berlinsteph21

@berlinsteph21 (25)

Philippines • Age 40

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Who are you more like? Your father or your mother?

Sawsen @Sawsen (793) • United States 10 Feb 07

Everyone says I'm from my father's family. My siters and I are triplets. My two sisters look a lot alike, and everyone considers them to be like my mom's side of the family. My brother and I are more like my dad's side of the...

family

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berlinsteph21 I look a lot like my dad, we have the same features. On the other hand, I got most of my character trait from my mom. Most of us are that way. We look so much like our dad and have the traits of our mom.

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Help, my marriage is fallling apart!!!!

Lydia1901 @Lydia1901 (16351) • United States 9 Feb 07

On Saturday, my husband told me that he has this emotional connection with this girl he met in class. He claimes that he had this same connection with other two women before. But, one of them didn't want anything to do with him...

marriage

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berlinsteph21 "Torn between two lovers, feeling like a fool. Loving both of you is breaking all the rules".... These are actually lines from a song which best describes your husband. I hate cheaters. I come from a closely knit family but I understand how hard it is to keep...

10 Feb 07

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what is your opinion on suicide?

itsjustmeb @itsjustmeb (1212) • Canada 9 Feb 07

i need to put this out there. With the recent death of Anna Nicole Smith, and how they believe it may have very been a suicide, what are your feelings of suicide? Personally I believe if you have children here, and you are even...

suicide

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berlinsteph21 Our life here on earth is only temporary. God gave us this very special gift that we may use it for the good of everybody. Life is precious, as precious as the one Who gave it. We have no right to end our own life. We are God's property and it is He who will...

10 Feb 07

Why do battered women stay with their husband?

Thomas73 @Thomas73 (1467) • Switzerland 8 Feb 07

This really amazes me. I know several women -- one of them being very close to my heart -- who are abused physically and mentally, beaten, humiliated, treated like absolute dirt -- and this even in front of their children! -- by...

abusive partner

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berlinsteph21 I pity those women who sacrifice themselves so much for their husbands. I guess it's because of too much love that they can't leave their husbands. Another is that they are also after the welfare of their children especially in saving them from the pains and...

8 Feb 07

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How do you ladies get rid of cramps?

fiyahcreation @fiyahcreation (2140) • United States 7 Nov 06

Peppermint tea, burning herb, and hot water bottle works for me

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berlinsteph21 I take one capsule of mefenamic acid. But you know what, I found out that if you regularly exercise, menstrual cramps can be avoided. Eating lots of fruits and vegetables worked for me too.

8 Feb 07

Tips For Cramping Of Your Legs

kathy77 @kathy77 (7486) • Australia 7 Feb 07

Hi Friends I just wanted to send you this to help you when you suffer from cramping of your legs. "I have one health tip that really works. We have all experienced leg cramps, or better known as "charlie horses" in our lives....

cramps

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berlinsteph21 Thanks for the tip. I often get leg cramps becuase I sit a lto especially when I'm surfing the net. Oftentimes I get leg cramps. Your tip is very practical!!!

8 Feb 07

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Did you have a good childhood?

rachelcaron @rachelcaron (1679) • United States 7 Feb 07

Did you have a good childhood? I did. I feel very lucky. Yes, there were some bad things that happened, but overall, I would say it was a positive experience. I was lucky to have loving parents and other family...

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berlinsteph21 I'm very lucky to have a wonderful childhood. My parents have always been there for me and so are my brother and sister. Our family's in tact and tough there were rough times, still we were able to come through it all stronger than ever. I was sent to the best...

8 Feb 07

Stuck In A Lift

tabyorky @tabyorky (281) 8 Feb 07

If you was stuck in a lift with 1 famous person, who would it be and why? I would choose Shane Filan from Westlife because he is totally gorgeous lol.

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berlinsteph21 None other than my boyfriend. He always makes me feel secured and happy. I know I'm safe when I'm with him. There's never a dull moment with him. So even if were stuck in a lift, its okay so long as were together nothing can dampen my mood.

8 Feb 07

5 Songs That Make You Happy

awonderfullife @awonderfullife (2893) • United States 7 Feb 07

Can you name 5 songs that make you happy every time you hear them-- and tell me why? Mine are: 1. Daydream (Lovin' Spoonful)- Because my Grandpop used to sing it to me 2. Come Clean (Hilary Duff) - Because my daughter loves...

listening to music

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berlinsteph21 My top 5 songs are: 1. Top of the World which makes me feel like I'm really on top of the world. 2. is All My life which always reminds me of my boyfriend. 3. Run To Me by the Beegees which always make me appreciate the people around me. 4. Again by Janet...

8 Feb 07

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My best friend is cheating on his wife, please tell me what to do?

destroyer @destroyer (784) • Pakistan 8 Feb 07

It aint as simple as it sounds! let me tell you the whole deal! during college days, we were best of buddies, me my friend Hammie (not revealing any real names for obvious reasons), sandara and Allison! we used to hang out...

cheating best friends

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berlinsteph21 Whetehr you like it or not somebody is bound to get hurt. Honesty is the best policy. Sooner or later the wife will find out. If you don't tell her now she might question your friendship and loyalty later. One way to ease the pain is to let her know sooner....

8 Feb 07

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Should a mother work or be a stay home mom?

iahnives @iahnives (48) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

One of the reasons some women women work is to have financial independence. It feels good to receive money for a job you have performed well and buy yourself the occasional treat because you deserve it. It is also reassuring...

toughest job

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berlinsteph21 It's the 21st century!!! Mothers should not stay at home but have careers of their own. At times like this mothers need to help their husbands with financial matters. Although being a full- time mom also has its benefits, still they should go after the...

8 Feb 07

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Should smoking in a car be illegal when a child is a passenger?

ConservativeArtist @ConservativeArtist (201) • United States 7 Feb 07

I heard a snippet on the news today that a city councilman in Aurora, CO is trying to introduce a citywide ban on smoking in a car when a...

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berlinsteph21 Definitely!!! You know here in the Philippines we use jeepneys as mode of transportation and there are really passengers who smoke especially when there are children on board. It is really frustrating and I find those people irresposible and selfish. The...

8 Feb 07

How many pets do u have ?

runsgame @runsgame (2031) • India 8 Feb 07

me got an acquarium with 8 fishes and a parrot and a pomeranian dog . all the 3 pets are really cute. did u hav any pets ? if yes how many ?

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berlinsteph21 I have three cats, seven hamsters, and a dog. Funny isn't it? My cats and dog are buddies but I keep my hamsters in an aquarium. I like cuddling with my cats or goofing around with my dog. I often play with my hamsters inside my room to avoid the cats. They...

8 Feb 07

How many cats is too many cats?

mixey62 @mixey62 (305) • United States 7 Feb 07

I have two cats myself (Fluffy and Notso Fluffy), but I have been told that this is two too many by my boyfriend. I remember thinking when I adopted them that two was my limit, otherwise people might start mistaking me for a crazy...

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berlinsteph21 i have three cats at home. The oldest, Augustus Cornelius has been with us for 12 years now. His daughter, Chloe and son, Crookshanks are with us too. Honestly, I wish I have more than 3 cats. I used to have 5 of them but some died. Whenever Chloe gives birth,...

8 Feb 07

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What was your first pet?

faerieingrey @faerieingrey (322) • United States 7 Feb 07

What kind of animal was your first pet? What was its name? How old were you? I was probably around six years old when I got my first pets - a tank full of fish from my father. It was a 30 gallon community freshwater tank, with...

animals

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berlinsteph21 I was nine when my godmother gave me a cat. I called her Saddam becuase during that time Saddam Hussein became famous especially with his war against Bush. Eversince, I love cats. Right now I have three of them and one is already 12 years old!!! Cats are very...

8 Feb 07

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nature headed for destruction, right?

Lucky Roo @youfiq (2564) • United States 5 Apr 21

I think this orderly world leads to chaos. like the language of chaos physics known as entropy, it seems that it has become a law of nature that everything in order leads to chaos. the entropy value gets bigger. all started with...

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berlinsteph21 I think this orderly world leads to chaos. like the language of chaos physics known as entropy, it seems that it has become a law of nature that everything in order leads to chaos. the entropy value gets bigger. all started with a big bang. but what do you...

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What do you like and dislike about movie theatres?

kgwat70 @kgwat70 (13387) • United States 15 Jan 07

I think I am starting to have more dislikes about them then likes now a days. How do you feel about movie theatres? The things that I like about them is getting out and seeing a good movie, catching previews of new movies coming...

movie theatres

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berlinsteph21 What I really really hate with movie theaters nowadays is the fact that most teenagers are turning them into brothels. It seems that our young couples are oblivious of the fact that they're in a public place and should keep their hands and lips to themselves....

16 Jan 07

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