defeder

@defeder (12)

United States • Age 35

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Do you think that fear is our greatest enemy?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 30 Nov 09

Bertrand once said that fear is one of the main sources of cruelty and to conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross said, "Fear and guilt are the only enemies of man" and of course, most famously of all,...

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defeder i dont think that fear is something to be conquered. fear has kept us alive for generations, and is needed in life. it is the fear of breaking the law that keeps us from stealing, or murder, and it is the fear of millions of death that keeps nations from...

30 Nov 09

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books im writting

defeder @defeder (12) • United States 30 Nov 09

so im trying to break out of the world of amature writting and get my first book published. i have settled on a novel about werewolves, but because the information is sospread out, and so much seems so ridiculous, i was wondering...

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People join for earning money in Mylot but after few days......

Drsunny21 @Drsunny21 (556) • India 28 Nov 09

Why do you join mylot??Every one has joined mylot for earning money in the starting coz when we are introduced to it by anyone,its like tht from this site we can earn money by doing discussion and we join but aftr few days of...

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defeder discussion is what makes people get along and understand each other without blood shed, and i think that humans are drawn towards that. desides, it is fun to show what we know and to learn new things from others, toss in a little cash for doing these things...

30 Nov 09

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Alone for the holidays! Who else?

maezee @maezee (41987) • United States 29 Nov 09

As Christmas approaches.. Again! This year I find myself boyfriend-less, alone, with no one to buy cute, sexy gifts for and no family parties (outside of my own) to go to. This sucks. It's always a struggle for me, especially...

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defeder i definently know the feeling of being single, and i tend to fight with my family a lot so holidays for me are usually lonely. really there is nothing you can do except set your sights on what you want and push through the times that get hard, it can't be...

30 Nov 09

Mossberg

defeder @defeder (12) • United States 30 Nov 09

so, i was wondering if anyone out there had any advice, i want to buy a mossberg 500 but am not sure if a remington 870 would be better

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Does your family eat canned/fast food or eat home-made food?

wigima5 @wigima5 (904) • United States 28 Nov 09

Well my family has always been the one that had our mom making us home-made food. She would chop all the vegetables n make the soup and bake the chicken with all the seasonings. We rarely ever use canned food, except when I don't...

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defeder our family tends to prefer a mix of fast food and home made. due to being a poorer family we can't always afford to eat out, so it seems like a special treat when we do. aside from theat i cook almost every other night, normally all but five days in a month.

28 Nov 09

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I hate to borrow money or things. What about you?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 28 Nov 09

I hate the habit of borrowing money or things. If I borrow things, I take care of thing and give it back at the earliest in good condition. If I borrow money, I keep a reminder and give the money back as soon as possible. I have a...

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defeder i've never minded borrowing something from a person, but as far as money goes i hate to ask anyone. having something physical is easy to keep track of, but i never have money so if i borrow it i have little chances to pay it back, and this stresses me out, so...

28 Nov 09

Did anybody go on crazy shopping on Black Friday?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 28 Nov 09

Yesterday is the 27 of November, the day after Thanksgiving, and I think many people would go on to the nearby retail stores, such as Walmart, Bestbuy for the one day of the year "crazy shopping". People even camp out of the store...

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defeder i have never really gone on crazy shopping sprees during sales. it seems to me that there is far too many people to contend with to bother getting out of bed. though i must say that i may one day regret missing the chance to be a part of the sarm.

28 Nov 09

Do you easily get irritated when you are broke?

mchavez11 @mchavez11 (1406) • Philippines 28 Nov 09

Yes i easily get irritated when i am broke especially if i need to settle or buy something really important and was not included in my budget. It's really hard to survive in a busy city without enough money, that everytime you...

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defeder i think that it is irritating to be low on money, but you should try and focus on what you do have to keep from losing hope. if all you focus on is the negative aspect, you will always be broke. staying positive keeps you motivated to change the world you live...

28 Nov 09