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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 11 Jun 07

or as parents, do we "owe" them shelter and food. when your children reach the age of 18 and graduate high school, would start charging them a small rental charge for their room and board? i feel that as long as they are still a...

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cbreeze The economy is tough right now. They couldn't live anywhere else for free. Either charge them rent or assign them a utility to pay for or groceries or something. But they should all be chipping in. And since the boyfriend is not your child, I would definitely...

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 23 May 07

i searched for discussions about this and found a few that were months old, before i was around,. so i thought i'd start my own. i happen to be against this policy 100% i feel that what people do in their own time is their...

drug testing

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jennawinseverytime I agree, nothing but critisism. I was doing data entry for a couple years, smoked every now and then and I still always processed more invoices than any other person I was working with. Made less mistakes than the other people, I was the best at what I did...

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 11 Jun 07

or as parents, do we "owe" them shelter and food. when your children reach the age of 18 and graduate high school, would start charging them a small rental charge for their room and board? i feel that as long as they are still a...

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deebomb Hello canjo I was just looking and saying thanks to those that geve me best response and was rereading your discussion and was wondering how you came out with you kids and getting them streightened out with the chorse and so forth.

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 11 Jun 07

or as parents, do we "owe" them shelter and food. when your children reach the age of 18 and graduate high school, would start charging them a small rental charge for their room and board? i feel that as long as they are still a...

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creematee I read deebombs response, and she is right. Rehearse it a bit, before you sit them down. Write everything out that you want to say, and make sure you let them give you the time to say it, without interruptions. If you struggle, find your friends here, at...

16 Jul 07

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 11 Jun 07

or as parents, do we "owe" them shelter and food. when your children reach the age of 18 and graduate high school, would start charging them a small rental charge for their room and board? i feel that as long as they are still a...

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creematee Well, I was a child that moved back in with my parents, and believe me, they wouldn't put up with that! My hubby and I were 33 when we moved in with his parents. We had 2 kids, and a third one on the way. We had free reign of the house, as long as we followed...

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 11 Jun 07

or as parents, do we "owe" them shelter and food. when your children reach the age of 18 and graduate high school, would start charging them a small rental charge for their room and board? i feel that as long as they are still a...

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deebomb You are welcome.

7 Jul 07

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 24 Jun 07

Have you ever made anything out of a gourd? We have made rattles, pipes, vases, dishes. It is truly fascinating how they turn out. Share some of your craft ideas for your gourds.

crafts

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ElusiveButterfly I love anything that is made out of gourds. They are quite useful too. Years ago they were used for dipping water for drinking. Today I have seen them made into bird feeders, planters, and of course for rattles. I love to use them just as they are for...

4 Jul 07

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 11 Jun 07

or as parents, do we "owe" them shelter and food. when your children reach the age of 18 and graduate high school, would start charging them a small rental charge for their room and board? i feel that as long as they are still a...

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deebomb Yes we do do it to ourselve. because it's hard to have our kids angry with us. But were your parents like that. mine weren't They Knew that I loved them and they loved me but it was ok to be angery with each other. I would get it all maped out first maybe...

3 Jul 07

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 23 May 07

....that is my question. i was taking my shower tonight and i had a thought,(that's my second best place for thinking) ;) should i even bother with shampoo. as you may be able to tell from my photo, i am not bald on top, but very,...

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butterfly39 I only shampoo my hair every other day, coz of falling hair...

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 23 May 07

....that is my question. i was taking my shower tonight and i had a thought,(that's my second best place for thinking) ;) should i even bother with shampoo. as you may be able to tell from my photo, i am not bald on top, but very,...

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melanie652 I'd use shampoo. Probably just a small amount will do. I would think soap would be too drying? I probably wouldn't worry about conditioner though.

3 Jul 07

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ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 2 Jul 07

When driving down a road and spotting a sign that says "Free", do you slow down and check out what is there for the taking? My husband has now become a "Free" freak. A couple of weeks ago, he brought home a rocking chair, bird...

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 21 May 07

Have you ever been to a professional sports game? My sister's husband took my youngest and me to a NY Mets game at Shea Stadium back in April 2002. It was there 40th anniversary year. They were giving away Mike Piazza bobble head...

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deebomb They are better than TV because they are live. The peoople that is.

28 Jun 07

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 24 Jun 07

Have you ever made anything out of a gourd? We have made rattles, pipes, vases, dishes. It is truly fascinating how they turn out. Share some of your craft ideas for your gourds.

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sumimasen Clever title! I think I made a gourd decoration once, I put pebbles in it and meant to use it as a vase for flowers. It's kind of hard to have a flat surface on it.

24 Jun 07

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 21 Jun 07

i know the saying is "everything but the kitchen sink", but i want to talk about bathroom sinks for a minute. i was washing grease off of my hands the other day and noticed that i was hitting the back of the sink and leaving...

life

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Nardz13 Hey. I often heard my grandma and my mom use this saying, and about the bathroom basin, when washing your hands it is quiet tight one, Ive often scrapped my hands on the taps because of this...

24 Jun 07

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stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 21 Jun 07

Ok, now before you read what I am pasting for you to read, You must know, this did not come from me! I do not believe this! This was a message that I recieved in a myspace bulletin, and I couldnt believe this! It was entitled, get...

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 21 Jun 07

i know the saying is "everything but the kitchen sink", but i want to talk about bathroom sinks for a minute. i was washing grease off of my hands the other day and noticed that i was hitting the back of the sink and leaving...

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oscarbartoni I have large hands and have noticed that I cannot wash and rince my hands with out touching the back of the sink. It is probably because that way there is more room in front for washing things. I would not mind having a faucet like the doctors have where it...

22 Jun 07

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canjo13317 @canjo13317 (396) • United States 21 Jun 07

I have noticed a lot of people asking for prayers here on myLot. I would like to offer a prayer request thread for all and any that need or desire our prayers, for whatever purpose. Please post your special prayer request and then...

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Hazel Funcion Yes, I have seen prayer request here with responses and prayers from mylotters and I am happy to see that we have seen mylot as a venue to support those who are in need of our prayers. Its a gift that we can share to those who need it and no amount of money...

21 Jun 07

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