cajimenez

@cajimenez (452)

Philippines • Age 52

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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How to Forgive And Forget.....

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 15 Jan 11

These discussion is in connection with my last post When In Doubt.. My friend found out that the suspicious letter of her husband about having an affair with his old friend is true.. She confronted her husband about his...

infidelity

10 responses

When In Doubt

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 9 Jan 11

Hello my fellow mylotter, I just want to ask your opinion about my friend current question. She found this message in his husband e-mail, the sender is a female friend. (the husband didn't know she knows his password ok)...

infidelity

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1 person

My Ex Is Bothering Me And Making Me Depressed

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 22 Nov 10

My ex husband is getting into my nerves again . We're not yet legally separated or annulled. But, I kick him out of the house when I decided I don't want to live with his abusive behavior again. That hit his ego ....

egomaniac people

2 responses

Vengeance or Justice ?

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 23 Oct 10

If someone did something wrong to you. Something that can affect and will do damage to your life. Would you ever think of getting revenge? I'm not talking of petty crimes here such as work rivalry or love related problems. But,...

life

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2 people

Ex Partner And Ex In - Laws

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 15 Oct 10

Getting depressed is one thing I want to avoid. But, sometimes there are people that gets into your nerves . No matter how much you want to ignore them, you just can't. My partner and in-laws are making me depressed. They're...

depression

2 responses

If It's Not Cheating Then What Is It?

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 19 Sep 10

The wife is wondering whether to believe his husband is not cheating on her. The husband has a co-worker that the wife thinks that their so-called friendship is being too close for comfort. The wife notice the telltale signs...

cheating

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1 person

To Hell With Abusive Men

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 16 Sep 10

This is the story of an abused woman who happens to be my friend. She was on a marriage with an abusive husband for almost seventeen years. Though it is not in a physical way but more on emotional, mental, verbal, financial...

abusive husband

4 responses

Keeping Secrets

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 8 Sep 10

It's a common thing that we share part of our lives with our friends. But , then there are certain limitations for it. Whenever a friend confided something personal on me, she can be assured that I can be trusted. But,...

friend

11 responses

Angels and Demons

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 2 Sep 10

Angels were defined as a divine messenger of God. They are in the good side. They are describe as beautiful creatures wearing white robes and comes in white bird-like wings. They also have halos. On the other hand, Demons...

supernatural

1 response

Cruel Intention

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 22 Aug 10

Let's play the jury. The victim is a 14 year old girl. She was invited by her friend, also the same age she was to go to a mall. They agreed to meet there. Instead, the victim's friend took her to other place unknown to her....

crimes

4 responses

What's Your Hidden Talent ?

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 21 Aug 10

I strongly believed that I have a talent for singing. I used to have a dream of becoming a rock star. So much for that dream. I had decided to keep that talent hidden .

dreams

4 responses

What happened to my Post ?

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 20 Aug 10

I'm here participating in some of the discussion. I've just finished typing my response and post it. Nothing happens.. My post disappear..How did this happen? So, I'm going to retype again. Did these happen to you?

question and answer

4 responses

Time In

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 19 Aug 10

I am just curious . How much time do you spend here. I'm pretty slow in participating in the discussion here .

question and answer

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1 person

What's your definition of being a Loser ?

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 13 Aug 10

In my younger days in school , Losers were defined as those who are not popular. Now that I'm an adult , losers were more likely the ones who are not successful in life. It also defines cowardice or simply a failure . If...

life

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1 person

Do you stay in a relationship even if you're not happy at all ?

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 13 Aug 10

I know a lot of married persons who stay in their marriages even though they are not happy at all . Reasons include children , or they simply accepted that their life is to die with the person they married . Do you...

marriage

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2 people

Can you be in love with two people at the same time ?

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 12 Aug 10

We've been hearing stories about falling in love with two people at the same time. It happens to me once . I'd been torn between two person . I was in a relationship with somebody whom I was learning to love. Then came...

relationship

23 responses •

5 people

What do you think is the most common problem for couples in love ?

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 12 Aug 10

For me , It's loss of intimacy or communication that become a common problem among couples. Financial Matters is next....

love

12 responses

What Makes Us Happy ?

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 6 Aug 10

I have read that being happy is a state of mind . One can be happy even in his most unfortunate times . Many still search for the missing links towards happiness . Is Success enough to make us happy ? What makes you...

happiness

10 responses

off- limits words

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 4 Aug 10

I had just finish answering a discussion about homosexuality . It never occurred to me that there are some words or terms that are prohibited to use here... but then I was able to find the appropriate and acceptable words/terms...

question and answer

1 response

Feeling Ugly

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 31 Jul 10

I have just attended a high school reunion . We have not seen each other after 20 years. We have fun catching up what happens with each others life . There are some who made a great change. Since we are an exclusive girl school...

beauty

life

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1 person