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Opal26 @Opal26 (17679) • United States 25 Jan 10

I seem to have a habit of ruining or destroying whatever good things that I have in my life! It seems to be a pattern with me! I don't have that many good things that do happen and when they do I seem to manage to destroy them...

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arlenetogo hello! I have over heard (or read) this, and I just want to say that the only thing that can help is when you can be able to identify the root cause of the your self-destructing ways. What is your childhood like? Were you rejected or whatever. The next best...

2 Feb 10

acie_21 @acie_21 (5633) • Philippines 29 Jan 10

hi mylotters.. do you do this always?? or is this a habit to you already?? fixing your bed after waking up early in the morning or taking a nap... or you don't fix them at all.. or just leave it messy the whole day.. are you...

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arlenetogo One of the best ways to start a very nice day, aside from a prayer of thanksgiving, is to keep your bed fixed, neat and tidy. It gives you a sense of order and it's also nice to go back to a neatly done bed later, for a good rest! Besides, I believe your...

2 Feb 10

Opal26 @Opal26 (17679) • United States 25 Jan 10

I seem to have a habit of ruining or destroying whatever good things that I have in my life! It seems to be a pattern with me! I don't have that many good things that do happen and when they do I seem to manage to destroy them...

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arlenetogo Men are designed to keep things within themselves; their "macho" image just prevent them from spilling out what they feel inside. It's not that we want them to, but it is wise to have someone who is able to communicate what he feels. Communications is a two...

2 Feb 10

jofeli @jofeli (502) • Indonesia 26 Jan 10

Well, I like reading novels, mostly thriller. Frankly speaking, I never peek on the last pages to find out the ending (the doer if it's mystery or murder case files novels). Yes, it took me quite a while to read the whole pages...

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arlenetogo A lot of times I was tempted to do that especially when the plot thickens and the excitement motivates me to see what comes out of a certain situation. Yes, I am admitting but that is how you also know, when and how a certain situation came about and how one...

27 Jan 10

alohagems100 @alohagems100 (565) • United States 26 Jan 10

If we have a regular job that pays our bills? Aren't we contented we our monthly earnings? If you have no job at present, is spending more time in the Internet worth than looking for the next job? I have a job, just one good...

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arlenetogo I am playing a lot of times in my laptop; almost burn the lines just browsing. I am not so interested with games so I better convert my browsing into more productive and feasible way of adding more to financial freedom. I also want to find good connections for...

27 Jan 10

summer77 @summer77 (414) • Philippines 25 Jan 10

Online paid to clicks are all over the internet. How would you know which one is not a scam. They are all over. Damn! Anyone knows which one really works best and which one is reliable? And anyone of you already received the...

earn money online

mylot

paid to click

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arlenetogo This is the first I tried this and I enjoyed it. I enjoy responding to the discussions posted. I am looking forward to some help regarding how I can make money of it also, aside from referring friends

27 Jan 10

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taki_takaishi @taki_takaishi (1279) • Philippines 26 Jan 10

The first Presidential Ad I saw on television was the Ad of Manny Villar. A few ads later there was this that was like released around december the ad about kids singing and all. Then presidential ads one by one made are being...

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arlenetogo My advise...do what I do. Just shrug it off and change channel if you encounter the ads on TV. I do not watch local programs already because of too much crap on local TV and all those advertisements only promotes uneasiness in the spirit. Instead of being...

27 Jan 10

taki_takaishi @taki_takaishi (1279) • Philippines 26 Jan 10

The first Presidential Ad I saw on television was the Ad of Manny Villar. A few ads later there was this that was like released around december the ad about kids singing and all. Then presidential ads one by one made are being...

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arlenetogo We have seen this circus over and over again in the Philippines. Turn out after election, whoever wins becomes just another "croc" in power. So what is new? That is also why, when I start hearing about the ads, I just change channel on my cable TV and I am not...

27 Jan 10

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 25 Jan 10

Last week, I was posed with something that I have never dealt with before. I got asked out by someone that I've known for years and at one time, I tried to hook up with. The only problem, I'm friends with his recent ex. When I...

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arlenetogo Dating a friend's EX is okey so long that you will be open about it to your friend. If she has a bitter relationship with him or if both agreed for separation on a mutual ground; are they still friends or whatever makes a good point for learning. Anyway, if I...

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Opal26 @Opal26 (17679) • United States 25 Jan 10

I seem to have a habit of ruining or destroying whatever good things that I have in my life! It seems to be a pattern with me! I don't have that many good things that do happen and when they do I seem to manage to destroy them...

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arlenetogo At my age of 49, I must tell you that before I came to this age, I had committed similar mistakes and hurt a lot of people myself; I call it a growing up pains. One thing I like about you is that you are honest enough to admit that you are in error and that is...

27 Jan 10

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jb78000 @jb78000 (15139) 21 Jan 10

and heavily disguised. a sinister new world order is underway as we speak. and being organised by seemingly innocuous types, who however occur worldwide in vast numbers and in every colour. moths to be precise....

conspiracies

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arlenetogo Sorry about that...what I was saying is a prophecy..but my suggestion is not for researching the bible because it's too vast for anyone to research. What I mean is research further for the truth about world politics. You will not know until you know. Since you...

26 Jan 10

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TheRealDawn @dawnald (85137) • Shingle Springs, California 21 Jan 10

You apply for a job and the recruiter sets you up for a phone interview on Tuesday at 11:30 AM. You not only received this information by phone, but in an e-mail, so you are sure of the date and the time. The interviewer calls...

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arlenetogo Good and sound corporations are organized and find no excuse for anyone to be inept just because of their inavailability is such close call. Responsible corporations are human oriented. I worked in a high management level and once in a while was tasked to...

26 Jan 10

dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 24 Jan 10

I have a friend who recently broke up with her boyfriend(or should I say was left behind by her boyfriend). This may not be none of my business but since she published the breakup issue in Facebook, I came to know...

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arlenetogo Putting your thoughts into writing is a good therapy. Using facebook can also offer a "hearing friend" where you will be confident in saying what is in your heart and not be prejudiced. This only shows that when a person is in a depressing situation, sometimes...

26 Jan 10

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 24 Jan 10

I am almost 40 years old and I still dont have my driver's license. The reason being is that I was pregnant with my daughter when I first applied at 17. She was born premature, 29 weeks. She had a ton of medical problems. So by...

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arlenetogo Good for you sister! I am 47 years old and have been driving but does not have a license yet! My husband will not allow me to drive anyway, but I used to drive and own my car. Well, that was about 6 years ago when I had my "wild days" before; I was fearless....

26 Jan 10

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TheRealDawn @dawnald (85137) • Shingle Springs, California 21 Jan 10

You apply for a job and the recruiter sets you up for a phone interview on Tuesday at 11:30 AM. You not only received this information by phone, but in an e-mail, so you are sure of the date and the time. The interviewer calls...

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arlenetogo Well some people are just so insensitive; not because they hate you or is prejudiced about you. It may come natural for them. Good for you because this will save you a lot of time and effort. Imagine working for such company as disorganized as it is. Her...

22 Jan 10

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jb78000 @jb78000 (15139) 21 Jan 10

and heavily disguised. a sinister new world order is underway as we speak. and being organised by seemingly innocuous types, who however occur worldwide in vast numbers and in every colour. moths to be precise....

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arlenetogo I would definitely be drunk by the Holy Spirit! The hangover would last for eternity and what an uplifting experience!!

22 Jan 10

nimette @nimette (338) • Philippines 21 Jan 10

have you ever had a suicidal friend? i think i have one. I love her but sometimes I don't know how I could cheer her up anymore. She seems to be enjoying wallowing in sadness. especially after a break up. its been months since she...

friends

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arlenetogo Catholic love Jesus, that I believe. Any inspirational book that is bible base is a good choice. I want to recommend to you some useful books that helped me get delivered from this spirit of suicide and depression. I do not know if I can write down the title...

22 Jan 10

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