) • Canada 20 Oct 07

Just to clarify what it means because I never knew there was a difference until my best friend told me there was. "I love you" can mean love or passion for a family member, a friend, even a hobby (i.e. a love of...

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abi1005 for me, when one says im falling in love with you..it means he/she is not yet in the state of loving..he/she is just on his/her way of loving. i would prefer my BF saying "i love you more and more each day".. ;) isn't that more romantic?

22 Oct 07

When must you say, I LOVE YOU.....?

UNPINOY @UNPINOY (361) • Philippines 22 Oct 07

Big words, some find it hard to say, to others, too easy, and too often. I put much care into loving someone special, i value every word i utter, i time my every romantic move. I make that person like there's no one else in this...

loving

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abi1005 i say it really often to my boyfriend and to my parents. i do it to remind them how grateful i am to have them in my life. but it must be really coming from my heart whenever i utter those three words. i don't say it if i don't feel like it.

22 Oct 07

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