becca29

@becca29 (40)

United States • Age 49

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Do you think that Gays should be allowed to be married?

cyberopjames @cyberopjames (483) • United States 19 Jul 07

I know this question has been around for ages. I am a gay male and I have been with my lover Jason for Sept 27 will be 8 years. We have a home together, bank accounts, vacation home. But if anything was to happen to any one of us,...

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becca29 I think anyone that wants to get maried should have the right to do so no matter who it ay offend. Straight people do not have to ask the WORLD beore tey choose to be married, I do not think gay people should have to either...... I am in the USA and here we...

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do you "sugarcoat" or are you brutally honest!?

elusive01 @elusive01 (55) • Philippines 20 Jul 07

I have this friend who always speaks her mind regardless of the fact that she hurts other people everytime she opens her big mouth. one time we were all together at a party and there's this girl whom we haven't seen in a really...

friendship

honesty

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becca29 I am not a person to talk a whole lot but when I do I say be brutaly honest no matter what. Some people still don't get it at times.....most of the time people close to me say I am just MEAN and it's just talking.

20 Jul 07

Childrens Names

sharon_ @sharon_ (1169) • United States 28 Jun 07

Why did you name your son/daughter what you did? Was it just a spare of the moment kind of thing or did you really think it over? Was he/she named after a friend/relative? Does he/she have an unusual name? As for myself, I looked...

childrens names

spare of the moment

unusual names

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becca29 My children were both named after my parents my son after my dad his middle name his first name I thought about for awhile before I had him. My daughter on the other ahnd I had her name picked out by the time I was 10. Her name is Sammantha Marie after my mom,...

28 Jun 07

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Dealing with a moody teen.

patgalca @patgalca (18501) • Orangeville, Ontario 27 Jun 07

Last night was my daughter's graduation ceremony from grade 8. She looked positively stunning in her Carrie Underwood hair-do and pale pink strapless dress. For that evening I allowed her a little make-up, but she really doesn't...

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becca29 Well being a "moody teen" once myself, there is no telling what was up with your daughter. I know I put my mother through all kinds of things when I was a teen (and then some).....haha....now going on 30. She may have just been nervous or stressed out, it...

28 Jun 07

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What would you do? Need advice--brother's GF is a pain :-(

Discordia @Discordia (95) • Canada 27 Jun 07

Hi everyone, I need to get some outside perspectives on my problem. I live with my brother, and we've been sharing a place for 10 years now. About 6 months ago he started dating a girl. About a week later she was spending...

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becca29 I want to start by saying I am sorry you and your brother are fighting, I have 3 I know how hard and stressful that can be. You have already asked him to not let her have a key to YOUR home, and yet she still has it just ask her for it back and since sometimes...

28 Jun 07

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Do you have a birth mark?

TriciaW @TriciaW (2441) • United States 27 Jun 07

I have one by my toe of all places. My oldest daughter had a big one on her tummy. I used to tell her that God kissed her there before giving her to me. My middle daughter has one on her leg and so I told her the same thing. Well...

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becca29 I have 4, I got one of them from my mother as we share the same one it is right below my butt check. Then I have one on by rib cage as so does my son, my daughter however does not have any. I was thankful that one has disappeared as I have grown up and the...

28 Jun 07

can you think well when there's a music playing?

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 6 Apr 07

Whenever I surf the internet, I always listen to my favorite tunes so that my surfing will be more pleasurable. But just this day, I noticed that whenever I read a discussion or write a response, I can't really concentrate to what...

internet

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becca29 I LOVE music I would listen o it all day long if I could. I take a shower, clean the house, and surf with music on. I do my house work and can't tad to dive/ride without it. I don't see where it gets in my way at all, except sometimes it ives me a reason o not...

19 Jun 07

Would you ever donate your eggs to a friend so she could have a baby?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 1 Jun 07

I just heard a story of this woman who donated her eggs to a woman so the couple could have a baby. Honestly, I don't think I could do it, cause everytime I saw the kid, I would feel like she or he were my child. And, I...

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becca29 I am a mother of 2 after I had my daughter I had my tubes tied, that was almost 8 years ago and I have thought about going and reversing it cause I would like to have another child (but with the way the world is today I am not sure it is such a great idea)....

2 Jun 07

Is she wrong for leaving her child?

msbiggs24 @msbiggs24 (285) • United States 31 May 07

My sister-in-law is getting ready to leave to go out of state for a job. She wants to be a flight attendant and has to go away for almost three months for training. During her training she will be required to take a few...

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becca29 I have two children also, in this case I beleive she thinks she is trying to do better for herself and her son. You did not say how old her son is maybe he is old enough to understand what and why she is choosing to do this, I do not know. Or maybe she can not...

31 May 07

i can't beleive this

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 31 May 07

ok so i just got new neighbours that moved in in my duplex yesterday. not sure if anyone remembers me writing about how a little girl just came to my house who i didn't know to play that said she lived a few blocks away and i...

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becca29 I know dealing with other people's children can get on your very last nerve sometimes, but these are children we are talking about. Maybe you should have a talk with her mother maybe that is her way of meeting new people, maybe she needs someone to talk to -...

31 May 07

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my daughter

kjc1981 @kjc1981 (45) • United States 30 May 07

my daughter is 1 yr old she had heart surgery when she was 2 months old she still doesn't crawl or walk or get into the sitting position herself but she does do what i call an army crawl is it just because shes behind cause of the...

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becca29 Well having gone through this myself with my daughter I have some things I will share with you. My daughter had open heart surgery when she was almost 2 and I thought she would never be the same, proud to say she is almost 8 and just as normal as any other...

31 May 07

Should I leave him

jayin06 @jayin06 (1) • United States 30 May 07

I have been with the same person for the last three years. most of the relationship has been okay but recently things have been rather bad. I found out today that he has been talking to some other girl for the last month. he says...

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becca29 Before you do anything you both need to sit down and talk, let him know you are upset about what he did and you don't know if you can trust him. If any thing in you loves this man and you want to make it work you have to talk about this problem openly. Let him...

31 May 07

Is it just our doctors office or are they all like this?

sunshine4 @sunshine4 (8703) • United States 30 May 07

My daughter has complained of a stomach ache for about 2 weeks now, every morning. I would tell her to try to go to the bathroom and she would be ok. On Friday it was hurting her so bad that she was in tears and asked to stay home...

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becca29 No it is not just your doctor's office I beleive all of them are that way. I agree with you on setting aide like 1 hour a day to see school aged kids who are sick then not the next day or even next week. I have 2 children and if one gets sick the other usually...

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do you like the feeling of nice fresh clean sheets on your bed?

weemam @weemam (13372) 30 May 07

This is a bit of a silly one really .Most people I know strip the bed linen off the bed in the morning when they are doing the housework, I sometimes do this too, I just love the feel of nice fresh clean sheets and be the first in...

bed linen

fresh and clean

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becca29 I love the smell of clean, fresh, crisp sheets and being the 1st one in bed to take all that in is great. Fresh linen smell is one of my favorites. I sleep better with nice clean sheets going to sleep with that smell just like when I wasa kid and mom "still...

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how to deal

dawgmart @dawgmart (74) • Philippines 30 May 07

hi everyone.... i just found out today from my father that my mom's cancer came back and that the doctor said that she has only 6 months left. even if im not the one that is sick, im really really affected by this. i am in the...

cancer

how to deal

mother

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becca29 Well I waant to start off by saying I am so sorry to haer that and sorry that you are having to go threw this. I know you are in the "why" stage and I am not real sure as how to help you get threw that either, I know that is not real helpful but I also know...

31 May 07

My child yells at me!!!!

simple_butterfly @simple_butterfly (478) • Philippines 30 May 07

Do you have a child like that? What corresponding discipline will you impose if you're child will yell at you? I'm a first time mother and want to discipline my child and I don't know how. Please share your views...thanks! :)

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becca29 I am also a 1st time mother of 2 they are almost 9 and almost 8, my 9 year old yells at me he gets smacked in the mouth and told that I will not allow him to talk to me that way. My mother was the same way when I was growing up and when I was a kid I thought...

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Will you let your little girl get a FAKE TAN?

Married2aMarine @Married2aMarine (1273) • United States 29 May 07

I was watching TV last night and they showed this Hollywood mom who spent $1300 for her daughter to get a fake tan ala Lindsay Lohan so she will not look so pale for her school pics!! Are you kidding me? The little girl was...

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fake tan

tanning

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becca29 I watchedthe same show you are talking about with my children a boy who is 8 and my daughter of 7, I would never allow my daughter to tan till she was at least 16. I know tanning beds are bad for you, but hey so is the sun. I am one of those die hard tanners...

30 May 07

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