bebem75

@bebem75 (13)

Philippines • Age 50

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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What is the difference between love and like?

ebook_freak @ebook_freak (1511) • India 2 May 09

I had been thinking about this for some days. If anyone has brilliant ideas to express, fell free to share. I really did not get this concept. I men- I have heard people telling 'I love my mom' and some others saying 'I like my...

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bebem75 when you say you like a person there is a specific quality of that person that you admire. whereas when you love a person regardless of his good and bad qualities it doesnt matter to you. you love for whatever qualities he has

5 May 09

When to let go?

iceblade007 @iceblade007 (232) • Philippines 2 May 09

I've been with my girl for 2 years now. The first 2 years has mean so much to me and I really my girl. But right now, I don't feel like looking for her. I mean, I don't really miss her that much but still I try and push myself to...

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bebem75 try to reflect why all of a sudden you felt some coldness between you and your girlfriend. if it just happend without any reason at all i think you both need some space. space for the both of you to realize if the absence of each other makes you realize you...

5 May 09

do you believe in second chances?

aileen18 @aileen18 (170) • Philippines 20 Apr 09

do you believe in second chances? there are some people who experienced a near death situations or even died for just a minute and then suddenly they become alive again. do you believe in this kind of situations?

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bebem75 yes. nothing is impossible. everything is possible as long as you believe and have faith. even if a person doesnt experience a near death situation whatever happens as you wake up in the morning its another day to be a better person.

23 Apr 09

Can you let it go?

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85137) • Shingle Springs, California 21 Apr 09

Can't find a link to the article, but in today's or yesterday's paper, in one of the advice columns, there was a letter from a man who had great relationships with all of his ex-girlfriends. All but one, that is. She had good...

bad breakup

friends after breakup

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bebem75 maybe the reason why he wants to talk its because the guilt is still there. its a good thing the girl moved on. it seems the guy did not. good for you girl. girl power!

23 Apr 09

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What was the most memorable thing your lover did for you?

blaqjakk @blaqjakk (28) • Singapore 16 Apr 09

In today's busy world, we sometimes pay less attention to our significant other. I hope this discussion will allow us to take some time off and reflect on how much our partners have done for us, despite being us neglected...

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bebem75 i wouldnt forget the time when we cant be together and all he could do is just follow me and stare at me from a distance just so he could get a glimpse of me. and he texted me and told me to go to the nearest flower pots and there it is he made a paper flower...

20 Apr 09

Do you ever dream of an old lover?

Citychic @Citychic (4067) • United States 18 Apr 09

Hello mylotters! Just wondering if anyone out there ever dream of any of their old lovers or if it's just me. Seems that here lately I've been having dreams about a guy that was quite a few years older than me. At one point our...

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bebem75 hi. i do hv dreams from my past. my soulmate as i refer to him. sometimes life is not fair. we tried keeping in touch but as expected misunderstood by his wife so i decided to let go even the friendship. if it wont affect both your families why not stay...

20 Apr 09

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listening to songs

user_786 @user_786 (1338) 13 Apr 09

do you listen to sings, how often you listen to sings, more than once a day, a few times a week or less? could someone be addicted to listening to songs?

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bebem75 yes i love music. listening to songs everyday keeps me going and refreshed. i feel like everytime i listen to the music i like my day would be complete. it gives me that sense of peace and serenity. the moment i wake up , when my day turned bad i let the...

14 Apr 09

What do u do when u r depressed ??

dange_amit @dange_amit (232) • India 12 Apr 09

HI guys, What do u do when u r depressed ?? does u take anyones advise on situation u r facing ??

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bebem75 what i really do when im depressed is i let myself feel lyk that for a while. if i feel lyk crying i would. if i feel like not talking to anybody i wont. if i feel lyk going out have a drink and smoke till my head hurts a would. after i did all the possible...

12 Apr 09

How long did you know your spouse before you got married?

matnlilsmommy @matnlilsmommy (20) • United States 8 Apr 09

I have been married to my husband nearly 12 years now! We have been very happy together and have 2 wonderful children. We were friends for 5 years and dated for another 5 years before we got married. We have seen many friends and...

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bebem75 me and my husband hv known each other for almost 3 yrs before we got married. its enough time to get to know each other. we had no plans. he just asked me that magical question one day and here we are 10 yrs married already and as if were just beginning our...

12 Apr 09

Opinions on Living together without marriage?

debshie @debshie (392) • Philippines 3 Feb 09

What do you think of this? if you know someone who is in this kind of situation, what would you tell them if they ask you your opinion?

living together

marriage

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bebem75 its a matter of trial and error. why get married easily and when things didnt turn out ok eventually ends up getting divorce with so many legalities to consider. its a waste of time and effort considering the emotional stress tou would have to go thru. unlike...

12 Apr 09

money and love,which is more important?

xiaoman517 @xiaoman517 (73) • China 12 Apr 09

First,I think money is less important than love.We can earn money through our effort.But love is natural thing.what is your opinion?

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bebem75 for me love is more important than money because you can easily find money and earn it. but its so hard to find true love nowadays.love is what makes everything worthwhile.

12 Apr 09

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Do you think you can be in love with two people?

prncesfrmheaven @prncesfrmheaven (452) • United States 11 Apr 09

Do you think it is possible for a person to be in love with two people at once? Or do you that this is something else? Personally I don't think that you can be "IN LOVE" with two people. I think loving people in different ways is...

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bebem75 i think you can. but the passion between the two is different.the love for the other person may be greater than the other one. in one way or another.

12 Apr 09

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Will you work for a job that you don't like just to make money?

fatherblogger @fatherblogger (673) • Philippines 11 Apr 09

I have a very timely question. Let's say that that your current job now is your dream career, but the pay is just fit for the daily needs. Then, a chance came to work that somehow will almost double your pay. This time, you can...

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bebem75 no i dont. achievement and growth is very important to me. being happy with what you do is the most important thing and the key to success. if your successful money will come along easily.

12 Apr 09