crystal2008

@crystal2008 (21)

China • Age 38

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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What is a good listener??

rubypalmes @rubypalmes (269) • Philippines 24 Mar 09

if had a friend its better that he / she is a good listener right?? b'coz if u tell all your problems and worries in life he / she can listen very carefully and give the advice. me i can say myself is a good listener b'coz i...

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crystal2008 er, i think i am a good listener,too. i like to listen what my friend share with me ,and most of time , i give my advice to him/her, sometime, if they have problem that i cannot solve, i will also listen what they said, help them to solve the...

24 Mar 09

to love or be loved???

enavnai13 @enavnai13 (509) • Philippines 23 Mar 09

which would you prefer, to love or be loved??? which one is more important to you??? i have read in one text message that it is more important to be loved... coz you get to experience how it is to be cared and loved by...

love

relationships

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crystal2008 to love or be loved ,that's a question. when u chose "be loved" u also choose passivity. if u can accept his/her attention, u will feel happy. on the countraty, u will be said. ur happiness is in other's hand. is this a good thing ? but if u choose "to love"...

23 Mar 09

can you study while listening to musics?

lovesummer @lovesummer (1162) • Malaysia 30 Jan 09

some of my friends can actually read their books while listening to musics. That is quite impossible for me unless i was not really intended to memorize the materials. by doing that actually distract my attention i could be...

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crystal2008 er, i usually did like that. most of time i can study while listening music. when i want to read books or want to do some study, but the surrounding is noisy,then i will take out my mp3,listening the music,maybe at the beginning, it's very difficult to pay...

31 Jan 09

Are We Mylotting Just To Make Money???????

maverickwarrior @maverickwarrior (260) • India 7 Dec 08

I was going through the discussions that are here .. and i felt that some of the discussions here are so banal that it really pissed me off... i joined mylot because of my interest in constructive discussion where i get something...

boost

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crystal2008 Well, I'm a newer here. but i came here not only for earning money ,i found it's a good place to communicate with you-the native english speakers. because,english is the second language in my country,we don't talk with others in english. but here, i can...

8 Dec 08

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Can you survive without your cell phone?

joystick7 @joystick7 (728) • India 7 Dec 08

I guess these days cell phone has taken a major share of most people's life... Walking, resting, jogging, working, we guys are glued to our cell.. Considering all of this can you survive without your cell phone? I personally...

cell

mobile

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crystal2008 well, i think i could survive without my cell phone. because i am not a heavy user, sometimes, the cell phone to me is just lika a watch, it let me know the time ,and also it's convenient for me to keep touching with others,and let them connect with me...

8 Dec 08

Do you wish you were little TALLER than what you are?

joystick7 @joystick7 (728) • India 6 Dec 08

I am 5.9 . I think this a general height for an Asian but sometimes I wish I had been 6 foot.. I personally think taller people are a little lucky in many ways... First and formost if you carry a good height then you are...

height

script

tall

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crystal2008 well, of course I wish i could be a litte taller, but it seems imporssible,because I'v kept my current height for more than 7years .now i am 21. i don't think i could be grow taller~~~

7 Dec 08

what can u do when facing a frustration which can never be overcome,like death?

Huluwooo @HUANGSHAMANMAN1314 (122) • China 6 Dec 08

These days,a consciousness are always spoiling my life.That's the fact that i will certainly be dead someday.i am only 23 years old,i wonder how i have such a frightened thought.i am so apprehensive that i lost interest in...

death

help

life

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crystal2008 Well, i think you needn't to care much about this problem. because you know no one can escape from die in the world. we can do nothing to avoid this to happen. so, what we should do is to enjoy the life, and make our life meaning and have no regret when we...

7 Dec 08

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Are you ready for adult life?

chasingsunlight @chasingsunlight (261) • United States 6 Dec 08

I am going to graduate college in May 2009. There will be a big jump in terms of responsibility, managing my job, etc. From talking with my peers, it seems a lot of young people are not quite ready to be pushed into the "real...

college

life

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crystal2008 Actually,i don't think i am ready well for adult life, i don't fear the responsibility,or the sociey. i just can not adapt myself to the situation that i am a adult. he he ~~~ for me ,as a adult is not very good ,because i often be told that there are some...

7 Dec 08

Why not LOVE a FRIEND?

lloydbelleza @lloydbelleza (1227) • Philippines 6 Dec 08

I always ask myself, why should I look for another if I can have a friend to love? A friend that knows you very much would be a very comfortable companion. Someone who knows your tantrums, strengths and weaknesses can better...

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crystal2008 Hi, I don't think it very goood to love a fried, only if u know he/she would also love you. because sometimes when u tell a friend that u love him,but he doesn't love u ,u will be very sad, and also he will feel uncomfortable to meet you. then maybe you two...

7 Dec 08

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Longest Friendship?

chasingsunlight @chasingsunlight (261) • United States 4 Dec 08

How long has your longest friendship lasted? My best friend and I have been friends for 13 years!! I can't believe how long I have known her and I am so glad we've shared so many memories. Meanwhile, my dad is still friends with...

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crystal2008 my best friend and i are classmates when i was 10 years old,since then we became good friends, almost 11 years past, we are still best friends. when i think of this,i feel really happy! maybe you can not believe that we never quarreled with each other,even...

5 Dec 08

Would you ever think of suicide when you're failure in love?

ck3259 @ck3259 (248) • Malaysia 4 Dec 08

Ever think of suicide because of failure in love? I just read from news that one of the famous singer suicide because of love. I personally think that it is not worth to suicide and people around would very sad. We have given to...

love

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crystal2008 I think no matter how sad you are,you should not suicide, because suicide can not solve the probiem at all, and it can bring more sadness to your family, you should think more about people who loves you . and i believe love is not the whole life,so you should...

5 Dec 08

What will you eat for your tea break?

youless @youless (113936) • Guangzhou, China 2 Dec 08

If you have the tea break in the afternoon, what will you usually eat?

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crystal2008 we don't have tea break in the afternoon, as i am a college student,most of time i have class, but usually i eat some fruit or biscuit after class. If i have the tea break ,i prefer to eat some ice cream~~~ he he

5 Dec 08

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At what age I should marry?

sudhibus @sudhibus (134) • Kuwait 4 Dec 08

When do people marry? Some marry when they feel they have reached maturity. Some marry when they have enough money to care a family. Some marry when their parents compel, some even when their parents allow.There are people who...

marriage

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crystal2008 I think when you realized that mary is not just only two people lived together,but also a kind of responsibility , (responsibility to the family ,to your wife or husband and so on) then you can marry. because in my country, sometimes marry is a thing of two...

5 Dec 08

Is he trully sincere?

Llonorra22 @Llonorra22 (1150) • Philippines 5 Dec 08

Hello fellow mylotters, for the past two years, I remained single but happy after a two-year old relationship. Then, just last week this guy approached me (when I was in church)he suddenly asked permission to go to my house to...

cerebral palsy

disability

trully sincere

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crystal2008 er~~`~ actually, i am not sure about that ,but i think you should give him a chance, and try to believe him, but you can not trust totally only if you know him very well. maybe he is really love, be confident,you are great!give both of you a chance! Hope...

5 Dec 08

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borrow books or buy books ,which way u often like to for reading?

kunking @kunking (1118) • China 5 Dec 08

hi, everyone! i like reading very much and most of times i would like to borrow books from the library for reading coz there are sorts of book there and the point is they are free..and sometimes i will also buy books if i find...

borrow buy

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crystal2008 er~~ most of time i borrow books from the library, because there are all kinds of books that i need ,and you know they are free,it cost me little to read books. and also i will read the books carefully and quickly,because i have to return them to library a...

5 Dec 08

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You MUST Do This, It's the Law Now

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 4 Dec 08

If by law everyone had to get a tattoo somewhere on their body, where would you choose to have yours?.. My cousin just asked me this same question less than an hour ago. Why would he asked me something like that? He knows I...

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crystal2008 Actually,I really hate the needle,i think it's terrible to get a tattoo with the needle. but i really have to get one,i think i will choose my arm to have a tattoo in small leaf shape. he he~~~ i think it very would be less pain than other parts of skin ,and...

5 Dec 08

Do You Really Want to Live Forever?

acevivx @acevivx (1566) • Philippines 4 Dec 08

Life expectancy has become shorter than what it used to be. in the past people could live even beyond 100 years of age ( based on the bible, among others) but now life expectancy is much much shorter. We have heard of stories...

eternal youth

life expectancy

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crystal2008 In my opinion,I think if one is healthy,and he achieves what he whants,he knows how to give love to others, and also accepts love from others and enjoy the life, no matter how short has he lived in the world,his spirts can live forever. but if one can not...

5 Dec 08

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