chel2004

@chel2004 (63)

Philippines • Age 62

Joined myLot 18 years ago

Hi everyone!

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Love is Gr8

liferokz1 @liferokz1 (45) • India 11 Mar 09

hi ppl, I believe love is something special for which all people are born,But we ppl hear many stories of breakup,we do experience it sometimes.But are we very fast in falling in love???Is that the reason for breakups?????

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chel2004 Hi liferokzl!Yes the four letter word L O V E is the greatest word of all times! We are here in this world because of it. The foremost picture is, GOD created the world because of his LOVE for us. He made it a friendly world to live in, complete with all the...

11 Mar 09

Wich room is most important to you in a house ?

tudors @tudors (1556) • China 18 Feb 09

Which room do you consider to be the most important in your house? Bedroom? living room? kitchen? bathroom ? and why? I put bathroom in the first place because it is highly visible to guests. we may close the bedroom to...

house

room

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chel2004 Hi tudors! Yes of course the bathroom is an important part of the house for it is undeniably the most used not only to the members of the family but to visitors as well. However for me I consider the kitchen as the most important part of the house, I say so...

18 Feb 09

Friendship and sacrifice

forslahiri @forslahiri (1042) • India 14 Feb 09

How many of you agree that to maintain FRIENDSHIP one must be ready to sacrifice a lot,specially your EGO?

ego

sacrifice

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chel2004 Hi forslahiri! In life we meet a lot of people, Our interaction with them last sometime just for a while, others just passed by, still others last for sometime, others too last for quiet a time, only few remains forever, those few are what we call real...

14 Feb 09

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Looking forward as powerful tool

Zhu Huifen @zhuhuifen46 (3483) • China 12 Jan 09

At this special moment, everybody needs to educate ourselves how to recover the fundamental values and qualities. Among the tools available, looking forward is a powerful one. Given limited time, energy, and potential, we have to...

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chel2004 hi there! Problems are part of our existence, as we go on living we should learn how to live with it.With our intellect and optimistic views coupled with our own strategies in coping up every aspect and instances in our life, we easily find solutions to...

11 Feb 09

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Division of love and affection

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 11 Feb 09

How will you make a division of love and affection as regards your siblings?Will the eldest one be allowed to receive more care and love than the rest or the reverse of it? Wouldn't it be the best decision not to express marginal...

divisions

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chel2004 Hi sukumar! As a parent it is our obligation to love and take care of our children. We should be aware that each of them are individuals with a distinct personality and the love and affection we show them varies for each one of them depending upon the need or...

11 Feb 09

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my family

deanna2 @deanna2 (159) • United States 7 Feb 09

hello i think that having a big family is the most precious thing a person could ever have my family means the world to me

family

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chel2004 Hi deanna! Yes that's true, For me I consider my family as my greatest achievement in life, for they serve as my inspiration to go on living despite all the challenges of the world around us. In everything that I do I dedicate it to them. I worked hard to give...

10 Feb 09

What does being a mother mean to you?

Anora_Eldorath @Anora_Eldorath (6028) • United States 8 Feb 09

There was a thread recently on motherhood as a job, and that caused me to reflect on what exactly being a mother means to me. To me, there is so much that goes into being a mother. I'm often reminded of the quote from The Crow in...

children

life journey

mother

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chel2004 A mother is GOD's instrument in giving a life, that of our children. This is the uniqueness of being a woman.Yes Anora motherhood is a very respecttable profession for it is a job with a complex responsibility with a no pay task.For me I consider my being a...

9 Feb 09

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do you multitask??

bookreadermom08 @bookreadermom08 (5614) • United States 5 Feb 09

I am just curious, since some people can do it without thought and some cant even imagine getting through one thing at a time... there are days that I will get 3 things done at once.... then there are days that seems near...

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chel2004 Hi there! Yes I do multitasking all the time. As a mother of my four kids I run the house all alone by myself.I say time management is important if one is to go on a multitask system. For me I run a store infront of our house, do the household chores of...

5 Feb 09

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How do you shop?

chance2691 @chance2691 (566) • Philippines 4 Feb 09

SHOPPING. My mom and I are two totally different personalities when it comes to this. She rarely goes to the mall, and she only shops during a sale. Though it is that way, she's a winner 'cause sometimes she gets to go home with...

shop

shopping

shopping style

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chel2004 Hi girl! I say so we are quite similar with your mom in our shopping style. I too go out rarely for a shopping spree.What I usually do before buying any stuff is for me to go on a window shopping first, so I got sometime to compare the quality and price of the...

5 Feb 09

Can we really enjoy each moment of our life?

ranviruchauhan @ranviruchauhan (1407) • India 28 Jan 09

Can you please tell me hw can i enjoy each moment of my life? Bcause i m married male,hv to give good to my family. Therefor sometime i m surrounded by depression when i cannot give best to my family. So i cannot enjoy each bit of...

just married

male

preciouslife

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chel2004 Hi ranviruchauhan!What you feel is just normal, as a human being we are sensible with the things and conditions as well as the people around us.Try to be the best in whatever you are and be open in your dealings with your family. Let them understand that what...

29 Jan 09

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money......happiness?

tolymA @tolymA (2) • United States 26 Jan 09

Why is it that people always say money isnt happiness but when they always have a large sum of money they are happy are excited i dont get it. they are basically hypocrites i personally think that money is happiness i mean how...

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chel2004 Yes it is true that when you have lots of money you can buy anything you want, sometimes even the happiness of others. Each and everyone of us have our own perception on how money affects our life, most likely I say that this depends on our lifestyle.To others...

29 Jan 09

craziest thing you ever did

mayonaka1616 @mayonaka1616 (555) • Philippines 29 Jan 09

the craziest thing i ever did when i was a kid is to try to get into my neighbor's backyard. they had a high fence with electric charged barb wire. i got electricuted, and i ended up in the hospital. what was the craziest thing...

childhood

crazy

crazy things

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chel2004 The craziest thing I had done when I was a kid happened when I was in Grade I. At school we have a regular health staff who monitors and assist the school in the health aspects of the school children. We had our scheduled immunization then. As a kid I am so...

29 Jan 09

How would you describe these two words, good life?

lyzabelle @lyzabelle (1668) • Philippines 25 Jan 09

I mean, can you honestly say to yourself that you are living a good life? For me, living a good life is living a life in good health, peace of mind and in harmony with others. Feeling happy and contented with small things makes...

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chel2004 A good life for me is a life that is blessed my the LORD, complete with love, understanding and harmonious relationship with your loveones and the people around you. Happy and contended with what you have and what you are. Simply, simple living!!!

25 Jan 09

What nature of your partner attracts you most....?

suman2008 @suman2008 (683) • India 24 Jan 09

It is very common fact that every couple believes that his/her partner is the most beautiful.But my question is what attitude of your partner attracts you most? as I am in a relation for nearly 6 years,I know my partner quite...

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chel2004 Yes that's true! We see our partners as the best among the best even though how worse he/she is. For 25 years of our married life,our relationship was not that perfect, maybe I would say frankly that if other couple would be on our foot, we had separated ways,...

25 Jan 09

What Are Your Challenges as a Parent?

mjmlagat @mjmlagat (3170) • Philippines 12 Jan 09

Parenting is I believe a difficult and challenging task that it takes a LOT of time to perfect or even to be near perfection, just to avoid chaos. One of the greatest challenge I had a parent is providing equal amount of time for...

family

kids

time

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chel2004 Parenting is one of the most challenging role in the society we live in. As we all know, we consider the family as the basic unit of our society, so as parents we set forth rules to follow in our own family for the children to abide by it.As parents we should...

12 Jan 09

Do your parents know all your sorrows?

AnakSuNamun @AnakSuNamun (2084) • United States 3 Jan 09

Well,they probably do or they guess if they know you well enough. My question is-do you tell them about your problems or you prefer to keep it to yourself? I might tell mine about some pet peeves and minor stuff but I'd keep...

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chel2004 In my younger years I share my sorrows with my parents. for as a growing kid, those sorrows are not that great deal as not as you grow older,for as we grow our lifes are more complex as we struggle in a world with so diverse situations. As I grow old I had...

12 Jan 09

How did you choose your children names?

rodveiga @rodveiga (333) • Portugal 9 Jan 09

It was after someone in your family? some name that marked your childhood? a name you always liked? Have you imposed a name or let someone choose for you? My youngest son's name was my choice but the oldest was my husband's...

names

naming children

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chel2004 Hi rodveiga! I have four kids,my eldest daughter's name is a combination of my husband and my name,my first son is our junior, our second son,s name I derived it from a one of the worlds greatest author and the youngest kid I got her name from a Hindu book....

12 Jan 09

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do you spend money for maintaining your good skin?

marketing07 @marketing07 (6266) • South Korea 5 Jan 09

one of my friend ask me if i went to the massage to maintain my skin...she mentioned to me that one of our friend or even my sister in-law went to have a face massage to look younger or to avoid wrinkles,,i did laugh at it coz i...

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chel2004 Same as yours, I do the routine in the natural way,I just wash my face with a facial cleanser and my body with a moisturizing soap after which I pamper my whole body with lotion. Take enough sleep and be sure not to stay under the heat of the sun. And most...

12 Jan 09

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