deidraisrad

@deidraisrad (71)

United States • Age 40

Joined myLot 20 years ago

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Help me with my girlfirend and her menstraul period!

elijahpaul @elijahpaul (65) • Philippines 13 Dec 06

I need advice from you guys because I can't seem to understand my girlfriend lately whenever she's having her menstrual period. Whenever she has it, her mood is gonna change from good to bad and its gonna spark a fight and it...

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deidraisrad well just be patient with it. it's only a one time a month thing. sometime whether you believe it or not girls really can't help having these changes happen. i'm not saying ot take it, but just be patient and talk to her about it.

14 Dec 06

This is such a scam look at this before you waste your money

fritz_hailey @fritz_hailey (1334) • United States 13 Dec 06

i am search for a work at home job and i come up to several jobs saying that you can make 10-20 dollars for each thing u process. it already sounds like its to good to be true. so i checked it out and you have to send an email to...

scams

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deidraisrad i was watching the news yesterday and they had this report on work at home scams. they say that most of them are just that and that only a few are legit. i'm not sure which ones though. some people have lost so much money because of it.

13 Dec 06

How to have a great relationship with my mom.

cindyngeorge @cindyngeorge (333) • United States 13 Dec 06

I will start this off by saying I was a bad kid growing up. I was mouthy with the biggest attitude you can find. I hate my mom because she always knew what was best for my. (Even though I never listened) No that I have 2 kid of my...

mom

relationships

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deidraisrad the relationship with my mother and i is a pretty good one, i mean not perfect ofcourse. we communicate alot, sometimes not in the best ways but we do. that is very important, helping your daughter see that she can tlak to you and be open about anything and...

13 Dec 06

What do you think of the American health care system?

ModelMom @ModelMom (129) • United States 8 Dec 06

I am fortunate enough to have excellent health care benefits through my husband, but while I was growing up there were many years in which my family did not have health insurance and therefore none of us were able to go to doctors...

health care

health insurance

united states

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deidraisrad once i turned 1 and graduated from high school i didn't have any form of healthcare. yeah i had a job but nothing that could completely cover all those expenses. now i'm in college and without a job the only way i got to go to the doctor was at the university...

9 Dec 06

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what do you think about abortion.

kerbausama @kerbausama (1335) • Malaysia 8 Dec 06

An abortion is the removal or expulsion of an embryo or fetus from the uterus, resulting in or caused by its death. This can occur spontaneously as a miscarriage, or be artificially induced by chemical, surgical or other means....

abortion

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deidraisrad i feel that i'm against it because it is really terrible. but then i actually think about why girls/women would do it. sometimes you just can help but make that decision feeling powerless and unable to go through with the pregnancy. then i think about what i...

9 Dec 06

Would you meet somebody from the internet?

sylviekitty @sylviekitty (2083) • United States 8 Dec 06

I have met some really nice people from online over the years. Some of them I have spoken with on the phone, exchanged snail mail with, sent presents to, and even met in person. Heck.. I married one! But there are a lot of nuts...

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deidraisrad yes i would definitely. i have in the past too. ofcourse the decision to do so depends on many things. i've had this friend online for over 5 years. since i was 16 years old and i have yet to meet her because she lives in ny. you are able to meet some...

9 Dec 06

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Nonsense Discussions and Plagiarized Ones

JC1969 @JC1969 (1224) • United States 9 Dec 06

I was really thrilled when myLot decided to crack down on the numerous discussion posts that had very little to say, and were not of any quality--nonsense. However, what I have seen recently is the new trend of people who cannot...

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deidraisrad i disklike the people who have actually copied my discussion and pasted it as a response. that is one of the reasons i want to be able to delete them. and then there are the articles. they should just link it instead of posting all of it. i think these people...

9 Dec 06

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Are there Really Aliens? Do You Believe They Exist?

urvaksh @urvaksh (189) • India 8 Dec 06

these question can start of some serious discussions , human beings have always wondered of the possibilities of themselves being not the only inhabitetents of this universe. now that water has been discovered on mars ,it just...

aliens

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deidraisrad i've been taking astronomy for the past two semesters and it's hard to come out of that class thinking that other civilizations don't roam the universe.i would like to believe that we aren't the only ones. it'd be very interesting. i think man is scared of...

9 Dec 06

Tis the season for fudge!

Random1 @Random1 (212) • United States 9 Dec 06

YAY! The Christmas season always seems to bring with it a lot of treats! People get in the baking spirit and bring treats to your house. Today we received some fudge and it is by far the best fudge I have ever had in my life! I...

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deidraisrad oh man i love the holidays for this same reason. i bakek alot with my mom. and we give our treats to our closest friends. seems much more personal like that. last year i tried making fudge but it came out way too soggy. i might try again this year but with a...

9 Dec 06

Is it justifiable...

megs85 @megs85 (3142) • Australia 8 Dec 06

... to be unfaithful to a partner that you rarely see? Or is cheating cheating, no matter what? My partner often goes away for work and although I get extremely lonely I would not dream of seeing anyone else. My son keeps me...

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deidraisrad i agree with your last statement. cheating is cheating and it's probably one of the most horrible things to do to someone you love. like they say out of sight out of mind can also be true but it might affect people differently. but it shouldn't be justified...

9 Dec 06

Are you getting anything done while you're online?

FrostBittenFruit @FrostBittenFruit (69) • United States 8 Dec 06

How do you spend most of your online time? Do you think the time is well spent? Could you managed your daily schedule more effectively? I spend a lot of my time on the computer. I work with various websites, acting as an...

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deidraisrad although i'm not ditching school by any means i do know what you mean. once i get online and do something else that is not my homework or something important i forget. it's so distracting. i've recently gotten into mylot alot and paid surveys and emails. ahh...

9 Dec 06

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Do you believe in CHARLES DARWIN’S THEORY OF EVOLUTION?

lilmeowsy @lilmeowsy (685) • Philippines 8 Dec 06

Did we really come from apes? Are they really our ancestors? These questions keep on popping in my head. Of course, people will not accept this theory because man has always been the highest level of animals. We have considered...

chimps

did we really come from apes

evolution

man

monkey

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deidraisrad i find this theory so fascinating. it makes sense because we're so much like them the difference is that we are civilized and less hairy, well atleast some of us.so it's a big possibility that we did go through this long lasting development. i realy liked the...

9 Dec 06

Are people too quick to judge others and why do we make fast judgments?

Centregeek @Centregeek (500) • United States 8 Dec 06

Have you ever had someone try to put you into a neat little category and thought, "that's not who I am, it just doesn't fit"? I sometimes encounter people who make fast judgments about me without really trying to get to know me...

fast judgments

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deidraisrad unfortunately we live in a very judgemental society where prejudice and stereotyping still lurk. there's so many labels nowadays it's uncanny. i'm sure we all fit into one but people don't have the right to put you in those categories. you have to accept and...

9 Dec 06

Is it alright to lie,when you know that it is better than telling the truth?

naughtysexy @naughtysexy (110) • India 8 Dec 06

Im 17 and i hav got a boyfriend.My parents are unaware of this,i have been in this relation for almost 2 years now.Whenever i meet him,i have to lie to my parents as i cant tell them the truth,because they are...

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deidraisrad even though sometimes a lie will cover up something for the better it will eventually get you back in the end. just because it's better than telling the truth, it doesn't justify it. and it's good to feel guilty that means that you actually feel bad about it....

9 Dec 06

Pulp Fiction

Chapman15 @Chapman15 (1492) • United States 6 Dec 06

So I just finished watching Pulp Fiction. I was classifying it as a top gangster movie of alltime! But then I thought is it a true gangster movie? I mean movies like Casino, Scarface, and Goodfellas are true gangster movies is...

gangster movie

movie

pulp fiction

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deidraisrad i've seen pulp fiction thanks to my bf a couple of times. quentin tarantino is like a god to him. i don't thinkit's a ganster film, it might embody some of the characteristics but i believe it's much more intelligent and entertaining than most. although i...

8 Dec 06

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Anyone heard of Ina Garten?

tsprabhu @tsprabhu (705) • India 6 Dec 06

Ina Garten is an American chef, former caterer, cookbook author, columnist, and hostess of the Food Network program Barefoot Contessa. Known for demystifying fine cuisine with an emphasis on quality ingredients and timesaving...

martha stewart

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deidraisrad i'm a big fan of the foodnetwork and i see her from time to time because her show comes out after my favorite one which is everyday italian. now giada delaurentiis is incredible. watch her she'll keep you entertained and makes you want to go into the kitchen...

7 Dec 06

What do you think of suicide?

costello @costello (766) • Belgium 18 Nov 06

Is it brave do commit so or do you think of a coward by suicide?

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deidraisrad i think it's brave in a way because you'vre killing yourself, i would think it was a scary thing and to overcome that and just do it is brave. but i also think it's cowardly. yes life can be hard but never so hard that you take your life away. it doesn't make...

7 Dec 06

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Do you wish you could go out more often?

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 3 Oct 09

I am a person who used to go out twice a week with friends of an evening,then i cut that down to once a week.A few months ago i went through a stage where as i was ill and laid up in bed and did not want to go out.Then when i was...

children

friends

going out

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deidraisrad I am a person who used to go out twice a week with friends of an evening,then i cut that down to once a week.A few months ago i went through a stage where as i was ill and laid up in bed and did not want to go out.Then when i was better i wanted to go out...

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how to speak confidently in group or on stage.

ds1986lala @ds1986lala (106) • India 7 Dec 06

i really need help in this regard that i generally feel uncomfortable while speaking in a group of my friends there is always a fear of comments from their side and i also tremble while speaking on stage on some topic or while...

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deidraisrad i know exactly what you mean. althought i don't fear the comments from people at all. sometimes when i'm up front i forget what i'm talking about and it takes me a while to get the hang of the presentation again. it's the worst. especially when the...

7 Dec 06

Once a cheater always a cheater?

browneyedfatima @browneyedfatima (481) • Philippines 6 Dec 06

Will you forgive your husband if you find out that he cheated or is cheating on you? Will you believe him when he tells you that he wont do it again and you're the only woman for him? Ill be getting married soon and i cant help...

cheating

infidelity

marriage

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deidraisrad this is a difficult situation whether it's husband or boyfriend. i do believe that once you cheat eventually you'll do it again...more than likely. i do believe in letting people explain themselves and try to work it out. so the cheated should give the cheater...

7 Dec 06

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